It s not that I discriminate, isn t it like this for all boys in rural areas? 20

That's him, please don't look at the world with colored eyes, it's like a brain-dead drama on TV, those who claim that there is no good man in the world, didn't they find a man to marry in the end?

His fault is his fault, when the two are not suitable for a relationship, they should find out, how good are you to break up now, what else do you want?

Forget about it when you break up, no matter how good or bad he is, what does it have to do with you? True forgetting, is without liking, without hatred, just like the feeling of strangers, time will make you reach this state.

You're not discriminating, you're short-sighted.

Don't blame your emotional problems on rural boys, which group has no scum.

It's because you don't have a good eye and you're not decisive enough. If it's already gone, there's nothing going on.

This kind of man is disgusting, not all rural boys are like this. It's just that there are differences in your habits and thoughts. I have always believed that the right love is relatively solid, and if the distance is too far, it will always feel awkward.

And I also think he's not responsible enough, not like a man should do. It's like I'm a farmer, and I'm afraid of whom. and you, blindly accommodating him, so that he formed a natural emotion, presumably his self-esteem was hurt, so he did everything possible to find fault with you.

In the face of some things, you have to have the courage to tell him and let him bear it with you. You have to tell him about his mistakes in time. Don't take yourself seriously and look so humble in front of love.

Where is the self-confidence, self-esteem of our women? Believe in yourself、In the end, I still hope that you can get out of his shadow and love yourself well。 A good marriage is just around the corner...

A person's character is not representative of the characteristics of a group.

I'm also from the countryside, but the hard life has only taught me to be at peace with what comes my way, not with what I want. I will not look for her happiness without self-confidence, and I believe that love is not something to be chased or begged for.

Say sorry privately to a few people who have been at the wrong time in my life. I can't afford that responsibility.

He doesn't love you ...If I love you, I won't treat you like this, and as for rural boys and city boys, it doesn't matter where you are, and all kinds of people will have them.

Cups. It varies from person to person, and there are also rustic country boys! There are also people like your boyfriend in the city, right!?

I am also from the countryside, a native of the village.

But how can there be a man like this in the world that you described? Is 2012 coming?

Everyone is different, it's good to leave him, this kind of boy is not worth cherishing,

Don't say that, I'm a rural person! I've never seen such a rural person who is not human! Hey, it's so inhuman!

Well, he's at the negative level... If he gets married in the future, it is estimated that it will not be long.

Since ancient times, there has been no shortage of vigorous love, the key is whether you can touch it and whether you can keep it!!

It depends on how much they love each other.

Can I be realistic?

1.。Do girls discriminate against boys with rural hukou?

A: Some are, some don't. Wealthier families will inevitably have psychological pimples, 2Can you accept marrying into the countryside?

A: Most of them want to go out of the countryside, let alone marry there. If the child follows you, you are a rural hukou... No one should dare to say that they don't care.

When I was in high school, I had a classmate who had a rural hukou.,It seems like some self-righteous classmates... Anyway, I don't want to say it.

If you really love you, you won't.

Obviously, these points you said are a summary of the shortcomings of most people, one person accounts for one or two points at most, if these shortcomings are combined with one person or your boyfriend, it can only be said that it is impossible or you look at your boyfriend too specially. In fact, the hypocrisy of rural people is a little better than that of urban people. Isn't the simplicity of rural people too earthy for the hypocrisy and hypocrisy of urban people?

I'm also from the countryside, they have a good side, but sometimes it's really an accident, and I also said I can't stand it, hehe, maybe the gap between the current towns and villages is too big, and some of them have a bit of a deformed personality! But there are very few bad intentions, but it's true, it's understandable...

Actually, I don't want to be scolded (even if it's true, there is no malice, some people will scold me indiscriminately) My husband is also in the countryside and his living habits are not very good Love to take advantage of a little bit Everything seems to be reasonable I don't like it the most But you can slowly correct him The things you said are not only in the countryside There are also such people in the city In fact, the countryside is just like outsiders Your own people are even if they are neighbors, they will be very close to you If you marry a rural person, you will know The most important thing is that you have such a mentality It is difficult to be with your boyfriend In your heart, you can't accept the countryside anymore.

Obviously, what you see and hear is one-sided

If nothing else, you use what you say to paraphrase your so-called city people, and many things are more than enough

You say, "My sister-in-law and my boyfriend are from the countryside, but they are very kind." "I'm mentioning my boyfriend's shortcomings again.

I dare say that a lot of your feelings are experienced because of them, and you have changed your impression of them Beware of Relationship Crisis

**People are good and bad, many great people in society are from poor rural areas, I believe you don't need to say that you also know some. Of course, I'm not saying that the quality in the city is not good, just like the rich second generation also has some quality that is very good.

Everyone's opinion is different!

On the one hand, the education level of rural people is a little lower.

On the other hand, many people are familiar with each other and understand each other, but they can't empathize.

Especially people who have a bad time themselves, like to watch.

Other people's jokes, so that you have a balance in your heart.

In particular, some long-tongued women are always in the east and the west are short.

This reason is very simple, because most of the rural people are either distant relatives or close neighbors in their hometowns, they are very familiar with each other, and they often chat together about family life, and it is the same in the city, and it is inevitable that there will be leisure when there is more talk, and it is undeniable that there are more such phenomena in the countryside.

Because most people in rural areas are idle, some have time to gossip about others, and love to use others as topics and point fingers.

Uh·· You estimate that it is similar to her, before you talk about others, look at yourself. You think you're good, that's called self-appreciation. He also said that it is not discrimination, I am also from the countryside, and I think you are no better than the rural people.

You don't have the rustic of rural people. Innocence, kindness. Don't say it, waste saliva to know not!

Nabs!

This is normal. Nowadays, many girls are materialistic.

So we boys have to keep our eyes open and find a good one.

Of course, you have to work hard.

At the very least, let them know that we are rural.

But we are also very elitist!

Because they come from a different background than yours and think differently from you. Most people in the countryside either work hard and are faithful, or they are full of hypocrisy.

Now that you've made it clear, it's useless for them to stalk. Now it's not that you don't respect them, it's that they don't respect you. So you don't have to give them face to deal with this.

Not everyone has a normal mind. It's good to be entertained, so why care.

Think too highly of yourself and easily look down on others. You don't drop it either.

This is just the condition of her family, there are many people of the older generation in order to save face in front of friends, this situation is inevitable. Take it easy.

...You asked again - do you want to open it yourself? Anyway, I know don't want to offend anyone. Let's talk about it. That woman also loves less? Anyway yourself ...

If you don't like it, just find a random block card to cover it and ask him to be more interesting.

But then again, the classmates who chase are also very courageous, if it does not affect your normal study and life.

It's okay to make a regular friend, you have to learn to hint.

How do you know you're not ugly, I don't want to bend my mind to meet anyone, ugly or not ugly is not your skin, understand? Child!

Ouch appearance association, people like you and look up to you, ugly if you don't like it, don't like it There is no need to emphasize that people are ugly boys in the countryside, if the boy is handsome, you shouldn't say that.

Well, exactly?

Your expression makes me wonder what things are really like.

This is a typical phoenix man, but I need to explain what a phoenix man is. The so-called phoenix man was born in the countryside, or a remote mountain village, he was born very poor, and then went to the whole family to rely on him to be able to shine on the lintel, and then not surprisingly, the man was admitted to a good university with his own efforts and perseverance, and then stayed in the big city after graduation, because he graduated from a good university, and also found a good job, with the persistence and perseverance that others did not have, and finally his career was thriving, and finally it was time to get married, and generally they would choose girls in the city as their marriage partners.

Speaking of which, you must subjectively think how motivated this boy who has become a phoenix is. So do you think such a man can be an ideal marriage partner, anyway, he just has a bad background, it doesn't matter.

So why do many people stand up and say not to marry a phoenix man or not to marry a peacock woman, in fact, it is because those who marry a phoenix man or marry a peacock woman come out to complain, because in fact, after getting married, they find that there are really a lot of differences in many concepts, don't look at which small mountain village they have jumped out of the dragon gate, but their roots are there, so they generally can't change those concepts, and the backward feudal concept has always been there. And we can often see that these people generally have a lot of burdens behind them, in fact, it is a burden, a bit too much, it should be said that the burden is more precise.

Some of them are too heavy, so many people here suggest that they should stay away from the phoenix man, although as I am also born in a small village in the city, I almost don't want to marry a city girl, because it is too squeamish and not suitable.

Why do some people say that girls in the city are better off marrying men from the countryside? There are many reasons for this.

First, most of the men in the countryside have very low emotional intelligence, mostly! Mostly! Mostly! I'm from the countryside, and now I don't know how low my EQ used to be, and now I look back and look back at the past, it's just miserable.

Why do I have low emotional intelligence? Because I used to like a girl, but the result was that my emotional intelligence was too low and I missed it. (Now it's regret and sadness.)

The main thing is that I have been out in the countryside before, and my emotional intelligence has not been cultivated. The point is, this is not an isolated case, my other friend and brother in the countryside are still single. Rectal cancer and low emotional intelligence are really hard to find a girlfriend.

The second reason is that most of the boys in rural areas are not able to take care of the girls. Let's chase girls, coaxing girls and making girls happy are necessary, but as a boy who has been in the countryside since childhood, what is that, do you want to come and play together. Saying such things to a girl you like, I really want to slap my former self.

My dad has a very low emotional intelligence, and he often quarrels with my mom, because a little thing is a fight. Sometimes girls quarrel with you not to prove that they are right, but to hope that the boy will let him hurt himself a little. Sometimes my mom is really angry with my dad, and my dad still looks like I'm right, you can't tell me the way I look.

Is there a genetic factor in the low emotional intelligence in rural areas?

Later, I experienced some things, understood, saw through a little, and began to make girls happy, make girls laugh, and accompany them, but the past can't be changed.

Generally speaking, it is more correct to say that the family is a good match, and this point is also very useful from ancient times to the present. Marriage is a lifelong event, if you rely on impulse to find a person who is not in the right household, not only the parents are opposed, but also after remarriage, you will encounter various practical obstacles, such a marriage is really difficult to withstand the wind and rain.

Of course, I want to state here that I do not reject the idea of rural people, I am also from the countryside, but I just say that there is a gap between urban and rural views, customs, food culture, etc., which is inconvenient for future post-marital communication, and after remarriage, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is already difficult, which is undoubtedly worse for marriage. I watched the TV series "Mother-in-law is Coming", which tells the story of a city girl marrying a phoenix man, and the two settled down in the city, but the arrival of the mother-in-law messed everything up, of course, it can't be said that the mother-in-law is wrong, it can only be said that the old man and the young man have different thoughts, and there is a generation gap between chatting and doing things, and in the end it almost led to the end of divorce. If you are a boy in the countryside, it is recommended not to eat swan meat, because this swan meat is too far, especially the distance between families is too far, and there will never be an intersection.

Of course, if it is the other way around, rural women and urban men get married, then it may not be the same result, I have always had a better impression of rural girls who go to school and take the exam, although the family background is not good, but they can be self-reliant and self-reliant, and the concept of economic independence is better. Therefore, if you find a city man, it should also be a blessing for boys, all kinds of dirty work, housework, laundry and cooking, isn't it also very good. Therefore, this family is also particular, and you can't overly worship it, and you can't disbelieve it.