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Always remind yourself that everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. Know yourself correctly. Improve self-evaluation, often recall your strengths and examples of your success through hard work, be kind and discover your strengths, affirm your achievements and stimulate your self-confidence.
Overcome the habit of blindly comparing yourself to others and affirm that it is best to tell yourself that it is best. Don't remember unpleasant things, be kind to others, find someone to talk to about your troubles, go to crowded places, let the crowd pass in front of you, and try to give people a smile.
Exercise more Participate in extracurricular activities and get in touch with the sunshine of nature with your classmates. If you have a girl you like, you must be bold to contact it, you must feel that you can do your best, sincerity is the most important, and don't be too big about other people's opinions.
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The personality traits of the self are the most important, and showing the true self in front of girls is the most important.
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Don't care what others think, go your own way and let others have five ways to go.
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It is a lie to say that appearance is not important, because a person's first impression is very important, and there are many people who judge people by their appearance. But a person's internal letter is more important, there is a saying called "the road knows the horsepower, and the people will see the hearts of the people over time". You don't have self-confidence in yourself, so how can you expect others to believe in you?
First of all, you have to change your attitude, be confident, other people's opinions are not very important, what is important is yourself, because you live for yourself, not for other people's opinions, you know? A person who doesn't know how to appreciate you, do you think it's interesting to be with him? A person who has no opinions, don't do it, if his family opposes it, I think he will give up on it.
Show your good side and let everyone know that you are a person with inner beauty, and you are afraid that you don't want it if you are kind-hearted? I didn't say anything frustrating, but I had to be confident.
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You care too much about what others think of you, other people's thoughts are just your guesses, everyone in the world is different, and you shouldn't care too much about your words and deeds. As you said, as long as you have a grateful heart, go your own way and let others talk about it.
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In fact, introverts basically have one thing in common, that is, they are not confident enough and feel that they are not good enough. Because most people think that people who can be generous and decent in front of everyone and talk eloquently are excellent and charming people. Therefore, some introverts will feel inferior because they feel nervous and shy about the attention of others, so they cannot communicate with others easily and smoothly.
As animals living in groups, human beings have a subconscious desire to be recognized by others. Introverts are naturally more difficult to gain the recognition and appreciation of others because they are not good at or afraid to express themselves, so they are prone to self-doubt, even self-denial, and dare not believe in their own abilities. The establishment of everyone's self-confidence requires not only self-affirmation, but also the support and recognition of others.
If self-affirmation is the cornerstone of self-confidence, then the support and recognition of others is the subsequent brick. Therefore, the support of others is a very important factor in building confidence in yourself.
Especially for introverts, their self-affirmation is relatively weak, and if they cannot get the recognition and support of others, it will be more difficult to build self-confidence, and even form a vicious circle, and introverts will become more inferior and feel that they are not good enough. To improve this, I think it is not only necessary for introverts to learn to let go of themselves, express themselves, and believe in themselves, but also need the support and encouragement of family and friends, so that they know that they actually have something very good and can be appreciated, so that they can slowly build self-confidence and no longer doubt and deny.
The best way is to take out the words in your heart Just a sentence It's hard at the beginning of everything Call her ** and say, 'I have something to tell you I like you very much I mean it I mean it I won't say anything else Can you accept me' She will definitely not accept it right away Maybe she will reject you Or something like that, but don't be discouraged Give her time and then strike while the iron is hot If she accepts it, she may not say it The next day you will ask her out for dinner If you successfully make an appointment with her, you will be half the success Since you can make an appointment, it depends on you Be bold, be fine-hearted, be thick-skinned, support the bold, starve the timid, take out the courage of a man, haha.
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