What should I do if he is getting married, and what will I do if I are going to get married?

Updated on society 2024-05-01
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's a good thing you didn't text him or call **!! Your parents are for your good, since your parents have seen that there is something wrong with his character, what are you hesitating about? If he is a treasure, I believe that your parents will not force you to break up with him, you should wake up, all parents in the world are the same, they love their children the most, and they will not let their daughter live with such an irresponsible and inferior person in the future and suffer.

    You have to be considerate of your parents' painstaking efforts. With his character, it's not worth anyone to be nervous about him, care about him, he only cares about his own feelings, otherwise, how can he go to his ex-girlfriend before he breaks off with you? What you have to do now is to think rationally, do something you like, distract yourself, socialize with other friends, and you will find that life will be better, and if you lose a crooked neck tree, you will have the opportunity to discover the straight towering tree.

    I hope you will remove the shadow from your heart as soon as possible, and I wish you good luck.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You should feel fortunate and believe that your parents have seen more people than we do, and they must have more experience than us in this matter, and their opinions are very necessary to take into account, and besides, your parents are not against you because of material things, they are because of this person. Looking at your boyfriend's behavior again, it is easy to see that he is an irresponsible man, and it is really not worth your sadness, you have to believe that there must be someone who is really suitable for you waiting for you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't get in touch anymore, it's not worth it. Women should love themselves well. All that was lost was a stranger. Believe that time can dilute everything.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since you have already broken up, and your family does not support you being together, then make a decision, stop thinking about those sad things, lift your spirits, and choose a true happiness that belongs to you. Bless you!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In the case that you haven't broken up clearly, he still did that kind of thing with his ex-girlfriend, and now he is going to get married, you should treat him as if you have never known him since, I think he is a person who is not worthy of your cherishment and persistence, I believe that you will meet a better man in the future and live a happy life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's not worth it for this kind of man, he can still contact his ex-girlfriend when he is dating you, which means that this person is unreliable, don't contact him anymore, don't think about him, forget him, time will dilute everything, and you will definitely meet someone who can cherish you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Such a man is not worthy of your tears for him! He always says that it is your problem, in fact, he is very problematic, you listen to your parents are right, your parents are the best for you! A man like him won't be happy with his woman, but it's a good thing you didn't marry him!

    A half-hearted man can't give you happiness!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Love is blind, time can ** everything, slowly dilute such feelings, impulsiveness can't solve any problems, parents' eyes are bright, love can't be destroyed by time, and it's better to be cautious about a lifetime of events.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't contact him anymore, don't think about him anymore, he's married. Let him disappear from his own world and start anew, everyone has their own happiness.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Whenever the two of you have a problem, he will go to another woman, and he has already decided to marry that woman, which means that he does not love you at all, and it is not worth it to worry about someone who does not love him, leaving his time and energy for the next good future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    What is there about such a man worthy of your love? If he really loves you, why can't you insist on proving to your parents that there is no problem with his character, don't think about him, live well, you will find your own happiness, come on.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Dear, this man doesn't love you at all, otherwise he wouldn't have found his ex-girlfriend so soon, don't think about him anymore and don't call him again, he will forget him after a long time.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Delete his mobile phone number, go out for a trip, and start all over again!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Try to let go, such a man is not worthy of your love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Since it's all like this, and his family doesn't bless him, he's going to get married. If the landlord is in pain, cry. Time will heal you. This man is not actually for you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can only accept this fact rationally, don't be sad alone, you will find your true feelings.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Why do you suffer from this kind of man, if it were me, I would cheer up and make him regret giving up on himself, and he would be happier than him in the future, only such a woman can defeat such a man.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In this case, cry loudly, and after crying, find a new one that belongs to you and loves your other half. If a man doesn't really love you, then it's useless for you to keep it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Forget, forget. This kind of person is not worthy (o Ahh If you are together, you will not be happy, and forgetting is the best way.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Such a man is not worthy of loving him as deeply as you do, forget about him, and start his new life well.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Bless him silently in your heart, and you will have your own life in the future.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There is no need for such a man to be sad for her. To be honest, her ex-girlfriend is not necessarily happy if she marries him. It can be said that it can be put away.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Such a person is not worthy of your love anymore, don't give up the whole forest for a crooked neck tree! I can relate to your feelings!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Since this is already the case, I will completely die and live my life again.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Such a man, he doesn't love you, and his character is not good, what do you remember? Let him go, you can find a better one.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Dear, when you find the person who is waiting for you in the power of power, you will feel that he will get married when he gets married, and for you, it is nothing

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    For the sake of such a person is not worth it, start your new life well.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Time is the best medicine, and there is nothing to be nostalgic for such a person.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Don't think about it so much, hurry up and send your blessings.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    1. Abandon stereotypes and bad habits.

    Now that it is a new era, marriage can be done in a completely free way, and it is completely forbidden by traditional customs. Therefore, young people who marry in the new era should be free to play and abandon stereotypes and bad habits.

    2. Arrange the method and process of marriage celebration in advance, and stipulate the way to make a good marriage dismantling argument.

    Many people are getting married for the first time, so the wedding must be very grand and has a very large commemorative significance, so it will be celebrated in a certain way. For the host, it is necessary to arrange the way and process of celebrating the trip in advance, greet all relatives and friends, do not make marriage troubles, or determine the specific way to avoid some unpleasant things happening temporarily.

    3. Distinguish between the good guys and the bad guys who attend the wedding.

    Usually, the occurrence of vulgar weddings is provoked by some so-called friends, who may deliberately have the purpose of the whole person, or they may deliberately come to trick you. Therefore, married couples should also pay attention to distinguish, and some friends should not be invited to the wedding.

    4. Control the degree of wedding celebration.

    Of course, marriage trouble is an interesting way to celebrate, as long as it is reasonable, the degree of celebration is controlled, not too showy, not too eye-catching, then it is still worth admiring, after all, it is traditional culture.

    5. Wedding celebration is important, but safety comes first.

    As the old saying goes, "life must be happy", and when you get married, it should be a time when people are more beautiful in their lives, so it is easy to get carried away. But at all times, you should remind yourself that safety comes first, and the bride and groom should have such an awareness when they get married, even if the wedding is plain and ordinary, safety is the best.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    In contemporary society, marriage is one of the signs that people enter adulthood. However, there are some people who do not want to get married, that is, the so-called "single aristocracy". Some single aristocrats have a free and independent attitude to life, and they prefer to enjoy life alone and pursue their dreams, rather than being bound by traditional ideas.

    However, their parents may be dissatisfied with this and may not even accept this phenomenon, which causes many difficulties for single aristocrats.

    If you are a single aristocrat, and your parents do not accept that you will not get married, what should you do? First of all, it is important to understand what parents think, because they have their own views on family, inheritance, and social effects. In their eyes, children should get married, have children, find their own partners, form their own families, and continue the family lineage.

    Therefore, when they hear that their children do not want to get married, they will naturally feel puzzled and disappointed, which is a very normal psychological reaction.

    To close the generation gap between you and your parents, you need to try to understand their point of view, but also try to tell them what you think. You can talk to them about your choices by chatting, writing letters, emailing, etc., and emphasize the autonomy and independence you want. It can be told that in modern society, single aristocrats are becoming more and more common, and this lifestyle is also pursued by many people.

    Doing so will not only improve the other person's understanding of you, but it will also make the communication between you smoother.

    In addition, if you are unable to speak on your own behalf or communicate effectively with your family, you may need to seek help from a third party. For example, you can consult relatives or elders for advice, or talk to friends or psychologists. These people can help you communicate more smoothly with your parents and let your parents know what you think and understand you.

    Finally, if your parents are too attached to your marital status, even to the point of coercion, then you may need to put in some effort to balance family affection with your own freedom. You can do your best to fulfill their wishes, such as bringing a girlfriend and girlfriend for your birthday, or a sock changer attending some parties and sharing some interesting life stories in family group chats. You can also take the initiative to do some housework to help your parents relieve their fatigue and psychological pressure, so as to influence them and eventually get their understanding and support.

    In general, freedom and independence are rights that everyone should have, including single aristocrats. Of course, communication and understanding with parents is one of the important guarantees for cultivating family affection and maintaining harmonious family relationships. We must respect everyone's views and thoughts, maintain an attitude of communication and understanding, and if we can't reach an agreement overall, we can only balance each other's rights and interests, seek consensus, and let the emotions and relationships of both parties continue to sublimate.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Easy to do! You just tell your lover your plans, and this year, a certain crystal will hold a wedding, everything is simple.

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