People say I m introverted, and I m really upset! Depressed

Your eldest brother is also good for you You can try to talk to your eldest brother Next time your eldest brother says this about you You can joke and say I know Big brother After that, I said that I am also practicing Don't keep talking about me I don't have confidence in what I said This can not only tell you your thoughts but also enhance your feelings Don't you think hehe, don't think too much It's really for your good! Men do have a lot to experience when they go outside.

As long as you have a positive and optimistic attitude towards life, it will be good ......There is no defining standard for introversion and extroversion, and the environment is different, and the procedures required are the same, so we are all okay ......Let's learn slowly!

We are too similar, alas, introverts can't afford to hurt, and introverted men can't afford to hurt! Only true introverts understand!

It's not your fault that you're introverted, you don't blame yourself too much, it's born to happen, it's not so easy to change, I wish you all the best.

There is no need to change your personality, just change your lifestyle. The key is your own mentality, to let go, the outside will naturally let go.

1 You should first try to speak loudly to your family, starting with speaking loudly. 2 Be sure to say hello to your relatives or classmates around you, don't worry about having nothing to say, or being cold, you can say "good morning" or "I'm going first, goodbye" or "How are you doing?" when you meet relatives or classmates. "What do you think of me as a person?"

Introverts are easy to be looked down upon, I used to be introverts, my classmates accommodated me in everything, sometimes I had conflicts with them, they didn't quarrel with me, just said "we all sympathize with you, because you are too honest, so we don't quarrel with you". At that time, I was very depressed, and I am not a beggar, so I want you to sympathize with something.

Don't worry about not doing well on yourself, be sure to believe in yourself. Don't worry about saying the wrong thing, and don't worry about causing a cold. I once went to see a psychiatrist because I was too introverted.

The psychiatrist told me, "You should make mistakes when you are young, and you can learn from the mistakes you make, and when you go out into society, you will not be allowed to make mistakes."

As for going to parties or whatever, don't force yourself to do it, and I've tried to do that, and I think I'm just dumb with introverts, and it's really hard to sit alone and stupid.

Introversion is not a disease, it can be completely changed.

If a person is too introverted, he will be perceived as honest, and if an introvert does not break through himself, he may not enjoy a lot of fun in life.

Why can't I speak louder? You know that if you speak too quietly and people ask you repeatedly, they will get depressed and don't want to communicate with you too much.

If others speak, you don't look at them, people must think that you have a ghost in your heart, or you are thinking nonsense.

Don't be afraid to say the wrong thing.

I wish you a speedy change in your introverted personality.

I recommend a song "Be Proud of Yourself", you must listen to it I think this lyric is very good: "If you want to get it, you have to jump as high as others, and one day, when I look back, I will be proud of myself".

You can go and sell something face-to-face, which will boost your guts.

Like you, I'm 5 years older than you!

Don't be afraid, the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge, and there will be a road before the car reaches the mountain!

Don't worry, you don't have any problems, introversion and extroversion are relative, and it has nothing to do with falling in love, it's not that you can't find a girlfriend if you're introverted, it's just that the time hasn't come yet! Believe in yourself!

Have you been like this since you were a child? If so, then you have to look for the root cause, whether it is related to the family environment, strict education, and a bad childhood will have a profound impact on the formation of character later in life. If not, then you didn't do too well during your adolescence, and during this period, you didn't get timely and effective communication with your parents and teachers.

Once you have an objective and deep understanding of yourself, you must have a firm determination to change. First of all, establish yourself as an equal balance with others, dare to express your shortcomings, show your true self, and don't be afraid of making mistakes, because no one is perfect, as long as it is really fresh, it will have its own charm.

First, be open: show yourself.

No matter what you are, live your life as you are, and infect others with your own style with laughter, this is openness.

Second, spirituality: self-communication.

At all times, you must know how to get your brain turning. The way is to keep communicating with yourself and exploring various problems in life.

Third, decisiveness: count down to five seconds.

When you want to do something, count down to five seconds and then act on it, don't think about it so much.

When you get these three things right, it's perfect. Noisy beats.

You can only change if you let go of yourself first.

It's okay, although it is difficult to be a man, but in this world, only by constantly making friends and constantly showing everyone your goodness can you live a wonderful life. I don't think I'm traveling, but there is no Hu Lu in the world, and there are no shortcomings, but there are also people who continue to save according to their own efforts It's not so tiring to live, right? Be happy and believe in yourself!

Hope it helps you (3).

Try to be open, be cheerful, and talk to your friends about your favorite topics.

Then you should try to communicate.

Me too. So, thumbs up for one.