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Experience the love you want, and then do something stupid, lose someone you once wanted to cherish. to mature! I think the fastest maturity of a person is to experience a false love and let you see how realistic the world is!
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People have eight sufferings, birth suffering, old suffering, sickness, death, resentment, love, parting suffering, seeking no suffering, and the five aggregates are full of suffering. If you have these eight sufferings, you will have thousands of feelings. Take every feeling seriously and take a hard look at your heart.
When you can stop clinging to all material fame and fortune in the world, not be controlled by material fame and fortune, and not blindly pursue things of the senses, then you will be fully mature and enlightened. Be a light person and you will get real happiness.
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There will be any emotion, sad and sad, happy and happy. Grief, everything, life is like this. Maturity is just in the minds of others, and I think so, and other people's thoughts are not known.
I don't think you have to learn anything to mature, it's better to go with the flow, don't put pressure on yourself, sometimes it will naturally become mature)
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You're a big problem, because people's experiences are different, and some people have more than anyone else can experience in a lifetime, and of course such a person is mature, and maturity is directly proportional to his experience.
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Actually, it will mature after experiencing it, and no one can be sure what will happen in the future.
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You don't need specific feelings and specific emotions to mature, whether it is feelings or emotions, from these things, understand some truths, think clearly about what to do, is better growth.
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People have seven emotions and six desires, joys, angers, sorrows, and fears, and must learn to be grateful, but also learn to let go, and continue to cultivate themselves.
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You'll know when you get there, there's no need to force that you understand everything now.
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Going through a lot of times will become mature.
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Success after failure is an incomparably blissful experience.
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The first point is to experience life and death parting, which makes you grow very good, the second point is to experience the ups and downs of life, which will make you very mature, and the third point is to experience the failure of this marriage, so that you can mature.
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In love. If you haven't been in love in the real sense, you'll never be able to grow in this area, and you'll have a fantasy view of love in your heart, which is unrealistic and immature.
Job. After experiencing the beating of society and the baptism of involution, you will clearly know what you want and the life you want to live, so you can work hard in this regard.
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After experiencing some things that you can't solve, as well as the death of your loved ones, there is no way to get out of that kind of pain for a while, only after experiencing this matter, you will change a lot from the inside out, and you can really grow after accepting these things.
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A mature relationship must go through four stages, the first stage is the passionate love period, followed by the independence period, then the conflict rising period, and the last one is the flat period. The first stage is the most common period of passionate love. When two people fall in love, they are very good to each other, and they are not bored to get along for 24 hours, because they have just been together and do not know each other, so they want to explore.
In fact, the right person is hard to find, there are no two people who are naturally suitable, only two hearts that are slowly approaching.
The second stage is the period of anti-dependency and independence, at which time at least one person will move from a state of enthusiasm to a calmer state, and then may want more space for independence, while the other party may feel left out. If the person is also insecure, he may complain because he can't accept the gap, and the two people may also have conflicts.
The third stage is the period of rising contradictions, after all, their growth experiences are different, and there must be some differences in living habits and concepts. Because of the coexistence between two people, there are many small things that will happen, and if they are not handled well, these small frictions will continue, and even bigger conflicts may erupt, and at this stage, because of relationship problems, it is not possible to get a lot of happiness in life, so worrying about some things, wanting to get some peace, leading to some disputes, and then there may be bigger problems.
The fourth stage is a simple symbiotic period, which means finding the most comfortable way to get along and deciding to spend the rest of your life together. In fact, in real life, many people are separated in the second and third stages, and there are two main reasons for separation, the first is not to understand love, thinking that breaking up is the law of development, and how can two people live together and remain the same. The second is the lack of experience in running-in, no way to solve problems, no thinking logic to deal with problems, and then mistakenly thinking that the other party is the wrong person.
I hope that everyone can firmly choose each other, firmly complete these four stages, and be the right person for each other.
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The hot love period, the cooling-off period, the run-in period, and the dull period, such a relationship is very stable and mature.
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Two people need to go through the process of getting to know each other, and they also need to go through the quarrel and answer period, and there will be a dull period slowly, and there will be a run-in period for two people, and slowly the two people will become more compatible.
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I think we should go through the tribulation phase, because only by doing this can we make the relationship happier.
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The initial understanding is the stage of mutual understanding, the stage of running in with each other when getting along in the middle, and the stage of finally agreeing with each other.
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A mature relationship will definitely go through four stages, and after listening carefully, you will know what your problem is.
First, the period of coexistence and love.
Two people fall in love, their eyes are full of each other's good, and they can't wait to stay with each other 24 hours a day.
Second, the reaction chain and the independence period. At this time, at least one person has changed from a more fanatical state to a calmer state, because he wants to get more independent space, and the other party has all kinds of complaints because he can't stand this kind of neglect, so the two people will have all kinds of contradictions and conflicts, one wants to chase and the other wants to escape.
Third, the period of rising contradictions. The longer two people get along, there will be more and more small frictions, which may also lead to greater contradictions, because at this time your feelings are out of balance, often calculating pay and gains and losses, two people quarrel constantly, mutual internal friction, mutual torment, and eventually lead to bigger problems, or even divorce.
Fourthly, there is a bland symbiosis, where you can eventually find the most comfortable way to get along and decide to spend this life together. In real life, many people are separated in the second or third stage, and there are no more than two reasons for separation, either they don't understand the law of love development, and they feel that love should be like love all the time, and their eyes are full of each other, or they lack the ability to deal with feelings, have no experience in successful running-in, and have no coping methods and Luo Ji thinking.
Mistaking the other person for the wrong one.
In fact, how can there be so many right people in the world? Your approach is to stay in the shadow of something else forever. Because of the pain, we don't want to face it, and then we suppress it in our subconscious.
Among them, this is the so-called peak season. There are no two people who are naturally suitable, only two hearts that are slowly approaching. I hope that everyone can be firm in each other's choices, go through these four stages firmly, and become the right person for each other.
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The period of passionate love, the period of independence, the period of anti-dependence, the period of intensification of contradictions, and the period of bland symbiosis are all mature feelings that will definitely go through 4 stages.
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Mature relationships also have to go through the hot love period, the flat period, the run-in period, and the cold period, only after these four stages, the relationship between the two of you will get better and better.
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The period of passionate love, anti-dependence, independence, rising contradictions, and flat periods will generally go through these stages.
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At the beginning of the youthful stage, then for a period of time it is the hot love period, and then it reaches the cold period and then gradually matures.
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has seen each other's parents, as long as they have met each other's parents, this relationship means that they have matured and can get married.
Fart and grind each other's teeth, and each other has not taken into account each other's shortcomings, as long as they have experienced this step, it means that the two people have reached the point of family affection, and it is not easy to break up.
Thinking about each other in everything means that the relationship has really matured, and as long as you keep the other party in your heart, it is difficult to break up.
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After experiencing betrayal in a relationship, you can be regarded as becoming truly mature, because being betrayed by others or splitting your legs is a very uncomfortable thing, you will begin to self-doubt and become unconfident, but when you cross this hurdle, you will understand that only you can be reliable, and you will become mature, no longer as naïve and innocent as before.
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In a relationship, it takes a run-in period to truly become mature, and only after the two have been noisy and adapted to each other can they have a new understanding of the relationship. Marriage will also make people mature, and the firewood, rice, oil and salt in married life will teach you what life is.
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I've found my own feelings, but it's just my love life, have you found your own feelings?
In my daily life, I feel that my love life is very happy and very loving. Because my boyfriend is very good to me, no matter what I do, he will take into account my feelings, and will often prepare some surprises for me, and will often prepare some gifts for me, if I have free time, he will also take me out to travel, and will often take me out to watch movies, so I feel that I have found my own feelings.
In ordinary life, there are many people who want to get real feelings, because there are many people who feel that such feelings are very happy, and there are many people who feel that such feelings are very loving, and there are many people who feel that such feelings are very worthy of our trust, and there are many people who feel that such feelings are very worthy of our maintenance, so it can be seen that in this current society, there are indeed many people who want to get real feelings. But I think it's not easy to get real feelings, so this also warns some people that if they meet someone who is very suitable for them in their daily life, they must be brave enough to pursue it, and never leave any regrets for themselves, and don't let yourself regret it.
In a person's life, I think feelings are very important for everyone, because I think feelings can make a person very good, can also make a person become very motivated, and can also make a person become very positive, if the situation is very good, he will make a person's personality become very cheerful, so I think the power of feelings is very strong, and I feel that I have now found my own feelings, so I will definitely cherish it, I will definitely not disappoint the other party.
In my daily life, I have found my own feelings, and I am very happy, I am very happy every day, and I am very content now, so I will definitely treat each other well, and I will not let each other down at all, nor will I make each other sad.
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I found it.,The two met through the blind date of the town of Sui Fang's big bucket.,Although the time of knowing each other is relatively short.,But it's very happy to be able to understand each other's current state.。
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I have found my own feelings, this journey is really not easy, I cherish this relationship very much.
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I have found my own Heng Bang Xiao relationship, and I am very good to my other half, my other half also loves me very much, and we are very happy to live together.
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I didn't find it, but it was also because of the three views and personality, and there are so many people in the world, and it is very difficult to find it.
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There are three kinds of emotions that people experience in their lives, the first kind of feelings are lovers, children, friends, and young;
The second type of affection is husband's, wife's, friend's, middle-aged;
The third kind of affection is parental, lover, confidant, and forever;
The first one to pay is language.
The second is time.
The third type of giving is life.
None of them are better or more precious, because all three of them are needed by our basic bureaucracy. But the third slip makes the kind the stupidest. Because the expression of silence is the most costly.
Either one is worth cherishing ---
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Love is a gratuitous giving, is willing to help, is each other's heart induction, since you choose love, we must treat it sincerely, cherish it, support him (her) when he (she) is in difficulty, when he (she) is happy with encouragement, when he (she) is happy, happy together, sad to him (her) comfort. Rather than ignoring its existence when you have it, only to regret it only after you lose it. To love someone is to make him (her) happy forever, to be his (her) eternal safe haven, to protect him (her), even if it is the slightest harm. Truly loving someone is not as simple as we think, an affectionate hug, a deep kiss, an unchanging vow, a token that does not fade....All this is tasteless, dark and dull in the face of true love.
Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist
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