Zhang Ailing has a saying that because she understands, she understands what is behind and who will

Because we understand, we are compassionate.

I think this is the feeling of him, it must be something that he has encountered, he has experienced setbacks, and he understands and then he gets the emotion, you can relate to what is happening around him, or say something to his heart, and you may understand.

This phrase can be translated as: because of understanding, so acceptance.

Because we know each other, we understand.

Because we understand, we are compassionate.

Looking at my blog, I use this sentence as the name of the space.

<> "Zhang Ailing. Because I have loved, I understand.

The moon on the sea is the moon in the sky, the person in front of him is the person he likes, and his heart has always been the heart of the guest, but the person is the person in the play.

I'd rather rain every day, thinking you're not coming because it's raining.

People always feel happy when they are close to happiness, but they suffer from gains and losses when happiness is in progress.

Meet the people you meet among thousands of people, in the endless wilderness of time, there is no one step earlier, no one step late Zheng Kuyan, just caught up, then there is no other defeat and words to say, only to ask softly: "Oh, are you here too?"

If you knew me in the past, maybe you would forgive me now.

When I hear something that is obviously irrelevant, I will think of you in my heart several times.

Because you have loved, you are merciful;

Because you understand, you are tolerant.

If you don't come, how dare I grow old.

I want you to know that there is always someone waiting for you in this world, no matter when, no matter where, anyway, you know, there is always such a person.

1 Selected from "Red Roses and White Roses", it should mainly talk about a man's mentality, and it is also a high summary of the ** center.

2 ,4 Zhang Ailing's pursuit of clothing that is close to morbid is well known. This sentence reflects her mentality about clothing, and shows that she thinks clothing has an important meaning in real life.

3 To be honest, I haven't read this sentence, can you tell me the source? Literally, it's nothing more than writing about how you feel about memories.

Please, this sentence must tell me the source!

5 Obviously a well-known sentence written to Hu Lancheng. When she met Hu Lancheng, she thought that she had met a confidant, and the two knew each other and "stayed together", Zhang Ailing thanked this person for accompanying her, understanding her, and forgiving her.

Hehe, that's what I thought! Hope it helps.

I'm also a fan of Zhang, so you must tell me the source of that sentence!!

Zhang Ailing's language has to be savored by herself, there are no very esoteric sentences and very obscure words, and if you want others to explain it to you, it will be wrong.

Like the first sentence, is there a word you don't understand? If you're an elementary school student, then I'll be in vain, and explain something you don't understand.

1. What you don't get is always the best, and the lover who doesn't stay with you is always the most unforgettable.

2. People rely on clothing, and clothes can show a person's temperament, taste, background, economic level, experience, etc. It is a person who gives an important impression. More intuitive than a "business card".

3. Zhang Ailing's pen, memory is a very mysterious meaning, she uses the image of "fragrance" as a metaphor, which contains the fragrance of camphor, because the depressed wardrobe is often a symbol of the passage of time, whenever the four seasons turn over the cabinet when the camphor incense will be overflowing, reminding people of the past. And as soon as I smell this smell, my heart is full of thoughts, both happy and melancholy.

4 This is a part of the details of life. Zhang Ailing is very particular about dress, clothes are a metaphor, a metaphor for the human nature that is covered. Eileen Chang described it as mysterious.

5.It's a detached and straightforward expression. is another expression of "long live understanding".

Because I understand that his fate is over when he leaves me, I forgive him for his dishonesty. Because I know that fate is full of ups and downs, I forgive the helplessness of life. Because I understand that the world is changing too fast, I am compassionate to all changes.

As long as people understand the Dharma deeply, they will feel empathy. When you gain a deeper understanding of the immeasurable compassion of the Buddha, your mind will also rise with compassion. Hehe, it works for other things.

If you really love someone, you will be eager to know everything about her, so that you know that there are strengths and weaknesses in him (her), know in which things he or she will make mistakes and hurt you, so as to tolerate her (him) and forgive her (him) for hurting you in that situation, this is because you understand, so you are compassionate.

The answer upstairs is not quite correct... Because I understand, I am compassionate This sentence is to answer Hu Lancheng, but it is not about her and Hu Lancheng, but about her works. Zhang Ailing's works deconstruct human nature, but use the artistic technique of "uneven contrast", to put it simply, she describes human nature with a receptive attitude, not a criticism of human nature.

Because I understand, what I understand is the various states of the world, so it is also the various states of the world that are compassionate and tolerant.

If you feel that you can "understand", that is, you really understand and trust this person, then there is nothing he should or should not do to you, just "of course".

So if there is such a person who makes you feel that you can really let go of your own love or hate, joy or anger, then everything you do for him is from your ego's "willingness".

The attachment to love will inevitably give birth to all kinds of suffering. And if you let go of the attachment to the purpose, there is no gain or loss. If there is no doer, no recipient, no process, no result, and reluctant to abandon a thing, only then can we say "compassion".

Distress or existence, or forgetting, this is known only to oneself.

Summary. It means that we will no longer care about gains and losses, and believe in God's arrangement, and what we have lost will come back in another form.

Zhang Ailing once wrote what this sentence really means.

My boyfriend told me this, Zhang Ailing once wrote, the real maturity is probably, the things you like are still liked, but you don't force it anymore, what you are afraid of is still afraid, dare to face it, how short life is, you have to laugh extra sweet, don't get entangled in the knot, don't hesitate to come to the end, I hope you know how to let go, live freely, if it backfires, please believe that God has other arrangements, so lost, all the old eggplant will return in another way, what does this sentence mean? Teacher.

It means that we will no longer care about gains and losses, and believe in God's arrangement, and what we have lost will come back in another form.

Has your boyfriend been emotionally upset lately?

The mountains and rivers are far and wide, and the stars in the world are none of you, and none of them are you. What does this phrase mean.

The years are quiet and warm. The meaning of this sentence is: to be able to peacefully and warmly accompany each other for a lifetime, and everything is calm and never regretted.

Accompany a person, walk with her, but don't want anything, and I am very glad that I can accompany her, no sweet words, just the simplest, most ordinary greetings, care.

No matter the ups and downs outside, no matter how the world changes. Give life a trace of calm, give life a reality, you meet someone, you love him a little more, then, you will always lose him. When you meet another one, he loves you a little more, and sooner or later you will leave him.

Until one day, you meet someone and you love each other, and that's what you're looking for.

The years are quiet and good provenance:

From Hu Lancheng's famous sentence "The years are quiet, the present world is stable", this is his promise to Zhang Ailing. When Zhang Ailing and Hu Lancheng met, Hu Lancheng had a wife and was imprisoned in Nanjing for political reasons. It is said that such a "tainted" man will always make women hesitate, but she Duan Gao doesn't care about all this.

I only feel that love is my own, and the rest is someone else's, and if it is someone else's, I don't need to think about it.