Do you have someone you can t love?

What it means to love but not to love: what you want to have is not actually obtained.

What you like is often what you have been pursuing, but what you want and what you pursue you can't get, often this state will make people very painful, like but can't get it, but don't like to fall into the cycle of guilt and blaming yourself. Generally, they will be entangled in the past, indulge in fantasies, and can't let go of what they love for the rest of their lives.

Falling in love with an impossible person feels like it is impossible to enter his world at all, while he is always in his own life; When you find out that you like him, you can think of it"No way"together, so I chose to give up while I liked it.

To sum up, the meaning of this sentence is: what you want to have is not obtained in the actual sense.

A person who can't love is someone who is in love with someone, but that person doesn't love you, but you still don't want to give up. It is a very painful thing to love someone who can't be loved, but it is also a very normal thing, because there is always such a person in your life who you love very much, but you can't be together.

It is a very painful thing to love people who can't be loved, but we also have to learn to let go, because there are some things that cannot be forced, and the twisted melon will not be sweet, we must learn to let go. People who can't love are very uncomfortable, and we also have to learn to self-regulate, because there are some things that we can't change, so we have to accept reality, we can't keep dwelling on the past, we have to look forward.

People who can't love are very painful, and we also have to learn to let go, because there are some things that we can't change, so we have to accept the reality and not dwell on the past.

Summary. People who can't love are called sweethearts or white moonlight. No matter what the person's name is, since it is love and can't get it, we must give up rationally and soberly, let go gently, entanglement and attachment are the torture and hurt of both parties, and it is the biggest consumption of ourselves.

If you can't do it, it means that it is not suitable for us, and sometimes you must have it in your life, and you can't force it in your life. Let go of what you should let go, cherish what you have in front of you, look forward to everything, life is very expensive, please don't waste it.

People who can't love are called sweethearts or white moonlight. No matter what the person's name is, since it is love and can't get it, we must give up rationally and soberly, let go gently, entanglement and attachment are the torture and hurt of both parties, and it is the biggest consumption of ourselves. If you can't do it, it means that it is not suitable for us, and sometimes you must have it in your life, and you can't force it in your life.

Let go of what you should let go, cherish what you have in front of you, look forward to everything, life is very expensive, please don't waste it.

The term "white moonlight" first came from Zhang Ailing's ** "Red Rose and White Rose": "Maybe every man has had two women like this, at least two." married a red rose, and over time, the red one changed to a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still the bright moonlight in front of the bed; married a white rose, the white one is a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, but the red one is a cinnabar mole on the heart.

White moonlight usually refers to people or things that are out of reach in the heart, which they have always loved but cannot touch. Cinnabar moles usually refer to the sweetheart of the heart and the intention of the first love that you will never forget.

In the emotional world, because love uses the heart, there are a lot of injuries and pains. Because the other party said a word, I have never forgotten it since then, and the word love is deeply moving, but it is also the most hurtful. And among them, there is a kind of pain that is sad that cannot be loved, and it is a heart-rending pain.

Love but not, in a sense, is a kind of fate and inseparable, God let you meet your beloved, but did not give you permission to be together, so in the end it can only be said that the ending of parting ways. But if the two meet and spark love, this is a kind of love fate. There are thousands of people in the world, as long as you meet it, it is a kind of fate in this life, because in the many people who pass by, meeting and knowing that person is to have an intersection with you in life, and finally become special in the ordinary.

That person ended up marrying someone else, having a child, and living happily ever after.

The more people grow up, the more they will understand that there is one of the best things in this world called not being able to get it, because it can't be obtained, so it is beautiful, because it can't be obtained, so it is unforgettable, and because it is beautiful, it rejects those who like me.

You are very entangled, you are afraid that he (she) will know you and he (she) will not know, and you are afraid that he (she) will know but pretend not to know.

How many people stay by each other's side as friends, love him (her) in the name of friends, and watch him (her) find (male) girlfriends one after another, but none of them are you.

Why are you so obsessed with him (her), this kind of love is because of deep love, or unwilling, because what you can't get is always the best.

There are too many people who can't be depressed because of love, and it is difficult to accept others, even if the person he (she) loves but can't get married and have children, he (she) doesn't come out, but this is only a few people, most people will not be like this, because the outside world, the family does not allow you to do this.

The flowers are thin in the morning, the shadows are big and light in the afternoon, the wind turns sideways through the fence, and on the fresh mud wall, the grass begins to grow.

Yesterday I talked to my mother about some relationship problems, and I accidentally thought of you again, my mother knew that I liked you, I said I still like it, my mother said, silly girl, that's impossible, you should like a person in our city, a person with a good character, a good family background, is the so-called right person in the parents. I still insist on saying no, like is like, how can I deny it, I like you, I miss you when the wind rises, I miss you when the flowers bloom, my world is all about you. As long as you look at you for sure, my love has meaning.

Once waiting at the train station, I met a young lady, she and her husband have been married for ten years, college classmates have a lover who loves her very much, they are college classmates, when waiting for the train at the train station, I don't know how to talk about her relationship problems, she told me about the person she liked very much in high school, the boy was from that town and which village, she remembered very clearly, she liked it very much, but unfortunately the schoolwork was tight at that time, and the boy was relatively ignorant, and did not start a relationship. But she liked it for many years, until she told me at the train station, her eyes were shining, it was the first love, maybe we will marry the red rose in the future, but there will always be a place in the heart of the white moonlight file seepage chain, because what you can't get is always in turmoil, and the favored one has no fear.

The young lady said that every man also has a special favorite person in his heart, and he can't love it because of various reasons. In fact, who has not been liked by others? Who hasn't liked someone?

Maybe one day I will get married, start a family, take care of and shout love for another person, but in everyone's heart, there must be the softest corner for the person you once loved the most.

Maybe not everyone has someone who can't be loved, but there must be a stranger who messes up the fawn and turns over the honeypot after a glimpse. I don't know what to do, I go deep, I can't say why, just because I like it, I love it, I love it, and I don't need any reason.

He may be wearing a white shirt that you like, or the hair brushing by his fingers after a "sorry" from the back of the bus on the bus, or the ...... of someone he met on the street corner in the next second

No matter what it is, as long as it is you in the end, may someone accompany you to stand at dusk, someone will ask you for porridge and warmth, may the kind girl take care of your picky stomach, may you have what you want, and let go of what you can't get, may you be awesome when you are separated, and the first in the world when you get together.

It really hurts to love without being able to. You don't have any reason to stand by his side in any capacity. When you see her having an affair or even a relationship with someone else, you don't have any reason to stop him from doing it.

You can only bless him against your will. Then you will know how much your heart hurts, as if it was torn apart.

If you really like him, then your first step is to make him like you too. Try to be a part of his life, make yourself good and be worthy of his liking. Live up to her hopes for you.

If you like her, you can give her some small gifts first, or go to the places she frequents to meet by chance to create some opportunities to get to know her. Learn about his interests and have topics in common with her. This will be of great help to your later confessions.

If you like it, you must boldly pursue love, and don't let your youth leave regrets.

Hello, it is mainly divided into three parts.

I'll start with your first question, and then you'll have your second question, okay.

Improve your own value system, dismantle the other party's family system, and take the initiative to find others, just these three parts.

Observe his words and actions.

I'll send you a few performances, and you can take a seat.

1.Deliberately you off and bullies you. This kind of guy is very awkward in his heart, and he actually wants to get your attention by doing this.

2.I can't help but pay attention to you, and my eyes unconsciously follow you. But when you look at it, quickly dodge.

3.Remember all your hobbies, what you like to eat, what you like to play, what colors you like, and your **. 4.

Thoughts try to get close to you, and they always don't appear around you, in your life. 5.Remember your birthday and prepare well in advance just to surprise you.

Questions. Thank you, teacher.

You're welcome. Just give it a thumbs up. It's so late, rest early, and think about these things tomorrow. Good night [than heart].

Maybe when encountering this situation, everyone's heart is sad, and even a little persistent, always thinking about why they love him so much, but in the end they can't get him.

It is precisely because of such an idea that it is likely to entangle, will force, and in the end only end up with one injury, and the other party is completely indifferent.

If you love someone, you must be together, this varies from person to person, some people will feel that if you love someone, you must find a way to be together, and some people will put this love silently in their hearts, and he will look at him from afar, for her, this is also a kind of happiness.

Forced love will not last long, forced people will not be happy, everyone has some obsessions in love, when the person you like doesn't like you, or two people who love each other are separated for some reason, in this case, there will often be a lot of reluctance in the heart.

Many people will not be able to let go after a breakup, nothing more than nostalgia for his kindness to you, reluctant to give up the good memories of the past, every time I think back to these, I will feel like returning to him.

But the more reluctant you are, the more you will not be able to let go, the more reluctant you are, the more you will make yourself miserable, and when you can't love, the best thing to do is to take a step back and walk in the sky, rather than continue to entangle, which is not good for anyone.

No matter how beautiful the past is, it is also a thing of the past, no matter how good he is to you, he will never come back, don't cling to it, don't be nostalgic for the past, tell yourself to look forward.

If you can't love, then let go of the nostalgia for the past, only in this way can you get out of this relationship faster and move forward bravely.

Leave the wrong feelings.

The more you can't get something, the more you want to get it, this is the common nature of human beings, but can you get it by forcing it? It might just make you more uncomfortable.

If you know that the other party doesn't love you, then stop the loss in time, don't continue in a wrong relationship, that is the biggest harm to yourself.

For love, we can only go with the flow, obey the arrangement of fate, and force it not to come.

Some people are lucky to meet the person who has been with them all their lives at the beginning, while some people have to search for the right person to meet them.

In this waiting process, maybe you will experience some love but can't, at this time, you must learn not to force, only in this way, it is possible to reap the happiness in the future.

People who love you for a long time but decide to let go, may not be suddenly wrong with love, but gradually accumulate disappointment and sadness, save enough loneliness and give up, and finally in the end, not to see others clearly, but to see yourself clearly, for example, to see that self-restraint has never been loved, to understand that you have never been cherished, and to understand that there is always someone in the world who belongs to your love but can't.

Time is silent, but it solves all problems.

We will eventually see who our love should belong to day after day, and we should also see our happiness in the flow of time, whether it is happier to love others, or more stable to love ourselves.

The person who has loved you for a long time but decided to give up on you, these reasons are the existence and occurrence of reality: first, I see clearly that my love is very humble and pitiful, rather than being accompanied by enthusiasm, it is better to let go and turn around decently, sometimes love does not have to be together, and love does not have to have; Second, every time I hope, in exchange for disappointment, rather than looking forward to full of loss, it is better to never fantasize and yearn for; Third, one-way running and enthusiasm, lack of interaction and contact, it is inevitable that people will be banished from seriousness and concentration.

Love for a long time, there will be no result, what we need most is not to complain and complain, but to learn to know and understand, to understand and respect, to learn to be relieved and tolerant, not that you love others enough will have results, nor that you pay a lot will have satisfaction, this matter is difficult to complete, not to meet, not to live up to affection, so good.