My husband is not wrong, am I having psychological problems?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-01
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello, I personally think they are fine, but it is normal for people to have a good impression of each other, but you must grasp a boundary, that boundary is actually something you can control, as you said, your husband is a good man. If he were a good man, he would think for you. In fact, women are always so depressed, between husband and wife, what can't be said?

    You can ask him lightly, but be careful not to go overboard, or he will be disgusted. In short, believe him, warn him appropriately, and don't think too much. I wish you all happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If it is according to me, I will definitely believe my husband in your current state, after all, you are pregnant now, and this emotion will always affect your own baby. Besides, if your husband is really ambiguous, he won't still laugh when others are joking, he will always be nervous if he does, and how far will it develop if he has only met a few times? It's mainly just that boring people are looking for a pastime, and it's just that your husband was caught as the protagonist.

    And I always like to think crankily when I'm pregnant, I'm also a mother who just gave birth to BB, and I will be like you at that time, in fact, after giving birth, I will feel very stupid, in fact, you can also talk to your husband appropriately, so that he can give you more security, so that it won't"Nervous!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Your husband's fox friend is willing to say something that is not in the first place, and it has to be very ambiguous to tease you and your husband Since you dare to say this in front of you, the possibility of this thing is very small If you don't say it, then it is something Seeing that your husband is not nervous, it is estimated that this thing must be fabricated by those people Don't think too much Good luck.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What are you afraid of? As long as you believe in your husband, it's fine, if you don't believe it, there's something, I believe you must know your husband very well, as for whether there is anything I think you know better than anyone else, what do you say?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Try to understand slowly! Don't jump to conclusions, is that woman pretty? Pretty is a problem.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You're almost born, don't be cranky.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After getting married, you may feel that your husband is not as good as before, which may not be an illusion, but it is actually a very realistic reason, because when you are in love, his mind is on you, and he hopes to marry you as soon as possible, so that you can marry your own Heng family; After you are married, you will become his wife, and there will be a sense of stability in your heart, so you will not spend too much energy on you, and you may have to spend more time working, because his goal now is to take care of the family and shoulder his own responsibilities, and the pressure is greater, and there may not be more time to care for you. As a wife, you should be considerate of your husband's hardships and hardships, and don't speculate too much.

    There are a lot of trivial things in life, and your energy and time will be scattered, so be more understanding of each other.

    It may be their own delusion, women are easy to think more, and they are also more sensitive, men are more arrogant and don't care about some small details, even more so after marriage, they don't care too much about anything, women may feel left out, and the other party treats them not as well as before.

    Of course, it may also be that a woman's intuition is very accurate, and a man will become indifferent once he succeeds, so you can compare and analyze it, and look at the same thing to see the attitude and practices of the other party before and after marriage, and see if the other party is really perfunctory to himself as before.

    The above is only a personal point of view, people's feelings can not be static, two people will always be a little tired when they get along, but it does not prove that the other party does not love themselves, don't act rashly, don't lose your temper, or choose the right way and method to tell your husband what you think, I believe that if he still loves you, he will definitely pay attention to your thoughts and ideas. What are your thoughts on this? Everyone is welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think so, many men are like this after they get married, men are big pigs' trotters, and they don't cherish their wives after marriage at all.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's not your delusion, because guys don't usually cherish what they get. They don't feel like you're going to leave them.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes, it may be your delusion, it may be thinking too much, and two people need to communicate well when they encounter problems.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    After getting married, I feel that my husband is not good to myself, first of all, we have to analyze whether this is your illusion, after the two couples get married, they definitely need to live, they must not be so romantic before marriage, they should spend their money on the blade, do not compare other people's couples or couples, especially when they are married and want to live, they should not compare themselves with the couples in the love period, the love period is more romantic, and after getting married, they always have to return to life in the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, try to think about each other.

    When quarreling, you should empathize, understand that the other party's is not easy, when quarreling, both parties should calm down, when both parties are angry, quarrels will only hurt feelings more, after getting angry, the two couples can calm down and communicate what is the problem that caused this quarrel, to avoid repeating the same quarrel next time, and then do not reveal each other's old bottoms, do not turn over old accounts, just talk about things, many couples will talk about the previous unpleasant things together when they quarrel, In fact, these are very unnecessary.

    If a husband and wife quarrel, they should not involve their relatives or parents, which will not only not solve the matter, but will also expand the matter. After getting married, you find that your husband is not good to you, will it be that you are putting more and more emphasis on him in your life, resulting in many big and small things being infinitely magnified, and will you be entangled in a small thing?

    In fact, men and women are very different after they get married, after men get married, they feel that their wives are their own, and they don't need to be as attentive to their wives as they were before marriage, and after women get married, the circle of life is getting smaller and smaller, and the focus is on the husband and children, so when the husband's attitude towards himself is a little bad, it will be infinitely magnified, thinking that the husband does not love himself, in fact, this is very unnecessary, the two husbands and wives should cherish it if they are destined to be together, and try to change themselves. Do what you love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Ever since I got married, I always felt that my husband was not good to me, was this my delusion? Let me share my opinion!

    The first one, a woman's feelings are very accurate, after getting married, she always feels that her husband is not good to herself, which may be true, at this time, you must pay attention, stop losses in time, and don't let yourself be hurt in marriage.

    Women's feelings are actually very accurate, because most of the things that a woman's sixth sense foresees are correct. After getting married, I always feel that my husband is not very good to me, this may be a real thing, we must pay attention to observe whether my husband treats him sincerely, whether he is seriously managing this marriage with himself, if he really doesn't care about this marriage, he doesn't care about his feelings, he must stop the loss in time, and don't let himself be hurt in this marriage.

    Second, after getting married, I always feel that my husband is not good to me, which is actually a gap with my expected goals, and communicating and exchanging with my other half to express my dissatisfaction is the key to solving the problem.

    If there is a problem, not expressing your cranky thoughts to the other person will only make things worse. If you get married, you always feel that your husband is not good to yourself, this may be a gap between your expected goals and reality, at this time you feel very uncomfortable, don't keep yourself in your heart, you should communicate and exchange with the other half, express your dissatisfaction, this is the key to solving the problem, if a person is cranky and full of suspicion all day long, this will not only break the normal life, but will make the relationship between the two people break down, and more contradictions and quarrels will occur. Let married life be full of unhappiness.

    Since you are dissatisfied with life, you must tell each other your feelings, only by saying your feelings, the other party will understand, will make changes, and achieve your expected goals, so that the marriage will continue and the relationship between the two people will be maintained.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I don't think it's your delusion, some people are two people before and after marriage, so you yourself need to see this person clearly, and if this kind of marriage makes you feel uncomfortable, you can separate.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes. Because after getting married, a woman has to take on her own obligations, so I think this is your delusion.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Illusion. You should communicate your thoughts to your husband, is it because of what he sometimes does that you have misunderstandings? Husbands and wives should not be suspicious and honest with each other.

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