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Never likes to do housework.
In the bathroom, the shampoo bottle is tilted upside down, and the bottle and cap are in different places; The soap box was filled with water, and the soap lay generously on the glass countertop; Towels lay messily on the shelves, dripping wet; The bath towel was crumpled up and curled up on the washing machine; dirty socks stuffed in shoes; A jacket that hangs with pajamas ......It was just 10 minutes ago that I got everything in order! At home, I was busy doing housework, but he sat there generously drinking tea and watching TV. My husband is 4 years older than me, which gives me enough reason to think that a big man should let a little woman, and the so-called manly husband should stand up to the sky.
Moreover, I have always believed that once a man is married, he should take on the responsibility of the family and act like a big man. Playful, naughty, buddy righteousness, "dirty mess" and the like, absolutely have nothing to do with a good man. But unfortunately, I, who thought I was married to a "big" man, was completely disappointed when I woke up from a sweet dream.
Trick: Appropriate Sitting By: To make a man responsible for his actions, leave his clothes, socks, supplies, etc. alone, and leave him alone when the cabinet door is closed, and leave him alone with any mess inside. As long as you can hold on, you can win.
Set a labor cycle: Explain to your husband that you have a very important matter to deal with recently (such as writing a promotion title, a plan, etc.), and if you don't do it well, you may be "fired". Therefore, he will take on more of the housework.
After this period of time has passed, it is appropriate to let him relax. Then, make another excuse that in the next cycle, the housework will still be dominated by him.
Spending money is like running water.
Husband loves face,Every time friends eat together, he rushes to pay the bill,A while ago, I was also hooked on the lottery,Football lottery、Basket lottery、Sports lottery、Fucai,None of them fell,The money spent on the lottery every month is so much that people are dizzy. I discussed with him, "Let's save some money every month in the future."
My husband promised to be quite cheerful, but in fact, the flowers should have taken care of the flowers, and they didn't grow at all.
Sit down once a month and talk about some spending adjustments, such as cutting back on extra expenses or making plans to save money on big-ticket purchases.
AA system with him: draw a line with him in terms of economics and let him know how powerful money is.
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What is the trick? Is that it?
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What is the trick?
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After everyone calms down, let's talk about it, I guess each other is just angry for a while, but, because it's really his family's problem, so, I guess he should understand you.
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The woman's mother's family should not invest money in it, and if she invests money again, she will definitely get an inch; When the man's uncle came to borrow money again, he said no, but there was really none; Don't speak ill of the man's family, if the house can't be built, don't build it, stand up. If the man's family urges, just sit together as a family and talk calmly, just say that his parents raised him, he doesn't want to rely on his parents anymore, he wants to struggle with his husband, and he also hopes that his husband will not rely on the family and live a good life, no matter what the other party's parents say, don't be angry, don't quarrel, as long as the quarrel is your fault, and then raise the issue of repaying the money, just say that you need money to build a house now, and hope that the uncle will pay back, if you can't take it out for the time being, set a date to pay back, such as a month later, If you change it in advance, you can ask for less than 5,000. The most important thing in everything is attitude, to be calm, to be resolute, to have a bottom line, to be on the facts, not to involve in other lives, who is right and who is wrong.
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Use marriage management expert software to find the junior first! After that, it is settled.
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Oh, tell her and say, Sister, I'm calm, and I'm very accustomed to it, because you're not the first, and won't be the last, including you, like this, I'm the third of my sister, you're the fourth, and it should be called the fourth, haha, man, it's normal to spend a little bit, and it can take a lifetime, and he's tired of playing, and he still has to go home to drop Sister, I have a drop of patience and patience Anyway, he won't be old for a while and a half Sister, I'll wait for the little five and six until the day he gets tired of playing. You've been waiting.
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If it were me, I wouldn't meet and talk to that kind of person, because he and we are not the same level people! After all, our married, licensed, legal! QQ does not add, ** does not answer, SMS will not, not a grade, not enough level!
Xiao San also went to your house to see where you can let your husband marry you, that is, to provoke or compare! The first is your husband's attitude! It's the junior who is stalking to find your husband, and the problem will be solved!
If they volunteered, it would still be troublesome! Does the current junior really have love in addition to valuing money and power? Do you believe it?
Take care of your husband's money and power! What else does Xiao San want to do? The money is gone, and we are all ventilated, don't be in a hurry!
It's better to have a certificate than not to have a certificate! Coax your husband by yourself, we can't let him go to the court first and say that the husband and wife are not in harmony! Hehe!
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Dare to provoke you, it means that she is weak and unsure, and she can only test you in this way. Whether you want this man or not, there is no need to answer her questions, she is not qualified to talk to you, this kind of third-rate character, she wants the future, she will ask your husband to ask for it, why bother your life, what do you say?
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Ask your husband, or what do you say?
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I think this is to say that as husband and wife, we should advance and retreat together, and live and die together.
When you encounter difficulties, your loved ones can shelter you from the wind and rain, and your lover can face it with you and find the direction of hope together, you say.
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When a person is having trouble and is disoriented.
I really hope that someone will guide me and show me a clear path so that I don't run into a wall, and at this time, my husband should act as the person who shows my wife the way.
It's easier for two people to face difficulties together.
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If the husband is also lost, the heart of the home needs the heart to guide.
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The lost way she refers to is emotional, and her husband recalls her person and heart with a generous heart and sincere love....
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When two people are together, they should rely on each other and care for each other, and when two people work together, they will walk faster, better and clearer, and they will be lonely when they walk alone.
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He first treats you as a good friend, a friend who can talk about everything, a friend who can be trusted. Also, he wants you to give him some advice to get out of this dilemma.
Hehe, you don't think he means anything to you, do you? It depends on what it is.
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Are you a man or a woman, if you are a man he may regard you as a good friend, if it is a woman he may want to approach you and fall in love with you or something.
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Maybe he's either a good friend and confides in you, or he likes you and uses this as a topic to get to know and communicate.
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He wants you to know him better, he wants you to get closer to each other, to have more topics to talk about, and to like the feeling of you being next to him.
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I guess I think I think of you as a confidant.
Or someone who is very dependent.
I trust you a lot.
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There's nothing ordinary friends would say.,It's usually a little more advanced than ordinary friends before they will tell him.
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I either want to be a confidant with you, or I want to be a husband and wife with you.
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Trust you. Maybe you're the person he's talking to.
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I think it's meaningful, don't ask people what they mean, put your mind right.
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Don't say such a life, you are also his family, understand others, reflect on yourself, communicate well, I think he also has his reasons. Isn't it just about being tolerant and being tolerated, trusting and being trusted, understanding and being understood? Being a virtuous wife is the dream of many women, and I think it's yours too!
Life is full of tastes, only after tasting it will you know, strive to face everything less complaining, live happily!
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This is a problem that many people are distressed about, and the source of many couples' conflicts.
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Think more about why. It's not just like that.
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Talk to him about ......Reflect on your own ......None of the above is recommended to divorce decisively.
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It may be that you care too much, live your life, and understand each other.
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Alas! Your husband is a bit of a wretch, you should be clear when you fall in love!
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Tell your husband directly that you miss him, that you are bored at home, and that you want to go to his side.
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You say this: A man stood by the sea and said to the sea, "Ah, Mother." At this moment, a huge wave came and knocked the man down, and the man lay on the beach, spitting sand and saying, "Phew, stepmother!"
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1. If a man is 30 years old and urged by his family, he must be under a lot of pressure, and it is very likely that he will get married for the sake of marriage.
2, the family urged him, he and you are good but do not take you to see your parents and hide from your parents to continue to go on a blind date, which shows his hesitation, most of his heart is not placed on you, that is to say, your future is also very slim, he has no courage to love, and dare not say, such a drag, hide it, it must be a tragedy in the end!
3, he can't give you the promise of love, he doesn't dare to say, you should understand such a prospect, turn back early, the long pain is better than the short pain***
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Well, I'm in the same situation, I have first-hand experience, and I can talk to you about it.
It doesn't have to be "getting married for the sake of getting married", but there will certainly be pressure in such a situation, and this pressure will get stronger.
He only said that he liked you, I think your relationship is not deep, and he can't ask you anything higher. But in this case, his intention is very clear: there is pressure, and he knows that it is time to get married, so he develops to a person who has a good feeling.
If you're interested in him, give him some chances.
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To get married for the sake of getting married...
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If it weren't for a relatively large career, it would.
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