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First, postpone gratification. That is, not to covet temporary comfort, but to reset the order of happiness and pain in life.
Second, assume the responsibility of the world. That is, you have to face your own problem and not expect it to disappear or someone else to solve it.
Third, respect the facts. According to the actual situation, adjust your "life map" in time, and let go of some obsessions.
Fourth, maintain balance. It means striking a delicate balance between conflicting needs, goals, and responsibilities.
It can be seen that the goal of the four principles of self-discipline is to solve problems and set us on a journey of mental growth.
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Obeying the rules is a person's top self-discipline.
It doesn't matter if you're a big star or a flat-headed commoner, you shouldn't have the privilege of going beyond the rules.
Everyone in this world wants freedom and convenience. But there is no absolute freedom at all, at least your convenience cannot be premised on the convenience of others.
The more people who have seen the world, the more they understand this and the more they respect the rules.
Don't think that you can do whatever you want with how many fans and how much money you have. What is truly respectable is always the quality and pattern of a person.
In recent years, some Chinese people have become rich, but the sense of rules is still far behind.
As small as queuing up to get on the bus, there are always people cutting in line; Big to business negotiations, non-compliance with contracts. Many people still go their own way, and everything is subject to their own convenience.
In the eyes of these people, the so-called rules are only followed when they are beneficial to themselves, and if there is no benefit, they can be trampled on at will.
If virtue is not worthy, there will be calamity.
Some people don't have a strong sense of rules and think that they can make exceptions to everything. In the end, it will definitely be a bloody encounter in the face of reality.
Huainanzi said: If the moment is not right, it cannot be square; If the rules are not right, it cannot be round.
The history of mankind is a history of rule-making and evolution, and the so-called civilization is the formulation of rules and the observance of rules.
In ancient society, materials were scarce, and people had to seek survival from the sky and beg for food from the earth.
Therefore, the ancients were full of reverence for nature, and they must follow the rules of nature when working in agriculture, which is the origin of the 24 solar terms.
That's why Mencius said: If you don't violate the agricultural time, the grain cannot be eaten; The number of dogs does not enter the pond, and the fish and turtles cannot be eaten; The axe catty enters the mountains and forests at the right time, and the timber is not usable.
In modern society, human activities have expanded dramatically, and the risks faced by people have increased exponentially, which makes it even more necessary to have rules to keep everyone safe.
From the safety regulations of driving to the business transactions, the sense of rules is tightly permeated.
If you don't follow the rules, the consequences are often more serious than you think.
Just like the tragedy that happened in Badaling Zoo in 17 years, the family ignored the park's repeated orders and got off the bus halfway, resulting in the mother being bitten to death by a tiger.
The British writer Samuel Johnson said: "A great master can only display his creative talent in strict rules."
When it is convenient for oneself, it is also convenient for others, which shows a person's pattern and insight.
The more restricted, the more noble freedom is revealed. True freedom is actually the product of self-discipline.
Remember, society is not your parents, and no one really is going to get used to you.
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Because without principled people, they simply cannot be self-disciplined in life.
In real life, everyone wants to be successful, but not everyone is as good as they think. Only people who are self-disciplined enough can go further and further on the road to success, and most self-disciplined people have their own principles.
Self-discipline is an ability, and not everyone has it. I have gained twenty or thirty pounds since I got married, and I have always wanted to **, and I have made a very detailed fitness plan, but each plan does not last more than a week.
I knew that I was very poor at self-discipline, and I always wanted to be more self-disciplined, but I never did. I looked around at the people around me and found that there were very few people who could actually be self-disciplined.
I once analyzed the reason why I couldn't be self-disciplined, maybe because I was always prone to compromise in life, or maybe because I wasn't hard enough on myself.
It is easy to compromise in life because I do not have a specific code of conduct for life; I wasn't cruel enough to myself, maybe because I was already indulging in my current ordinary life.
It is difficult for people without principles to achieve self-discipline, and self-discipline is actually a kind of principle. I'm not a self-disciplined person, and I'm not a principled person in life. I am always influenced by the people around me, I always change my mind, and I am always prone to compromise in life.
Perhaps it is precisely because of this unprincipled attitude to life that it is difficult for me to be self-disciplined and to achieve what I really want to do. I think self-discipline is one of the principles of a person's life, just as there are always some bottom lines in our hearts to adhere to, some people have integrated self-discipline into their lives.
In fact, self-discipline is a matter of persistence, but there are really few people who can persist in life. The persistence in our lives is always easily interrupted by various things, and we want to change, but in the end we don't do anything.
Maybe if you become a principled person, you will be more and more self-disciplined in life, and you will become better and better.
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I have to say that people who can be self-disciplined, they usually have strict requirements for themselves in life, so they are very principled, and such people are also worthy of our cherishment.
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Because people who can be self-disciplined, they all have goals to strive for, and they will not affect their plans because of some small things.
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Because this kind of person knows how to control himself, he is very principled in everything he does, and this is their character.
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Because people who can be self-disciplined are people who have pursuits, and know what to do and what not to do, this is the principle.
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Because a person who can be self-disciplined is a person who has strict requirements for himself, and of course he is a very principled person.
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Because people who can be self-disciplined have a very clear goal in life and can restrain themselves, they must have principles.
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Because self-disciplined people often have relatively high requirements for themselves, they will naturally have certain principles and bottom lines.
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Because self-disciplined people have their own plans, have their own goals, and will be strict with themselves, they have their own principles.
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He is self-disciplined enough, so he is strict with himself, this kind of person generally has his own bottom line, and with a bottom line, there will be principles, and principles are bottom lines.
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