What kind of experience is it in life to not be polite in refusal?

Updated on society 2024-04-18
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I've been a good guy for many years, and I've been blamed for a lot. I can't see people frowning, and they don't care if I cry Many people remember me well, but there are only a few people who naturally maintain a relationship with me. Those who have lost contact in the address book like me more "like her for help" than "like her as a person".

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Probably you want to reject others, but you can't bear to reject them, and you don't know how to reject them. Always thinking about others, but not thinking about whether others have considered your feelings when they ask you for help. Habitually fulfill others and wronged themselves.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't care about giving, I can break my head, just a "thank you" is enough to make me have no regrets. This mentality is undoubtedly distorted and pathetic. I subconsciously went crazy to please others, and little by little I got my hands on it.

    My popularity is getting better and better, but I am exhausted and bruised, and I dare not stop. Because once you don't treat this person well, everything before is lost, so the pressure on your back snowballs. I'm not a sage, not any good person.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's a pitiful experience, others reject me but I just can't refuse others, so the result is to waste a lot of effort to take care of other people's feelings, to take care of his life and hobbies abandoned, and finally he feels that he should be stingy with a word of thanks will not give to me, after a long time of refusal, after others have opened their mouths, they know that they are not happy to agree, but they would rather be bored and can't sleep all night and want to refuse in their hearts, really pitiful, I am obviously a selfish person, but why is it that learning will not refuse.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If helping someone 100 times becomes a habit. After a long time, it has become a matter of course and should be, but once it is your fault not to help you, it can be said that it negates all the previous help. Learning to say no is not necessarily a bad thing.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Always with a lot of responsibility. After helping others do things, their own things may not be ranked in the **. The person you are helping may think that it is just an ordinary little thing.

    It's just a matter of effort. Someone else will only send you a good guy card. Yes, you have to believe that there are many such people.

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