I feel like I m a slow cryophile, what should I do? 10

I smiled at your question, because you are similar to me, and I don't have many friends, so I can't talk about advice, so I'll tell you how I did it myself. Slow-burning people tend to put a set of "body armor" on their bodies invisibly, because they are sensitive, they always think that someone is unfavorable to me or conjecture to guess and fall, and they fall into passivity. I haven't changed until now, I don't think ** is bad, I was born to be useful, why care about other people's thoughts, you are not happy to make friends with me, I am too lazy to say hello to you, I have nothing to do like to read miscellaneous studies, read famous books, watch all kinds of favorite horror movies, comedies, not to teach you to live in your world, I live like this, although there are not many friends, but there are 2 confidants, to me is really like a brother in the movie, I didn't say it, the sky is falling, they will give me a top of it, one or two confidants in life, enough!

In fact, as long as you deal with the people around you, you can deal with the past, those forces, the worldly because their life orientation is very narrow, why should you be with them in general, why bother to ask for hardships, it is best to stay away from those who are not profitable, in short, let you tell you a word: go your own way, let others envy it.

In fact, you are not stupid, you are unwilling to hide it, the reality is like this, too much hypocrisy, too much selfishness. You don't have to be cynical, because you can't change others, be yourself, treat everyone around you sincerely, and believe that others will treat you sincerely, although it can't be everyone. You say that if you always stay in one place for a long time, you will feel inferior and feel stupid, but in fact, you are trying to say that if you have known them for a long time, you will slowly find that they are so hypocritical and cannot fit into them.

As for low emotional intelligence, I can't teach you this. If I'm right, then you have to have a personality that resembles me, and I hate hypocrisy, I hate pretenses, but I have a few friends who are closer than my own brothers, and I think that's enough. As for emotional intelligence, I guess I'm worse than you!

Are you too egoistic?

Maybe you're being too hypocritical?

Judging from your symptoms, it has nothing to do with others, mainly your own inner trouble.

Man! You have to live a little more freely, or you will be depressed all day long for others to look at you if your eyes are not gentle enough, and you will still look like a gentleman.

Even if someone really says that you can't do it, so what, you will be Lao Tzu and practice hard from then on, and one day they will regret it when they are developed.

In fact, people are like this, how can there be smooth sailing, so you must continue to practice and understand, so that you can be comfortable in the environment you live in in the future.

Do you always like to compare yourself to others? And it will also have low self-esteem. I don't know why you think that.

Master Confucius said that there must be my teacher in the threesome, choose the good ones and follow them, and change the bad ones. See the wisdom and think together. When you see the bad things of others, you should introspect yourself, and you must not be like that. Just take your time. You're going to be excellent, come on!

You want to be able to demonstrate your ability in interpersonal communication, but in fact, this is simply to reflect your communication ability. In the beginning, you don't know anyone, so you can be lively and optimistic, but after a long time, your feelings of "pursuit of perfection, naivety, insecurity, and high expectations" begin to manifest. You have a very shallow understanding of society, so you will say that you feel that some people are vulgar and powerful, and you will sympathize with the weak.

Your pain** is skewed from the way you see things.

Why do you feel inferior? In fact, everyone has their own strengths and things that others don't have.

Becoming sensitive, is it a previous hurt in friendship or love?

Slow Cold - Liang Jingru.

Words: Yao Ruolong.

Music: Xiao Huangqi.

op：great music publishing ltd.

It's all done, it's like that's all over.

Always sit in silence.

There was a dark night in his eyes.

Feelings are paranoid, and the more you love, the more paranoid you become.

Don't believe what I'm seeing.

To say that the cracks are nothing more than wrinkles.

How can it be hot first but cold first?

The slow heat can't stop and it's still boiling.

Look at the time, run willfully, and turn around at will.

People who are slow and cold will torture themselves.

Impulsive people have never been able to hear and retain.

The world is so big that it's hard not to travel.

Romance makes you gentle and makes you the most tearful.

Hold your hand as if nothing happened.

You are like a passive puppet.

How ruthless and disgusting spoilers.

Why is it hot first, but the first laugh turns cold.

The slow heat can't stop and it's still boiling.

Look at the time, run willfully, and turn around at will.

People who are slow and cold will torture themselves.

Impulsive people have never been able to hear and retain.

The world is so big that it's hard not to travel.

Romance makes you gentle and makes you the most tearful.

Love is never invincible, and the character is the most painful.

I always remember to start.

Throbbed by fierce love.

How can it be hot first but cold first?

The slow heat can't stop and it's still boiling.

Look at the time, run willfully, and turn around at will.

People who are slow to rise and cold will be self-guessing and tormented.

Impulsive people have never been able to hear and retain.

The world is so big that it's hard not to travel.

Romance makes you gentle and makes you the most tearful.