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I also encounter the same problem as you, and even sometimes I go to the street alone, I feel desolate, my only way to solve it is to surf the Internet and read books, when the mood is calm, go online for entertainment, and when the mood is troubled, read books to calm yourself, maybe we are the kind of people who can't integrate into public life, there are many kinds of people, and you don't have to force yourself to be the same as others, right?

Obviously, you're in love. Because only he and she can make you feel comforted in your heart, or find the person you feel most cordial to talk to; If you really can't do it, go find an open place and stay quietly. If you really can't do it, just look for me. Hahahaha.

Slowly try to integrate into the group, maybe everything is not as boring as you imagined, change little by little, start from caring about every little thing around you, don't force yourself, let alone exile yourself, while enjoying loneliness alone, you must also learn to give a part of your time and energy to others, how to know if you don't do it.

Either you learn to fit in with other people's groups, or you concentrate on doing your own thing and let others form groups around you...

Change, you desperately need change. You lack self-confidence, so you don't want to just watch other people's wonders, but you don't dare to do it yourself. Believe in yourself, start to change from the little bit of life, and escape will not solve the problem.

Communicate with others a lot, and you will naturally appreciate the beauty of it. Don't forget that people exist in society. As long as people are alive, they can't avoid dealing with others.

Friends are not many but fine, people's lifelong friends are indispensable, sometimes feel that people who fall in love should take the initiative to try to make friends, fear of loneliness is a common problem of people, friends of the opposite sex can also help themselves in many aspects, do not blindly reject.

Because you've been hurt, you hate men, don't you, but you always have to find a man, no, so you're very conflicted.

You can mentally shift this kind of thinking, don't keep dwelling on these issues, and take your time.

You're more introverted. At the same time, there is a little bit of autism, and to solve the problem, you have to know that there is a problem there. What you're wrestling with inside. Why do you torture yourself like this?

Friends are what life will definitely experience, open up some eyes, perhaps, we can try to be friends.

Just like me, do what you like, learn to be independent, I'm also a man, and I hate men.

Go out for a walk and take the initiative to communicate with others.

Fill yourself with your work, and you won't feel empty.

So do you like women? Or have you ever been hurt by a man?

Go on **, buy a "boyfriend" and go.

Work hard, and rest when you're tired.

Dear, he must be a person who leaves opportunities for others everywhere, this kind of person is not easy to befriend! You have to be careful.

All they need is some comfort, or the feeling of being ambiguous or liked.

You change your goals, hopeless.

It's better not to be too close to such people.

It doesn't matter. Girls who talk about stand-up comedy will be more likely to get the audience.

First of all, you have to adjust your mentality: on the stage, I am not for money and not for fame, that is my stage, and it is my world to show myself to everyone. Since it is to show itself, then it is not necessary to cater to the tastes of the audience.

I will perform what I am good at, and if I like to watch it or not, I will leave it to the audience to choose. Because no matter how ridiculous the cross talk is, there are people who can't laugh and sing beautiful songs, and some people doze off. So what do you want to do so much?

Even if I'm good at folding paper cranes, then I'm good at performing fast paper stacking cranes on stage, and I'm good at drinking a large bottle of Coke in one go, then I'll perform drinking Coke. Nothing difficult, huh? On the contrary, your free and peculiar performance, coupled with your expertise, will bring a dazzling effect.

Things in the world, don't think so complicated, simple, it's happy! Be happy yourself, and the audience below will also be infected by your happiness, this is the performance!

Find something to do, empty is just too idle, find a job or something, maybe add fun to you.

The old garden looks at the east of the road is long, and the tears of the two-sleeved dragon bell are not dry.

Immediately meet without paper and pen, and report peace with the words of the king.

That's how it is when you are idle, and it is still a snake spirit disease, find some work to do and then lie down tired, to ensure that you do not feel empty, lonely and cold.

Going out for outdoor activities, playing, and exercising is good for improving both physical and mental health.

Push yourself out of the house, force yourself to learn something, do something meaningful. Many things that you find annoying are caused by your laziness and unwillingness to change.

Don't look for it.

You're looking for a girlfriend because you're lonely.

This will not last long and be happy.

Look for it when you really want to find it.

There are many ways to get rid of loneliness.

You don't have to find a girlfriend.

Wishing you an abundant life.

Loneliness is really hard to resist, especially in the dead of night when a person, often don't know what to do, this will also become a reason for many people to indulge themselves, in fact, I think everyone has been lonely, the key is to find their own mentality, to set a goal for themselves, to constantly motivate themselves, people only overcome their own level, in order to be truly mature.

I think the role played by Takeshi Kaneshiro in "Wounded City" is an example of overcoming loneliness, and the example of not being able to overcome one's own continuous sinking is probably the role played by Tony Leung.

You can try to devote yourself to yourself.

If you have something to do, you won't feel it.

Zhi to loneliness, in addition, many great people or rich people in ancient and modern China and abroad have become talented in their hobbies, because you have a special interest in a certain aspect, you can enjoy it, you can pay a lot without feeling heartache, after a long time, you will become an expert in which aspect.

In addition, the ancients said: "A gentleman is good alone", and I hope you can do the same.

Take your time, there will be a day when you will find it, and life is like this at times and times.

Then go to some group activities, or find some friends with similar interests to hang out with.

Why would you want to be alone? Feeling bad? It's impossible to say that you don't want to say anything, and it's often because of a person that you give yourself more time to think nonsense.

It's better to find a close friend to chat, maybe he (she) can help you open the knot, you know, the bystanders are clear, and the authorities are confused. It's useless for a person to force a smile, it doesn't really come from your heart, that will make others think that you are hypocritical, don't run away, face it bravely, and believe in yourself.

Baby! Don't overthink it!

This is a normal performance at your age, sometimes you are too noisy, you want to be quiet, you will feel that your character is not bad?

It's okay! A lot of people have this idea at this time!

This means that you are about to mature and really grow up!

I usually stare at the computer screen. Look at the work of Hayao Miyazaki.

Hehe, simply go to the company to take a long vacation.