What is the closest thing to perfection in the world?

Survival of the fittest, to deal with complex interpersonal relationships, in fact, interpersonal relationships are not complicated, the focus depends on whether your mentality is good, learn the advantages of others, make up for your own shortcomings, and treat everyone with a humble and friendly attitude.

Complaining can make you lose credibility. When you don't succeed in what you do, you have the courage to admit your shortcomings and try to make things as successful as possible. Moderate self-examination will not make people look down on you, on the contrary, always emphasizing objective reasons, complaining about this, complaining about that, will only make others despise you.

It's easy to think of poverty when you're prosperous. Smart people prepare for winter. Be sure to make more friends. Maintain good relationships with friends and colleagues, and one day you will value people or things that don't seem important right now.

First of all, please don't lie, or you will lose the trust of others, and trust cannot be bought with money. Learn to make concessions: excessive disputes are not beneficial to yourself and lack of self-cultivation, do not quarrel with others, even if you are dissatisfied with others, do not be hostile to others, you know, take a step back and open the sky.

Reservations: Excessive arguments are not helpful and unself-contained. In general, one should not rush to express one's attitude or express one's opinion, leaving people uncertain. Cautious silence is shrewd evasion.

Always talk about your strengths and show off your strengths in front of others. This invisibly devalues others and exalts yourself, and the result is that others look down on you more.

Exaggeration is detrimental to truth and makes it easy to cast doubt on your perception. The shrewd person restrains himself, shows caution, speaks concisely and to the point, and never exaggerates himself. Overvaluing oneself is a form of lying.

It can damage your reputation and have a very bad impact on your relationships. It is detrimental to your grace and intellect.

Promote your most outstanding talents and nurture other areas. As long as you know your strengths and grasp them, all people will be prominent in something.

1. In fact, everything has a degree, don't worry about yourself anymore.

2. "If you say too much, you will lose." ”

If you are on the scene, it will be colorful, and it will not be harmless (after all, they are all small people, what do you want a bird to do with a false name like "this person will do things or xx"). To be a human being, you must have the ability to solve problems (which should be the most valued).

Of course, it is also necessary to say some face-saving words along with those masters, otherwise you will give the illusion that you are very arrogant and unkind. If you don't want to be considered like this, just be reasonable and polite.

3. In fact, those obedient words are only important to those who have the power, and ordinary people only talk about benefits and respect. Those who only ask others to boast about themselves and give up their actual interests are those who are ambitious and talented.

And your scenes are too beautiful, too sweet (instead of decent, moderate) to be offensive.

1 The wise man smiles, but the stupid man is cold.

2 Smart people remember other people's names, stupid people want names to be remembered3 Smart people understand other people's minds, stupid people express their own needs4 Smart people are good listeners, and stupid people are impatient.

2. Don't make meaningless arguments.

5 The wise first agree, and the stupid first deny.

8 The wise man changes what he knows, but the foolish man is stubborn.

3. Don't say anything.

9 The wise man suggests tactfully, but the stupid man denies it.

10 A wise man does not speak a word, but a foolish man goes straight to the point.

11 The wise are silent, and the stupid people do not choose their words.

12 The wise man refuses tactfully, but the foolish man is indifferent and opposed.

Fourth, learn to be adaptable.

13 A wise man speaks to the object, but a stupid man speaks blindly.14 A wise man is good at reading words and feelings, and a stupid man does not "do what he likes."

15 A wise man looks at the occasion, but a stupid man has "a tendon."

There are always many requirements for being a person and doing things, but in fact, they can be summed up in three words: ambition, knowledge, and constant. Zhi is the beginning and the goal; Knowledge is experience, accumulation; Constant is to continue, is to persevere.

Aspiration is a kind of goal and determination. "People have no ambition, non-people are also", only when people have ambitions and goals, life can be motivated, and days can be rushed. Be a man and do things should have confidence, ambition, and goals, "self-confidence in life is hot for a hundred years, and it will be three thousand miles of water".

Consciousness refers to a person's understanding and perception of themselves and the world outside themselves. "Knowledge" is based on knowledge, knowledge is knowledge, the ultimate foothold of "knowledge" lies in the cognition and judgment of things, the accuracy of this cognition and the correctness of judgment, lies in "seeing", it does not completely depend on knowledge, but often has a relationship with people's thinking and comprehension, people often use seeing and knowledge together to call insight.

To be a person and do things, we must learn to persevere. Life is a long marathon, and only those who go through pain and persevere can achieve something. In the course of life, there are many times when we feel pain and want to give up, in fact, at this time, as long as we hold on a little longer, we will usher in new hope.

Life is like a journey, first of all, there must be ambitions, goals, the journey process is a continuous experience, the process of increasing knowledge, in this process the horizon continues to widen, eyes can accommodate more people, more things, but in order to reach the final destination, but also have perseverance, can not give up halfway.

It's all about it, it's the best way to do it.