My family has conflicts, what should I do if there are conflicts in my family?

1 They have been working for more than 20 years, and if each person saves 10,000 a year, the two of them will have 20,000 a year, and 400,000 in 20 years,。。 Where did you learn this arithmetic? 20 years ago?

9. How many can save 10,000 a year in a few years? There was a word called 10,000 yuan households back then, haven't you heard of it? There are 10,000 rich people...

They're only 20,000 a year now... What do you do?

2. The down payment is paid by the daughter of the dead or alive, so you can steal the fun.

Forget it, I don't want to talk to you, you can do it yourself.

Hello, I can't read your problem halfway through, you can complain too much.

Everyone is selfish, your dissatisfaction is understandable, but between getting along, there is always someone who will suffer, as a daughter-in-law, why not be generous, according to what you say, I admire your sister-in-law, I think she is quite courageous, and she doesn't care. Since it's the same for money, why don't you and your husband have such courage? Your parents-in-law lived most of their lives and raised their children.

Now is the time to enjoy the blessings, they will show you the children, and you should thank them.

The payment for the house is not a problem, you and your husband work hard to make money to pay for the house, after all, the down payment is paid by your in-laws, and there is no reason to continue to pay for you. Of course, now the marriage law stipulates that as long as you pay for the house, it will belong to the joint property Your son, since your in-laws take care of it, you can also relax, and use the time to take care of the children to work hard, earn money to support the elderly, and raise children, isn't it very good Not only have you got the house, but you have been praised by the elderly, why not?

Support what I said upstairs, in general, you are too selfish, I hope that your in-laws will go out to work to earn money to create better conditions for you, but this is not what you should ask for! Even if they don't do anything, you are obligated to support them! What's more, they're still watching the kids for you!

1. Resolving family conflicts cannot be solved by forbearance and accommodation. When a conflict arises in some families, one of the contradictory parties blindly tolerates and accommodates in order to resolve the problem. On the surface, it seems that everything is fine if there is no noise or trouble, but in fact, everyone is awkward in their hearts.

After a long time, once the problems accumulate too much, it is inevitable that "wars" will break out, or there will be a situation that cannot be managed. Not only that, in the long run, on the one hand, it is easy to cause the other party to "gain an inch", not only did he realize his mistakes and feel guilty, but he felt that he was very correct, which objectively played a role in encouraging his wrong behavior to continue to develop; On the other hand, as a party that has always insisted on "harmony", it is bound to bear great pressure and pain in the heart, and in the long run, it is easy to cause mental illness, which will not only bring great damage to the body, but also affect other members of work and family. Therefore, it is not a good way to resolve family conflicts by adopting the method of tolerance and accommodation.

Isn't that just a needle-tip noisy at Maimandi? Definitely!

Second, the only way to solve family conflicts is to communicate with you. Conflicts between family members are generally not a matter of principle, such as who wastes pulling, who is lazy, or who washes their hair every day......It's all trivial, and there won't necessarily be any contradictions on the big issues of right and wrong in the family. Is it so trivial that you make your neck thick and your face blush?

Why can't we just sit down and exchange ideas calmly, and then talk about it? Hostile sides like the DPRK and the United States are still resolving the DPRK nuclear issue through negotiations, not to mention the big deal that the family can't solve, don't you say? Family conflicts should be bridged in a timely manner in the midst of continuous appearance, and too much must not be accumulated.

A gap and a hole are easy to bridge, there are too many loopholes, can't the water collapse as soon as it is flushed?

Of course, it's easy to say, but it's far from being like that. Communication should also pay attention to ways and means, first of all, both sides need to calm down and talk before they can achieve the desired goal; The same effect can also be achieved by taking some roundabout methods, such as finding relevant information that can persuade and educate the other party to recognize their mistakes. Especially when the juniors and the elders disagree, and it is obviously the elders' fault, but as a junior, it is not easy to say it directly, so it is easier for the other party to accept it by taking some roundabout methods.

3. Have a tolerant mindset. To err is human? No one is perfect, and everyone can make mistakes of one kind or another.

The family is also a group, and everyone in this group has everyone's strengths, and if you are strong in this area, he may be better than you in the other way. Don't take your own strengths shorter than others, and pick your nose and eyes at others. If you treat the people at home with a tolerant attitude, it will be easy to see all the problems in the family, and there will be much fewer contradictions.

You don't care about the affairs of adults, no one will listen to you what you say, you don't care about them inside and out, in fact, your mother is not right, who is willing to give the old man's property is her right, you persuade your mother to have a better mentality, money is not a thing to bring to life and death, what do you want to do, it is enough, fighting for it will hurt everyone's feelings, family affection is the most important, money and wealth should not be taken too seriously.

It's better to worry about this matter, it's better to learn from others to focus on how to do a career, what is there to fight for in the family, and it's better to make money than outsiders.

[Sit down calmly and talk.]

No. Simple assumptions, such as the wife does not tell her husband how much money she buys vegetables, is this violation, buying vegetables is a family trivial.

The right to know refers to the freedom and right to know and obtain information, including from official or unofficial knowledge. The right to know in a narrow sense refers only to the freedom and right to know and obtain official information. With the continuous expansion of the right to know, the right to know has the attributes of both public law rights and civil rights, especially the right to know personal information, which is part of the personality rights that citizens must enjoy as civil subjects.

There is no legal provision and does not constitute an infringement

If this is a violation of the right to know, the two of you are in a lawsuit every day, the general family lock, communication can be solved, and you have to name a violation of the right to know, the landlord, you have a strong sense of law!

There should be nothing to hide between a husband and a wife, unless there is a ...... between you

It's all to this extent, how do you want to leave, you should have left a long time ago, if you leave, first put the liquid assets in your mother's name, such as cash, deposits, gestures or something, the transfer of the transfer, can give you the temporary, try to grasp the other party's bank status, because these are the joint property of the husband and wife, the house is easy to say, according to the market price, who you are with, who will divide more, it is estimated that the other party will not agree to leave with you, and will go to court, so you must have sufficient evidence before, not for the cheapest station, It's because the other party you described is very good, such a person has no credit, he can only speak with evidence and bless you, but in the future, you still have to be filial to him and bless you.

I am very sympathetic and very relieved for your mother to have such a son as you.

Although Dad is not suitable, it may be that you have been together for a long time and are used to this structure, so there is this confusion.

Think about it, life in the world is for happiness, and harmony is the minimum.

Your father has disregarded morality and the feelings of the family, and openly engaged in the mistress, think about it carefully, do you want him to do it?

Keeping this titular dad, the benefits are in**? What's the downside?

I don't care about the number of people in life, the main thing is to look at the result: can we be harmonious with each other?

It's the same with work, it's not about how much you can do, it's about your success rate.

When you sort it out, things will be simpler, and your hatred for Dad will be much lighter. Hating others, affecting one's emotions and mentality, is not worth it.

Hope you and your mom can live again.

It's too simple, let your mother quickly start investigating your family's financial situation, and then collect evidence of his extramarital affair, and strive to divide more property on the basis of his gross negligence during the marriage.

Civil servants, that's not easy to do, just take these evidence of yours to the court and let your mother say that she wants to divorce and sue your father, judging from your father's situation of 2 milks over the years, it is not a problem to let your father go out clean...Divorce it, what do you do with such a father and such a husband.