Every day I get annoyed when I see my parents, and I want to run away from home from time to time

Hello dear, glad to answer for you.

Have you ever thought about why you are annoyed when you see your parents?

Because they treat you too much?

Because they're always nagging in your ear?

So have you ever wondered why they don't care about others and only you? The reason is very simple, you are their son and daughter, the person they care about the most, if it weren't for the fact that you are their baby, I think even if you kill someone, they will only sigh a few words next to them, and they will not do anything, think about it like this, isn't it much more comfortable? You know, the basis of their behavior towards you is that they love you and that's why they do it, and while it's not pleasant to do something you don't like in the name of love, it's forgiving, isn't it?

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world.

And you need to know the fact that your parents must have had more experience and insight than you did when they lived to this age, and even if there are some small mistakes, it does not prevent the fact that they are much wiser. So, for their words, for your concern, you should have a kind of learning heart, not impatience, you know, what they say, it's all for your own good, no one will push their children to hell, right?

Listen carefully even if it's unpleasant, because they're always good for you.

As for running away from home, I would advise you to dispel the idea – until you are no longer able to support yourself. Don't have such thoughts until you are not able to take on the needs of your own life, because you are not capable of taking your responsibilities to yourself, under such a premise, all actions are a kind of falsehood, the reality is realistic, because it is too cruel, beautiful, it is a fairy tale, and you do not live in it, so, don't do such a meaningless thing, it will only make your parents worry and make others think that you are naïve, that's all.

Hope it solves your problem.

If you are an adult, you can also go out for a walk, after all, long-term depression is not good, but you must make it clear to your family, otherwise they will worry about you!

If you are not suffering from abuse for a long time, try not to run away from home.

Summary. Dear, can running away from home help you improve your relationship with your parents? If you can't, don't abuse yourself. What to do is the greatest kindness to yourself.

Dear, can running away from home help you improve your relationship with your parents? If you can't, don't treat yourself with nothing. What should I do, I am blind to my greatest kindness.

Therefore, you Li, send a notice to never run away from home, this is the most stupid method. At home parents will definitely be what you say, that's because they don't know how to educate their children, they can only follow the way of their parents, although this is the wrong way, but running away from home is even more wrong, you can communicate with them well, you say, if you want me to be a useful person, you must teach me personally, not scold me, if you understand everything, then you were not born in the dust of your parents, so communicating well is the best way, or a family to learn a course of common progress.

I feel that my parents are patriarchal, and my mother has never been reluctant to yell at my brother, even if she does something wrong, but she often yells at me, and I am buried at the age of 20.

My dad was also mentally suppressing me, and I didn't think I really needed to stay in this house anymore.

Is a 20-year-old still studying? Or are you still working?

I worked. In that case, you can choose to go home less.

After all, no matter how much you don't like your parents, they are also related by blood, and you can't put them aside.

You won't use something that you have at your hand every day, and if it's gone, you'll have to find it with all your might. Everything is like this, let alone people?

Is duplicity. Quite normal.

In a word, distance produces beauty.

Before going to university, we lived with our parents every day, and we knew each other very well. However, there are two reasons why we always dislike each other.

1. There is a big gap between the expectations of both parties and the actual life. For example, parents always say that other people's children have good test scores, why can't you get a 100 points? For example, your parents want you to make more friends, but you stay at home every day to fight the glory of the king.

2. There is a generation gap between us and our parents. When the weather is cold, your parents tell you to wear more clothes, but you feel that you are wearing less style; My parents' generation was harder to eat and never wasted food, and once you didn't like it, you would rather order a takeout if you only ate a few bites. There is a huge gulf between the two generations.

However, when you go to college, your parents suddenly feel that there is one less person at home, and your heart will inevitably be empty. There is no one who can let them nagging and taking care of them every day, I don't know if you eat well every day, whether you will take care of yourself outside, and you still don't get along with your classmates.

When you have winter and summer vacations, you will start to dislike each other again after a few days at home. Cycle.

In fact, it is not difficult to find a job, it is rare to make up your mind, if a girl will go out to work for a friend first, after all, staying at home parents is to feel that it is delayed to eat and drink in vain, if a boy will go out to find a job first, you must first learn to endure hardships, because the society is very realistic, parents will not support the elderly for a lifetime, I want you to have a number in your heart, you can't stay at home, it's not you who annoys you but them, although every time you say that you annoy you, you actually want to force the bird out of the cage, I hope you live well and walk every step steadily.

If you don't want to go out to work, what are you going to do with this time at home? Like, learn a little skill? Or do you want to upgrade to a bachelor's degree or a master's degree or a doctorate?

You can't stay at home for the rest of your life, your parents won't support you for the rest of your life, and you don't have a stable job, you don't have a certain income, what will you do in the future? So, your parents are anxious for you!

As the saying goes: persuade and not persuade!

Not to mention your own family. It's not uncommon for parents to have conflicts, and you can't let their problems affect you. After all, it is the problem of the previous generation, and they can solve it themselves.

If you are affected and don't focus on your studies, your mother will come back and see you and blame your father for not taking a good look at you, and it will not be good to cause problems from you!

Taking good care of yourself is the greatest comfort to your parents during their quarrels.

I think you are still young, your parents will solve the problem fundamentally, after all, they are your parents, and a family "peaceful" can be harmonious!

When parents quarrel, being a child can only be avoided.

Wait for the parents to finish arguing, and then persuade each other.

You turn your grief into strength! Study hard, and when you can persuade your parents, you can persuade them.

When they have calmed down, they should be persuaded separately that as long as it is not a matter of principle, there is no one outside, and it should be easy to do.

Tell them something about family harmony, family happiness, life and joy.

I read what you wrote, what does this say. In fact, you should go out and earn money to show them, so that they know that their children are working hard to earn money outside. Then they will naturally not quarrel.

In one point is your learning. If you are not good at studying, make it clear to your parents that you are not fit for school. It is to let them understand that you have your own ideas, and let them support you if you have a better job and money.

Your neighbor won't underestimate you or say anything in front of your parents. Then again, it's up to you, don't be afraid to face difficulties.

Let's calm down and let them all calm down, and they have to sit down and talk well, and they can't just quarrel all day.

Let me tell you a good way: talk more about your father's advantages in front of your mother, and talk about your mother's advantages in front of your father. If they're still arguing, stand with mom and dad'Think about it, what do they want most?

Is it that neither of them is willing to bow their heads? Now it's time for you to come out, say more to make them happy when mom and dad are there, and do something to make them happy while the iron is hot if the emotions of both parties ease up a little. If it doesn't work, hum, then you can only use the trick:

Just show them the question you're asking right now, and let them know how depressed and painful you are when they fight. I believe that all parents are not hard-hearted, and he will not watch his precious son (daughter) be angry with their quarrels. Listen to me, yes, it's very smart!

I suspect there could be several reasons:

Both are stubborn.

Personality problems. Parents love their children, maybe it's just not the right way.

Interfering too much in one's own life.

Don't make any decisions when you're impulsive, maybe one minute you'll be angry again, and the next minute, you'll feel like it's not worth it.

All parents love their children, they love in their own way, sit down, communicate seriously, and listen.

Tell your parents what you mind, that everyone is an individual, that they respect each other and understand each other.

What is the reason to make you angry like this, no matter how your parents don't treat them, they are also the ones who raised you and gave birth to you, how can you say that you can just leave, that's not right, that's your fault, no matter what, they are also parents, no matter how angry they are, we must also be filial to him, because we are Chinese sons and daughters. Whether your parents are doing right or wrong, don't find fault with them. After a long time, it will be better to slowly relieve and get along slowly.

After all, it is the parents who gave birth to you and raised you, you must have love and filial piety, and it will be fine after a long time. You must also be a filial child, so you must not run away from home, others will laugh at you.

There may be a lack of good communication between you. Every parent loves their children very much and wants to hold them in their hands, but they may have used the wrong expression and made you feel wronged. In fact, my mother will definitely not feel good in her heart.

I think as a child, you have to understand the good intentions of your parents, try to understand the difficulty of being a parent, communicate well, work hard with your mother, and make a good relationship, so that you will have a very happy life!

Your mother also feels very angry with you, you have to communicate well.

Your mom should feel the same way, so let's talk about it.

This state seems to be a portrayal of all families, and I think this situation should be from a very young child.

For example, every day since my child was born, I thought he was so cute that he was asleep, and sometimes I wanted to wake him up with me. But when he woke up, it was simply a demon descending from the earth, disgusting and unwanted.

And this enthusiasm doesn't last long, basically after a few days at home, the parents start to get annoyed and start complaining. "I know how to sleep every day", "Why are I so lazy", "Don't always stay in the house, go out to meet my classmates", "I know how to run outside all day long". The daily complaints will make people wonder if they are meeting the same pair of parents.

After all, the age gap between parents and children is there, and there will always be a generation gap in a close parent-child relationship. And when parents get older, they will also become nagging and verbose. But when you are away, your parents' thoughts are real, and when you go home, your parents are not necessarily really annoyed.

Many times, parents complain just to talk to you more, and to nag you to make you better. Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, and as children, they should be more considerate of their parents. When you are at home, help your parents do more housework, chat with your parents more, and go out for a walk with your parents, it is estimated that their hearts will be sweeter than eating candied fruit.

You're not alone. In fact, many of us have such thoughts, which is really amazing.

When we were outside, our parents always told us to be careful. We also have to check our lives to see if we are doing well, whether we eat on time, whether we have added clothes when the weather is cold, don't freeze, whether the quilt is not covered, etc.

But when we go home, we will be disliked by our parents.

Maybe the first two days were fine, because it was too long and we didn't see each other, so it will give us the warmth of home. But after a few days, if you stay a little longer, you will be disliked by your parents. I feel like I'm really a waste person at home, and I'm scolded all day long.

Perhaps both of these behaviors are a manifestation of our parents' love for us!

When we are outside, their display of love for us is a caring, considerate attitude. At such a time, they will shout at us and miss us incomparably.

Then when we go home, the parents' expression of embarrassment towards us becomes a kind of nagging, a kind of disgust. She will dislike us, all kinds of bad, no matter what we do, it becomes a kind of behavior that can be disliked. Of course, this doesn't mean that they are really disgusted, just that they are used to this kind of nagging, or want to talk to us a little more.

Maybe it's also because we really don't have the identity of a child at home, so we will lead to all kinds of dislike from our parents.

We usually eat and drink at home, are too lazy to do things, and spend all day playing with our mobile phones and watching TV. So we do have things that we shouldn't do, and they nag us and annoy us.