Why do you think you don t have much contact with your family when you go to college?

Before college, I was basically with my parents, seeing each other every day or weekly. As soon as they met, their parents chattered and told you to study hard, to be like this, not like that. Maybe we quarrel with our parents every day, but we can't hide from college, and our parents still demand all kinds of things.

But the older a student gets, the less they want to be tied down. When the parents are asking for all kinds of contact, the students do not want to talk and do not want to take the initiative to contact.

Good news but not bad news. This is a concept shared by many people, including me. College students are still relatively stressed, and this perception reduces some of our contact with our families.

In elementary school, junior high school, and high school, most of our daily lives are reading and studying, and we are required by our parents and teachers to sit in the classroom and sit at the desk to write homework for exams. Whether it's extracurricular activities or simple play, it's all about learning first to get to college, every day is a wealth of activities, how to fall in love, how to fall in love, play every day, like a wild horse, how remember to hit your parents every day. In the later stage, I had to write **, go to graduate school, look for a job, and I was too busy to find the north.

I once witnessed my high school female classmates. She said: "When her child was admitted to college and left home, she lost sleep all night and worried about everything about her child.

When eating, think about whether the child's meal is hot or not; When I went to bed, I thought that the child was not covered; Usually always inexplicably pondering, worried about what the child is doing; Sometimes I wake up suddenly in my dreams, and I am also worried about my child." Because she has you in her heart!

Maybe it's not just after college, they also rarely contact their families in middle school, just because they lived under the same roof at the time.

There are not so many things in college life as I imagined, and I used to communicate in the past, and I was used to talking about things when I had nothing to do, so I didn't talk nonsense when I had nothing to do, so I asked for money every time I contacted him.

Today's children can "stick a knife in both ribs" for their friends, if you don't even want to beat your parents who gave birth to you and raised you, can your friends believe what you say?

My daughter is a sophomore in college, and I don't have much contact with her now. One is to get used to it, and the other is to get used to it. After all, it is impossible to stick to the child all the time, and the child cannot always stick to me. You may have time, but your children may not be idle.

If you were in love, would you give up every chance to connect? No, even you will create opportunities to connect, because you have her (him) in your heart.

After I went to college, every time my mother called me **, or you would say that I was not filial, but every time I hit **, the grievances in my heart would leave no room in front of them, and I couldn't help but cry, afraid that I would cry in front of them, which made them more worried.

It's hard to get rid of the supervision of adults, free, rest assured, there is no money** is coming