Emotional experts come to help me, and experts who oppose early love will go

Don't divide it, but don't be too ambiguous, keep a good friend relationship, so that the relationship will not be cold.

My ex and I were discovered by teachers and parents because we were too conspicuous, and then we had to separate.

At that time, I regretted dying, and I knew that it was not so conspicuous.

Try not to let the people in the class know, some people with big mouths and long tongues are even more taboo.

Just let your friends know.

Take the initiative to talk to her.

In fact, many parents do not approve of early love, but are afraid of delaying the learning of both men and women. Everyone does different things at different ages. For example, how old is to go to school, how old is to work, how old is to get married, how old is to have children, and so on.

The two of them can help each other for the purpose of studying together, and if a few years later, after being admitted to college, the two of them are really still the same as now, then it is true love. So it's not a big deal to be together now. If academic performance is guaranteed, I believe that parents will not say anything.

Bless you all!

She respects her parents and voluntarily shares with you. And now delete your QQ, it's clear that I really don't want to be with you, why do you have to be with her? Then she will hold a grudge against you.

If you really want to talk, find another one. If you're looking for a taste of puppy love, give it a try, there's no harm in having this experience. But if you want to be together for the rest of your life or something, then it's better not to get your hopes up too much, what will you talk about for the rest of your life.

Puppy love generally ends without a problem. Besides, you are only fourteen years old, and it will take seven or eight years to get married, how can you persevere? If you want to find someone of the opposite sex you can talk to and share everything, then you don't have to determine the boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, it's good to be an ordinary friend, why do you have to break it?

So, I think you still have to figure out what you're here for.

You give him time and tell him that you will wait for him. The little girl can't stand it. After this time, he felt good and relieved. But you have to give him warmth and love, and he is very upset now.

The troubles of early love plague the hearts of some young boys and girls who are dabbled in love, and affect their growth. Therefore, it is necessary to guide teenagers to learn to control their emotions and not to fall into love too early. From the point of view of sexual mental hygiene, middle school students should also not be in a relationship because:

1) The idea is not yet finalized. Since middle school students have not yet formed their world outlook, their views on the world, society, and life are still relatively naïve and one-sided, and their ideological and moral qualities will change greatly in their future lives. Today there may be agreement, tomorrow there may be disagreement, and a few years later they may part ways.

According to some data, it is extremely difficult for middle school students to succeed in early love, and less than 20% still maintain romantic relationships. (2) Psychologically immature. Secondary school students are still in the stage of psychological development, they are self-righteous, impulsive, emotionally unstable, and have poor self-control.

Therefore, it is very easy to be emotional and do "deviant" things when you are in love. And once "deviant", for female students, the psychological damage caused is irreparable for life. (3) It is not yet economically independent.

Middle school students are financially dependent on their parents or others, and they are not yet independent, and they need an economic foundation to develop from love to marriage and have children. (4) The career has not been oriented. The middle school years are the time to lay the foundation, and there is no direction for what kind of career to engage in in the future.

Some middle school students mistakenly believe that "as long as two people are like-minded, falling in love will not affect their studies", which is extremely unobjective. A large number of facts have proved that after middle school students fall in love, their feelings are often restrained by each other, and they are not distracted from studying, and their grades are not declining.

It is necessary to strengthen education on the phenomenon of early love among middle school students and prevent it from happening; It is necessary to consciously develop and increase the interaction between boys and girls, so as to dilute each other's curiosity about the opposite sex and enable them to grasp their own emotions safely; Grasp the signs and prevent the slightest. Generally speaking, the "precursors" of early love in middle school students may include: sudden excessive love for grooming; distracted in class, even in a trance, and a sudden drop in academic performance; Students who are lively and like to socialize with others suddenly become taciturn, etc.; The following principles of guidance should be adopted to help them solve problems in order to smoothly pass the restless period of adolescent germination, and avoid using forbidden, blocked, stuck, pressed and other means.

Human beings are inherently made up of men and women, and they should not be artificially separated from each other.