Confucius, what is the view on success and failure?

Confucius advocated "learning and learning from time to time, is it also enjoyable?" That is to say, in your life, you should not give up self-cultivation, do not give up transforming the mind, correcting the mind, and saving the soul. If you don't do it well, it can be painful for you to have even the most money.

Success and failure in life should not be based on whether you have money, but on whether you are happy or not.

For example, if you have a lot of money in your pockets at this moment, but you spend this hour in pain, then you will fail this hour. Although you are a king, although you have a lot of money, but this hour you are miserable, then this hour of your life is a failure. Although you are asking for food, if you are happy for this hour, then you are successfully alive for this hour.

For example, if a person lives in a very luxurious room, but his mentality is very jealous, then although the room is luxuriously decorated, the person is still miserable; Although a person lives in a hut, if the mind is happy, then the person is still happy.

Like ordinary people, he studied diligently and tried to control his words and deeds, probably not for the sake of cultivating his temperament and enjoying himself. He lobbied everywhere and wanted to fulfill his ambitions and accomplish something.

After many failed lobbying attempts, Confucius said, "I don't want to say anything. ”

In desperation, I saw Confucius's thirst for success and depression for failure.

Success or failure, gain or lose, depending on the wisdom of the people.

Diligent and studious.

After his own hard work, Confucius finally became an expert in the six arts. In fact, when Confucius was very young, he showed a very strong interest in the culture of ritual music. In the "Historical Records".

Sima Qian in "The Family of Confucius".

There is such a saying, he said"Confucius frolicked for children, often displayed beans and set up courtesy"。

Extended Materials. The growth of the saints.

The earliest ancestor of Confucius was Shang Tang.

The founding emperor of the Shang Dynasty, the Son of Heaven, Shang Tang was a royal family. Confucius's family declined with the changes of the times, from the Son of Heaven to the princes, from the princes to the doctors, and multiplied from generation to generation. Confucius's father, Liang Su.

used to be a slaughterer of the city, which is equivalent to the head of the township. Shu Liang Su is known for his bravery, very brave, strong physique, and high martial arts. When Confucius was 3 years old, his uncle Liang Su died, and after his uncle Liang Su died, his mother Yan Zheng took the three-year-old Confucius and lived hard, but this lonely and bitter single-parent family life did not leave a shadow on Confucius's childhood growth, but made the young Confucius understand the helplessness of life earlier, and also strengthened his confidence in life.

It is suitable for the peaceful and prosperous era, because such an idea also requires the ruler to be benevolent, and the ruler in the troubled era has no ability to be benevolent at all, because this will lose the dominant position, so the way of Confucius and Mencius is most suitable for the peaceful and prosperous era.

The way of Confucius and Mencius is actually more suitable for that kind of peaceful and prosperous era, when the people live and work in peace and contentment, it is suitable to use the way of Confucius and Mencius to govern the country, not suitable for war years.

The way of Confucius and Mencius is suitable for peaceful times, and there is no war. The country is stable, and the ruler needs the way of Confucius and Mencius to rule ideologically and maintain stability. Only when the people have enough food and clothing, live and work in peace and contentment, will they pursue moral improvement and ideological progress.

I think there's some truth to your idea! But I think Confucius still has his greatness。。

Success and failure are between one thought, there is no recognized boundary, the height of thought and the practical practicality are different concepts

Hehe, one era and one concept.

Setbacks are not terrible, and setbacks are a must in life, so we should face them squarely.

Not only should we not be afraid of setbacks, but we should be grateful for them. He tells us the eight-character truth of life: face up, unyielding, composed, and forge ahead.

Frustration is a blessing: people see flowers and smiling faces in good times, however, the soul that is accustomed to joy often can't bear the load of blows, only to face setbacks, taste the ups and downs of the world, and feel the cold and warm of the world, in order to have more layers of understanding of life, and better understand the true meaning of life. Seon lost his horse, how to know if it is a blessing!

Don't be afraid of setbacks, don't be disgusted, in a way, setbacks are a good thing for us to experience will, only setbacks and difficulties can make a person strong, become unreasonable. Setbacks can exercise our ability to overcome difficulties, the big trees in the forest, different storms and rains have fought thousands of times, the trunk will not grow very strong, people do not encounter all kinds of setbacks, their personality, skills will not mature, all the tribulations, sorrows and sorrows, are enough to help us grow, train us. Setbacks are enough to ignite a person's enthusiasm, awaken a person's potential, and make him achieve success, a person with skills and backbone, can turn "disappointment" into "motivation" like a clam shell, and turn the sand of troubles into pearls.

Both setbacks and failures are guides to success. Frustration is also a good school for life, frustration is a school that everyone must experience, in this school, you will learn how to behave, you will learn to think independently, how to choose, all this determines the fate of your life. Psychologists believe that

The experience of setbacks can develop the ability to deal with risks calmly, and once you find that you can survive the risks, you will have less fear of failure. How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? Life without failure is by no means a perfect life, when you overcome failure, you will have a deeper understanding of success, it is in such a perception again and again, you have walked out of a perfect life.

The philosopher Collins said, "Success can only be a temporary appearance without setbacks, and only through the ordeal of setbacks can success shine like pure gold." Setbacks are not terrible, what is terrible is that after experiencing setbacks but not knowing the lessons of setbacks, temporary setbacks should not be the cause of depression, but should be the starting point for continuing to struggle.

Avoiding setbacks is not the solution to the problem, the best way is to get along with setbacks, not afraid of setbacks, have the courage to face him, accept him, and learn from the setbacks the experience and nutrition of life, so that they can gradually grow and grow in the process of constantly experiencing and overcoming setbacks, until they reach success.

I sincerely hope that you can face up to setbacks, despise setbacks, face setbacks bravely, and eventually lead to success. For your own happiness, for the happiness after success, let's work hard. Come on. We work together for happiness.