What is Kindness? Is kindness honest to be honest?

Kindness = love for others.

Kindness should not be regarded as honest and simple, honest and simple people are called stupid in today's society!

Why does kindness suffer, because kind people have love! Love = give without asking for anything in return, so always suffer!

Humans are emotional creatures! Man is an animal, animals have a nature, and nature is selfish! So it is normal to deprive others of their interests for their own benefit! Why deprive the good of people because good people have love and love and will give!

The existence of kindness is still necessary! It's not emotionless to think and act! It's with a kind heart, think rationally!

can't be like Cao Cao, "I'd rather bear the people of the world than let the people of the world bear me".

It is a blessing to suffer a loss, and it is okay to think more rationally and not to suffer a big loss!

There is a true story: a kind young man saw an old lady knocked to the ground and kindly went up to help her up. (The perpetrator ran away) The old lady grabbed the kind young man and hit the young man! Many people know about it!

Later, a true story: a kind-hearted middle-aged man saw a car accident, first took a picture with the camera on his mobile phone, and then saved people after taking pictures! I watched this matter on Anhui Satellite TV's super news show every morning!

I don't agree with what you said, kindness and honesty are not directly linked, kind people can also be clever, can also be treacherous, honest is a kind of character, of course, many times, kind people are more honest, and kind people are not always the one who suffers, as long as you stick to a positive characteristic that you recognize, you will always get more.

Kindness and honesty are the same in a sense.

However, I think we always like to be perceived as kind rather than honest by others.

But reality always likes to play tricks on people, so to put it this way, you can be kind, but don't be honest, because often only if you first give others an impression of being dishonest, and then your kindness will be truly kind, so that your kindness can be really valued by others, and you can touch the hearts of others.

Otherwise, even if you are kind, people will only think you are honest.

Kind people are not necessarily honest people, in fact, everyone has his kind side and vicious side, it mainly depends on which trend you prefer, as for the loss. I can't help you, but remember, it's good to suffer, trust me.

Kindness is not honesty. It is black and white, and it adds human touch on the basis of the truth, but it must be carried out within the scope of the law.

The kinder the person now, the more vulnerable they are to being bullied.

Anyone with a discerning eye can see that it is basically impossible for good to be rewarded for good, and evil to be rewarded for evil.

Bad people live far better than good people, and good people are mixed into the bottom of society.

So the question is, as a person with a good heart, I see that the bad people live better than the other, should I insist on the goodness in my heart?

In fact, the kindness of many people is not really kind, but the cover of himself being an honest person.

An honest man has no ability to do evil, and if he wants to do evil, he can't do evil at all!

There is an essential difference between kindness and honesty, don't mistake honesty for kindness.

It is impossible for a truly kind person to mix at the bottom of society, because a person who can't even fight the bad guys can't be counted as a really good person.

can't fight the kindness of bad people, the essence is just a cover for their own incompetence.

Is kindness something that anyone can insist on?

Helping others is an extremely difficult thing to do, and it even takes someone with extraordinary abilities to do it.

It's important to note that being kind doesn't mean being kind.

Many people have good intentions, but they still don't have the ability to help others.

Therefore, many honest people have neither the ability to do evil nor the ability to do good.

Therefore they can neither be counted as good nor bad people, they can only be called honest people.

Therefore, the kindness that many honest people insist on in their hearts actually does not exist at all, because they are not kind at all.

When they see others suffering, they can only do nothing, because they are still unable to protect themselves, and they are constantly being bullied by others, so what can they do to help others?

The dilemma of many honest people is like this, when others want to find him for help, anyone can find him. But he wanted to ask for help, but no one could find him.

Personally, I think kindness should bring a little edge, kindness is not without a bottom line, but has its own principles.

First of all, in the eyes of many people, kindness is a kind of unprincipled and bottom-line, and they don't know how to refuse other people's requests, and even if they can't do it sometimes, they agree to it. This is actually not real kindness, this kind of kindness is a kind of flattering disease, it is the fear that one's own rejection will make the relationship stiff, to put it bluntly, it is the bottom line of unconfidence, and it is the embodiment of self-cheapness.

Secondly, true kindness is based on self-knowledge, being responsible for oneself and others.

Kindness is based on self-knowledge, and we may need to remember that kindness is never a principled way to help others. Our goodness is based on self-knowledge. Just like if someone falls into the water, if you are not accustomed to water, your best way must not be to jump into the water to save someone, but to find someone who can swim or call the police to let the police assist.

Each of us may need to weigh our own weight.

For example, when we don't have much strength, the best way is not to please others everywhere, but to strengthen ourselves. When we are strong ourselves, we will have more strength to help others. When we are weak, remember that it is more important to learn to be obscure than to be deliberately kind, because you must first learn to take care of yourself.

Honor your parents and pay for your parents.

Truly kind men behave. We've heard the phrase Peikuan. Called.

To be known. It's not true goodness. Therefore, the kindness of Jinnah Nakazakura should be reflected in the inconspicuous details and ordinary life.

For example. When you see someone in need, you go for help without giving back. Went to the restaurant and was nice to the waiter.

Rather than feeling superior to others. These performances show that this person is truly kind. There is a temperature in the heart.

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