Feelings are maliciously blocked by others

Now you can only take a beating or give up. But in the long run, since you are more settled, you can choose to retreat as advance. Settle down to study, do your best in all aspects, and let your own charm continue to increase.

At the same time, always pay attention to the girl's situation, help her when necessary, or give her comfort, but not as a boyfriend. Wait until one of your help really touches that girl, and she will understand what you mean. What you can do now is to work hard, seek opportunities, and wait for changes to ensure that you have enough ability to grasp it and seek the greatest benefits for yourself when that change occurs.

Caution to others to be mindful of the impact you have on a college student when you speak. Persuade him to fight, persuade him to do whatever it takes for love, persuade him to make hob meat, if this student is really your own child, would you say that?The handling of this matter may be related to his life.

Listen to me, no matter what, in college, don't bury your studies for love, otherwise you will find that you have nothing after graduating from college.

..It seems that your vision is quite high, and you are quite courageous.

You have to first understand what kind of bully that bully belongs to, some are bullying the soft and afraid of the hard type, you are only a little more vicious than him, and you can counter violence with violence, and some are the limb and simple-minded type, you only have this kind of"Outwit"It's just a little clever to make him unable to find you or do nothing to you, and some of them belong to the vicious type. Belch. My sister will advise you to let it go.

This kind of person is better to avoid for a boy like you.

And yes. In fact, my sister is not against early love, but if it causes unnecessary trouble, it is very worthwhile, love is pleasant, if you fall in love, it is better not to make yourself so troublesome And as a student, studying is also a part of life, your parents work, you study, this is what you should do at this age.

Good boys, you still have to study hard and go up every day.

I understand what you said, so I'll tell you:

1.If you really like someone, you can't give up because of some resistance, let alone because of what you say;

2.School is a place to learn knowledge, how can there be bullies, even if there is, don't be afraid, you can let the school take care of this (you just say that you and your girlfriend are good friends, but someone wants to prevent your freedom to make friends).

3.If the school does not handle it or does not handle it well, you can report it to the Ministry of Justice, and it is impossible to deal with it;

4.Your so-called peace and discipline and the idea that more things are better than less things will be bullied;

5.You can also say yes to your girlfriend and see each other less (you can see each other every day at school, but you just don't want to be alone) but you must talk about something, and you must care for each other, understand and support each other;

6.Now that you're still studying, you can put down your feelings first, establish a friendship that lasts forever, and it's not too late for you to do something in the future.

7.If the two are in love for a long time, they are in the morning and twilight.

Hope you can be strong!

Protect yourself! Protect your loved ones too!

Dude, I'll teach you to fight if you have beaten it. Can't beat the police!!

There is a police uncle What are you afraid of, robbing you and beating you? Such an unauthentic thing is not done by people who are mixed with the Tao.

I tell you, like this man, the more you fear him, the more he goes too far.

When he comes to you again, you tell him, "You hit me, and I put up with it!" Let me leave her, and I'll tell you plainly—no way, "He can kill you?"

Then you call the police and accuse him of gathering a crowd to fight and causing minor injuries!

He's a student who goes to school, he's not afraid?

Dude, come up with some gentlemanly spirit!! Since you love this woman, you must protect this woman at all costs!

Like you, I'm a natural, quiet, unobtrusive frail teenager who counts the dirt on the classroom walls all day long.

I fell in love with a cute girl in high school. And I was also threatened by a school bully. And I ignored him and continued our relationship.

And on a dull evening after school, I got into a fight with the school bully in the back mountain, and I knocked out two of his front teeth at the cost of my right hand bandaged for more than a week.

Now that cute girl is sitting next to me and watching me type, she's my wife.

And you?

Now is a society governed by the rule of law!

Ahem, although it is said that Curcuma itself is not a good person.

If he did it, he would immediately call the police and go to the hospital with a headache, and then he would be hospitalized every day to hang nutritional injections, and contact the head of the police station, and he would say that the watch was lost, Swiss! Lost your phone! Motorola's!

The belt is lost! Crocodile's, let's see if he dares to hit people casually and intimidate people in the future.

The soft ones are afraid of the hard, the hard ones are afraid of humming, and the humming ones are afraid of dying! It's just a matter of attitude, don't think crookedly! I don't agree with what was said upstairs: it's helpless to meet this kind of person! He hits you once, twice, three times, and I don't believe he's going to pester you for the rest of his life for this girl!

Love is like business, it depends on how much you earn.

You break up with her, you can avoid trouble, you continue, and the trouble continues.

So do you think the benefits of breaking up or continuing are higher? It depends on what you think.

Why bother for a woman ... Really, you don't have that strength, you have a point, there are a lot of beauties.

There's no way to do it.,You can't fight if you don't fight.。。。

It's really helpless to meet this kind of person, it's very helpless.

-I don't know... Hold on,,If you love someone, you have to work hard to be with her.。。

Well, thisLanguage skills are required. It is also necessary to speak to the occasion and the situation.

Language is an art. The euphemistic use of language to reject others can also be said to be an art

Personally, I often meet a lot of people who ask them to do it, or receive gifts and the like. Something you don't want to encounter. So I wanted to refuse and shirk. I have learned a lot from this success. So I summarized a little experience as follows:

1。If someone else is well-intentioned, or trust is a positive thing. We refuse:

Smile, be sincere, be gentle, be honest, be humble, say no with kindness, and try to make things as round. Let the other party understand their own difficulties, reach a consensus, and then sometimes you need to be cheeky. Hehe.

2。If the other party's entrustment is unjust, unreasonable, and negative. We refuse:

Sometimes depending on the situation, it should be serious and serious, and it is still necessary to smile instead of being outdated, not to be too embarrassed by others, and to leave yourself in the background. If others insist on you to do it, if you insist on refusing, don't beat the negative attitude towards this matter to death, you should take something that is very relevant to everyone little by little, calmly analyze, and then say that he knows your intentions, if it still doesn't work, you simply take some negative things to entrust him, and let him know that things are difficult to do, and he also wants to refuse, etc.

Are you often embarrassed to say no to others because of your face, and do you feel like you're not yourself anymore? Do you want to change?

In short, do you use your own friendship to resolve it? In fact, the hand of the hand of the son and the mountains and rivers are just the feeling of the soul, and the reason for knowing how to let go and accept.

This kind of thing really has to be explained clearly, you have to distinguish it yourself, don't break the thread, if they are really your friends, they will understand you, or you should have never known such a person

I also have the same experience as you, but I am a man, and I am chased by a woman, because I don't want to hurt others, I can't say cruel words, so she still has illusions, and she annoys you all day long in the name of a friend. In the end, I finally couldn't help but say something, and it hurt even more.

Let's continue to maintain the status quo! It's that the men in college are too thirsty, you can just be rational.

Be direct and be careful about causing unnecessary misunderstandings.

This is only to tell the truth, not to say that it is more miserable, sadness is inevitable, but the long pain is not as good as the short pain, it is better to say it sooner, of course, you still have to say some bad things about yourself, so it should be useful, and it is a good way to belittle yourself.

Tell her that long pain is better than short pain, although we were happy for a while, but these are in the past, and can only be a good memory for me and you. However, no matter where I go, I will never forget our wonderful memories and hope we are still friends! Are you satisfied?

Don't worry too much about it, in fact, you've been hurt just as much, haven't you? Why didn't she think about you when she said she broke up, now you can tell her directly, don't regret making a decision.

There are two sides of the relationship, and it is impossible to be rejected and I am very happy.

Therefore, there is no such thing as rejecting others without hurting them, at most, to minimize the damage and not to embarrass the other party.

This needs to be grasped by yourself depending on the situation.

Don't think about this kind of person, this kind of person is what I hate the most, really, what did you do in the first place, but, if you refuse, don't say it with a deep hatred like me. Tell her directly, we are already impossible, if she wants to cry, cry well, tell him that you have started a new life, do not want to dwell on the past, you have hurt enough in the past. I believe that if he is not thick-skinned enough, he will know what to do.

Don't think about what to be friends, in fact, where to find such a big-minded person, there are many cases where a breakup is an enemy. It doesn't matter, friends or enemies, it doesn't matter anymore, just solve it anyway.

In the world of love, there is no one right or wrong.

Who's sorry whom.

Only who doesn't know how to cherish whom.

So when you give, but he doesn't know how to cherish it.

Then just let it go.

Because of a person who doesn't cherish you, you don't have to pay for him, and you won't be sad because of it, because you have to believe that there will be someone who loves you better than him, loves you more, and loves you more.

People who know more about cherishing you appear.

Such talents are worth your efforts.

Feelings need to be managed by both parties.

So what you don't pay for it will definitely not be rewarded.

You pay to know if you see the right person.

There is more direction.

so that you don't let yourself go wrong.

That's why it's important to be happy.

Believe in yourself, as long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Sincerely wish the family good health, happiness and sweetness.

Forever happy, blessed from the bottom of my heart.

and the one in your heart, have a beautiful and happy future

How to refuse the confession of love? 1 Affirm, then reject. You might as well praise the other person's character and appearance, and then explain why you can't accept the other person's love. 2 The reason to be stated should be reasonable, in addition to the reason that there is already a lover, it is necessary to make the other person understand that the rejection is for his or her good, and to bring up the favorable aspects from the other person's point of view; 3 When explaining to the outside world, you may want to attribute the reason to yourself to give the impression that he or she rejected you, not that you rejected him/her.

With a good way to say no, you must also choose the best time to say no, and don't reject the other person immediately after the other person has just confessed their love, and is desperately expecting you to return the love. Because at this time, the other party is in the refractory period that matches the counter-information. The basic rule is to choose the time when your mood is most relaxed and stable.

Refuse it outright.

Don't hurt others.

Keep being friends.

But pay attention to impressions.

said that he was already interested in someone.

This is only to be honest and straightforward.

Tell her you have someone you like!

2 words - tactful, you must be tactful, never hurt the other party's feelings.

Here are a few rejection options for you: 1, use the excuse that your family does not allow it, 2, and use your study and work as an excuse.

3. Falsely claiming that he was interested in someone.

4. Say that you don't want to be in love now.

5. Say that spiritual life must be based on material foundations, and you have no material basis for falling in love.

6. For the affection he (she) gives you, it's hard to put into words

7，say：you are just not really my type

Say you have someone you like, or that he's not the type you like! But certainly a good friend!!

Go and thank him (her) for his kindness, but you don't need to. Or give him (her) a beautiful lie.

Directly make it clear, and save people from falling deeper and deeper.

What do you like about me, I'll change my career.

Yes, just make it clear to him, don't let that person keep thinking about it, and it's not good for you!!

Basically, it's probably not going to be possible for you to maintain that buddy relationship, but it doesn't have to be, it depends on how you communicate with him in the future, you can be honest with him, tell him that you don't want to have a boyfriend now, but you don't want to lose him as a friend, tell him that you like to play with him, and let him know that this is the best way.