My girlfriend cares about my parents very much, and she doesn t want to marry me if she doesn t buy

They have their own families and lives, and likewise their parents have their own lives.

I don't approve of parents living with their children. Of course, if you need to take care of it, that's another story.

There is a saying that is very true, they are all good people, but because of different living habits and concepts, everyone has become bad people in the end.

There are many, many ways to be filial to your parents, and you don't have to live together.

You have to have your own life. You can just buy a house for yourself. Pay off the loan together, it's your own house, your own home, how much you have a sense of belonging.

It's normal. Modern people don't like to live with their families.

Hehe, in fact, there are many inconveniences in living with parents.

You'll find out.

It's best to buy a house where your parents live, not too far away.

Go back on Saturdays and Sundays.

It's good to live your own little life.

If she thinks so, you don't have any way at all, just buy it, remember to write your own name, if it's better to be an only child, write the name of your parents, and you will have a more reliable stroke in the future divorce. Ha ha.

Nowadays, in today's society, many people will encounter similar problems! I think you should communicate with your girlfriend about this kind of problem! After all, that's our own mother; Who doesn't want to live with her son? But now that it's okay, why move out on your own!

You can also talk to your girlfriend in reverse, and talk to her without directly talking about the problem, as if telling a story. Just try to ask him if he's okay! I think your girlfriend will definitely agree to live with your parents, and I wish you a happy and harmonious family.

In a few years, you can still have children and grandchildren. Flickering.

You work hard to make money and sell a house.

1: First of all, you look at the problem differently. "But what about me? It's not hard for me to go home.

Is it so? Then I think that if a woman marries a man, she should follow the man and go to the man's place", this sentence seems logical, but if you change it to any member of your woman's family, or imagine that you have a pair of daughters in the future, can you still say it so calmly. You're a very selfish person.

2: Whether and where to buy a house depends on your own future life plans. If you develop in Jinan, you will buy in Jinan, and if you develop in Rizhao, you will buy in Rizhao.

From my point of view, it is the same strange environment wherever you buy, and it is the same as a country man entering the city wherever you buy. (I'm also a country man who went to the city, and I know that buying a house in a big city may not be right for me.) ）

3: If you have limited funds and you have a development project on hand, it may not be wise to buy a house. And once you buy a house, you must have at least three rooms.

4: I see you're just a big kid with a long hair. I feel sorry for your wife, after getting married, she will not only take the younger one, but also serve the older one. Parents are inseparable fate, and if the wife does not hurt, the family will no longer exist.

5: When you both have the confidence to be together and live happily, no one will break you apart.

In fact, it is very difficult for his parents to raise two daughters, you can understand it, it is the same everywhere, ** If the development is good, you can buy it anywhere.

I think you're lacking in communication! You should explain your difficulties to her parents! It's easy to do later!

The key is what the two of you think, others can't control your thoughts.

If the other parent's compulsion wants you to buy a house over there, you should ask your girlfriend what she thinks.

The best solution lies in the emotions of both of you. Why don't you ask about the emotions of both of you, but come and ask strangers?

In fact, how to say it, as you said, if a woman marries a man, she should go with the man, and it is natural to go to the man's house to live, if so, it is against common sense. I don't think that's anything, what two people live together for, not for that, right? It's okay to buy a house on the woman's side, but buying a house doesn't mean staying there all the time, isn't your place of work in**?

That's why, too! If you really don't want to, you can also use these to talk to your father-in-law, saying that you have a good job at the moment and a good future for your future. At the same time, you can also promise him that he will come home to see them often!

In fact, you should understand very well what they think of you in their hearts, and what they say is different from what they think. Saying something like that for a purpose! As long as you can break his defense, everything is equal to zero!

Good luck and happiness for your family. Figure it out...

You are looking for one when you go back to Jinan, and it's not just your girlfriend.

Go with what you feel, intuition is the best answer. It is also necessary to consider all aspects of life, work, family and economy, not only looking at the immediate but also looking at the long-term, and try to talk to the other party's family.

You're right, I suggest you communicate with your girlfriend and see what her attitude is. If she listens to you, that's fine. If she is the same as his family, then you can communicate with him first, talk to his family, and if you have a heart, you don't care, just go and see it often.

If you have money, you will buy it, and if you don't have money, you will not buy it.

You can tell her parents that we will work hard to create our home together.

Maybe discuss this problem with the woman, tell her about your difficulties, and discuss how to deal with the matter.

It's normal for the woman's parents to want their daughter to stay around.,After all, my parents think so too.,I'm afraid that my daughter won't be able to go back to her parents' house for bullying (hehe.。。 It's just my personal opinion) After all, parents are always worried about their children. I really can't give you an opinion, maybe ask your girlfriend what she thinks?

Or maybe talk to your family. If both sides can't agree on the same opinion, then you have to use your patience and perseverance to impress them; Convince them! Ha ha.

Love is something to give!

Why did her parents [keep asking]? You don't seem to have figured it out!

Is your brother married? Is it with your parents? If she is 'with you', who guarantees that her sister will be by her parents' side when she gets married in the future?

You don't seem to have thought about it!

Of course, the most important thing is: the [limitations] of your 'career'.

If you really can't 'move', you just have to 'communicate' and 'fight'. And to [long-term arrangement] her parents' 'plan'.

Otherwise, it's no fun. Because they have been asking for what is 'necessary'!

After reading what you said, your girlfriend listens to her parents! So what are the final results? First, drag it directly! Second breakup! Third, listen to her efforts over there to buy a house! Fourth, this one is relatively bad, don't talk about it! Hehe.

You just say that you don't have a fixed career now, and you don't want to buy a house yet.

So what do you women think? Let's be realistic, whoever has a good environment has the final say!

Of course, since this question is being raised, you must give some answers, such as when you are going to buy a house and in what way to complete this task. to show that you value other people's requirements, after all, people definitely don't want to suffer after marrying their daughters. Everyone has a starting point, and they will definitely not be born, that is, they will be rich and rich, but you must give others a responsible performance.

If you don't agree with that girlfriend, you will definitely break up if you have such a request, so as a man marrying a wife must buy a house, and this kind of thing is also very normal.

Not necessarily, your parents don't buy it, you can buy it, or you and your girlfriend work together to buy your own house, it depends on what your girlfriend thinks, and now many women require a car and a house to get married.

If you don't agree and break up, then break up bravely, because such a girlfriend only pays attention to material things and doesn't pay attention to you at all.

Not necessarily, it depends on the attitude of the girlfriend, if it is very resolute, it will break up, and if the attitude is ambiguous, it may not break up.

It depends on your relationship situation, if your girlfriend really likes you, then she will not break up, if she values material things more seriously, it is possible to break up.

It will indeed be so. Because the woman asks you to buy a house, it is time to talk about marriage, and if you don't agree, you will definitely break up.

It's definitely not going to break up, but it's very likely that the attitude towards you won't be as good as before, just learn to endure it.

I can't afford to buy it, I don't buy it.

Of course, you have to rely on yourself to get married and buy a house, how can you let your family pay for it? Even if the family comes out, they will be said to be very difficult in the end.

Take 10,000 steps back, her family wants you to go to Xuzhou to find a job, go to Xuzhou to buy a house, and pay it off in a lump sum, why? It's not your parents-in-law yet.

If she can make a fuss about the house, it can only prove that her family did not see the reality clearly, how can He Qing, a young man who has been out of school for two years, have an economic foundation?

I don't know what they're thinking.

You have to rely on yourself for work, and gnawing all the time will not work. Saying that he is incapable, no one is born with the ability to meditate.

I have this problem around me now, but I will never give in.

1. First of all, you must be honest and respect each other, and at the same time, you must also fight with reason and show self-confidence.

2. If the other party's family just thinks that you have nothing now and opposes it, it is relatively simple, first consider whether you are capable of being self-motivated now? Will she be able to change the situation and give her a better life in the next few years? If you can, then don't hesitate, just talk to her father, tell him what you think, tell him that you have the ability to get a good life, it doesn't matter if a man has no money when he is young, but he can't be without money forever, he must be able and self-motivated, as long as you have, you have enough confidence to negotiate, you can make a promise or agreement with him, complete some goals as soon as possible to show him, I believe he will understand you.

3. In fact, it is more important to let the other party's family see that you really care about and treat her, the woman's family hopes that their daughter will marry well and not endure hardship, as long as you are very good to her, then there is still a certain probability of being able to convince, I am like this, the family conditions are not good, the other party's family did not agree at first, and now I agree.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

In fact, it is more important to let the other party's family see that you really care about and treat her, the woman's family hopes that their daughter will marry well and will not endure hardship, as long as you are good to her, then there is still a certain probability that you can be convinced, I am like this, the family conditions are not good, the other party's family did not agree at first, and now I agree.

Don't talk about the reality of the woman's parents, what do you think you can give your girlfriend? You have just come out of society now, do you have the strength to give your girlfriend a nest of her own in the next few years? Can you support your girlfriend on your own?

If two people want to be together, it's not just a matter of talking. Firewood, rice, oil, and salt should be considered. What can you do?

First of all, as a man, I don't think to go.

Why? bai

1 Her emotional foundation, people and veins are all there, you have nothing zhi there you will feel that she is very popular, and she is like an outsider. So what are you going to do to control her?

2How can you tolerate her parents' unreasonableness?

3. Aren't your parents very sad when you go there?

4 Your career is the most important, if you are there for a long time, there are no connections, no foundation, you will be overwhelmed! Not to mention having extra energy to love her! At this time, it is inevitable that some local people will intervene in their feelings!

Think carefully. I support you in putting your career first, and it's best for women to follow you!

Or let you communicate with your girlfriend and her mother.,Generally marriage is a matter of two families.,It's troublesome.。。。

Don't go, it's like getting into a lot of money over there, and people gossip. Since her mother is so worried, why should she hand over her daughter to you, but there is still a way, hehe.

The two of you have a child first.

And then threaten her mother.

If you go to someone's place, won't that be an inverted door?

Resolutely can't go!

First ditch bai pass!

In fact, there are many such examples around us! zhi

It's best to ask your girlfriend to talk about it! Bi Ban is not in the same city!

Adults think about the problem is relatively long-term!

If two people are separated, and the girl has a guarantee, one of my classmates just bought a house at the woman's house, and he didn't go there much, and finally the two of them divorced, and the house was given to the woman's family.