My mom has to ask me to find a rich boyfriend, what should I do?

This friend, please forgive me for saying bluntly: your mother thinks this way for your own good, but this is not right, maybe the old people think so, but have they ever thought that a marriage without happiness is unbearable.

1. If you have money, can you represent everything? Can you bring love? Nope

2. No matter how rich a man is, can you live with his money for the rest of your life? Can you keep her money? No.

3. You also have to follow your own situation to find a boyfriend, if you really love each other, you can only pay the price for your own love and work hard to earn money. Create your own home together. If you have to give, you will reap it. Believe the truth.

4. As long as your boyfriend is a trustworthy person, I think it shouldn't be a problem to hand over everything you have to him to buy a house.

5. Time will tell, and your salary adds up to no less than a month, so why not try it hard?

6. In this case, it will not be a problem to buy a house, are you afraid that the people in your family will not be willing to do so? Isn't it just for the money? Room? As long as you can work hard, it is not a problem.

7. For love, you have to pay, don't you? There is no gain if you don't pay, there is nothing to hesitate about, tell your family about and analyze this! Otherwise, you'll regret it.

8. After all, this is not a trivial matter, and the life maintained by money will not last long. After all, marriage is not a child's play, I hope you must consider it carefully. I hope you don't fall out with your family, and that's not good for you.

9. Finally, if you think about it, if there is a man who is rich, but are you sure that he will give you flowers? Everyone knows that men who are too rich are very attentive men. Can you reassure him?

The above is for your reference, I hope you can be happy, I sincerely wish you all!!

Do you want to be happy in the future, then go to find someone who really loves you, you also have to cherish him, life is realistic, but in this real life, how many people feel happy? Take it yourself, but don't fall out with your parents, take your time.

Ask your mom how much money your dad had when he married herIf you really insist, I will ask her to introduce the bank president to you!

If he really loves you, he will inevitably give you material abundance, if he is not, then there are two possibilities, one is that he is a person who has no interest, and the other is that he does not love you enough, no matter what it is, first of all, you should give up yourself, do you still need to go through your mother?

You have to understand your mother, if it were me, I would be like this. All her starting points are for your good! How to do it, the only way to do it is to communicate more! There's nothing in the world that can't be discussed! Bless you all!

In big cities, there are very few people who can afford housing prices alone, and they generally rely on their parents or both partners to take out loans after registration

The main thing for a boy is to be nice to you, and you can try to arrange a time to invite him to the house for dinner, so that parents can listen to his thoughts and contact his people

This kind of thing, the landlord decides for himself, but if your parents don't agree, it's really troublesome, depending on how your boyfriend treats you, whether it's a person who deserves to tell you to give up everything.

Give for love! There is nothing to hesitate about! I won't regret it for life!

Money is the same, people are not the same, money can be earned, what about people? You ask your mother, did she fall in love with your dad's money or your dad's person, when did she still think like this, is it because she has watched too many soap operas, your boyfriend is devoted to you, and it is not that he is an idle person.

Harshly, your mother is right, if you don't even have a house, what if you live together in the future?

To put it simply, unless you are mentally prepared for the hardships that may be difficult in your future life,8 I would advise you to give up

Your mom didn't think about your feelings, oops

When people are old, their minds are not so ...

Try to convince ...

Stick to your choice and convince your mom. There will be money later, and there will be no one who misses love.

As long as we work together, buying a house in the future will not be a problem.

But your mother is also good for you, you should talk to your mother well, and this man is not bad, fight for your love.

Your mom is for your own good.

Love you, don't care what others say.

I feel that if his mother is so snobbish, you want to be with him, and there will be no good results at that time, so the two of them should separate as soon as possible.

Strive to improve yourself and enhance your ability to deal with things and things. Try to make yourself better, remember to be financially independent, and have the ability to support yourself. If your boyfriend gives up on you without saying a word because of his mother's words, then you don't have to keep him, because the person who gives up on you when he encounters a setback not only does not love you enough, but also has a weak ability to resist pressure.

If you love each other, don't give up, it depends on how your boyfriend thinks about this matter, you can slowly let his family understand that not necessarily if you have money will be happy, and if you are happy together, a happy family will be happy.

should leave him, even if the two of them live together in the future, there will not be a good day when they marry into each other's family, so now we should decisively refuse to use the right time to find the right person, and we should not let ourselves have regrets.

In such a situation, I think you should communicate well with your boyfriend, and you should also let your boyfriend make his own decisions, if the two of you are very emotional, I think the two of you will face it together.

Looking at my boyfriend's opinion, if he listened to his mother's opinion, I should break up with him immediately, because such a person is not worthy of my love at all.

You should look at your boyfriend's attitude, and if he thinks the same way, then you should break up with him.

If your boyfriend loves you, he won't listen to his mom. Love now is a free relationship.

I think you can have a good discussion with your boyfriend to see what he thinks, and if he thinks like that, then you should break up, and if he still wants to be with you, then I think you should try to win his mom's liking.

You should work hard, don't give up, try to improve yourself, and tell your boyfriend's mom that you can be very good.

How to say it, it's not that my parents are too greedy for money, it's just that in today's society, marrying a person who has no money makes life really difficult and hard. Parents don't want their daughters to suffer for a lifetime.

Your parents must have suffered hardships and didn't have much money, so they didn't want you to go their way, if you married a rich man and lived a happy life, you will also ask your children to find a good family, character first, people are like this, parents are thinking about you, but their approach may not be completely correct.

You are looking for a boyfriend, and you will live with you in the future, not with your parents, aren't they good for you, life is very realistic, love is very dreamy, there is no money, but if you don't have the ability to make money, then wait and cry.

No, it's too realistic, you should listen to them.

When looking for a boyfriend, you must find someone with good quality and self-motivation, and such a man is a potential stock. It's good to find a rich boyfriend, the premise is to ensure that he has money and loyalty for the rest of his life, but you have seen that there are not many rich people around you, ten years in Hedong and ten years in Hexi, the future is not good, what can be guaranteed is the good character of people.

No, your parents are afraid that you will not be able to keep up with your material life after marriage, and they are afraid that you will suffer.

Because the times are different, they have experienced an era when they can't eat, and they must have a good feeling when they get married, and they can't be happy in their lives with people they don't like every day.

In fact, if your parents ask you to find someone rich, it doesn't necessarily mean that your parents are greedy for money? Parents want you to have a better life in the future, and it's really hard to have a life without money.

Yes, you must find what you really like, don't ask for money.

I think that since your parents are like this, there is indeed a certain reason, and they are also for your own good.

This is the experience that your parents summed up with half a lifetime of experience, the social reality is that the competition is fierce, the pressure is too great, if you can find a rich one, you can work hard for half a life.

Experience! Experience! When you start to live your life, you will realize it deeply.

Love in books will eventually lose to life, this society is very realistic, from this aspect, the idea of parents is understandable, who doesn't want their children to live an easier life.

In fact, parents are not wrong with this idea, and they don't want you to suffer with your husband in the future.

No, it's because I'm afraid you'll be wronged.

Every parent wants their child to have a good life, so they do it for your future.

Because parents know that life is inseparable from money, and it is easy to have family conflicts without money.

They want you to have a good life.

In my opinion, parents must have a reason for letting themselves find a rich man, probably because they are afraid that you will be wronged.

Actually, no, what parent doesn't want their children to be good.

It can be seen that you are a very upright and pure girl, but your parents do not respect your personality and want to exchange your appearance for money, which is immoral, you have to fight them to the end, reply to them with justice, you have to show their attitude to them, don't let their conspiracy be punished.

Isn't the family a bit patriarchal, otherwise they wouldn't instigate their daughters to spend other people's money. If the daughter identifies as a boyfriend, her happiness still has to be grasped by herself.

If you feel uncomfortable, it means that you still have a conscience, you have the principle of being your own person, you love your boyfriend very much, and you don't want your boyfriend to spend money, you and your family are obviously different, your family members are people who like to take advantage of small advantages, but you are not, you are good, you can't spend your boyfriend's money before you get married, otherwise you will be condemned by your beloved.

It is understandable that a man should marry a woman when she marries, you will get married sooner or later, and the family also wants you to find a boyfriend, who can help the family and improve the living standard of the family, which is also understandable, although you are uncomfortable, you should also be considerate of the actual situation at home. I wish you happiness.

There's nothing uncomfortable, after all, it's your own parents, sometimes all kinds of etiquette, spending money is a must, remember, the harder things to get, the more cherished, so the more money you spend, the more your boyfriend loves you.

Hello, your family makes your boyfriend spend all kinds of money, and you feel uncomfortable in your heart because you feel as if you have been sold, or you feel that doing so is an unreasonable and unfair way of marriage.

It seems that you are a good girl, and if you don't approve of your family's practices, you can communicate well with your family, and if you can't communicate, you can ask your boyfriend to buy them less things.

There is indeed a big problem with your family's approach, what is your relationship with your boyfriend now, if you want to go on for a long time, you have to learn to refuse your family's unreasonable demands. When you find a boyfriend, you want to live with each other in the future, because of love, don't let him think that you are with him for money. Now that you are an adult, you have the right sense of right and wrong, and don't let your family members control your thoughts and life all the time.

You don't live together, how can the people in the family ask your boyfriend for money under their own excuses, and there is this phenomenon before you get married, then your boyfriend may be afraid of your future married life, is the family like this? It doesn't matter if he wants the east or the west.

According to your own wishes, don't listen to your family and ask your boyfriend for money to spend indiscriminately. It's not just that you're uncomfortable, so your boyfriend looks down on you.

If you feel uncomfortable, it means that your three views are more correct, and your family's values are incorrect, and I can only say that you are a good girl. Equality in any relationship will last and be respected.

emmm, my first reaction when I saw your question was that your family was greedy for cheap. Under normal circumstances, spending his money should have a return gift or mutual help, if you and your boyfriend develop to the point of marriage, your family spends his money to show that he has become his own family, your boyfriend is willing to pay shows that he is open-minded and not a stingy person, and it can be seen that he loves you very much, accepts your family, and also shows that you love your boyfriend very much ( - I wish you both happiness.

This is the wrong person in your family, you can't let your family dictate your love life at will, this will cause your family to become a lazy person who keeps asking you for money, you had better communicate with your family and change this situation, otherwise your future life will be disrupted.

Your family is using your boyfriend as an ATM. When the time comes, you are not afraid to pay back the money when you break up?

Your values differ from those of your family, perhaps due to your relatively high level of education and your choice of tools to measure them. The family chooses to measure the simple and crude economic conditions, just like the Tianjin teacher who has recently become popular in the circle uses how much money he earns to measure the quality of students, while you choose more non-money rulers. This difference in the choice of rulers will inevitably lead to conflicts, and it depends on who can stick to the standard to the end.

Parents want their daughters to marry well, and it may be that more and more parents now understand that if you are good for you, these will change, and compared to it, the economy may be more secure.

"Good to you" is a false proposition that is not strong......