There s a girl I really don t like living in the same dormitory as me, how do I get along?

You just lack courage right now. Pluck up the courage to take the upper hand. He's not an obstacle.

Hehe, I'm a boy.

After listening to your narrative, I feel that you have a lot to offer together, and everyone has something lovely about her.

Try to get to know someone, and maybe you'll have one more friend, and if she likes to go straight, why don't you go straight with her.

It's also a joy to be able to get along with different people.

Be sincere, be natural, try to do what you should do, be easy-going, you are the idol that others envy, hehe, you say.

Scold! If you worry about this little thing every day! Don't talk about it later! Then you're done now!

If you have an opinion, let it go! That's right!

Everyone and every thought is different! You can notice it, but she can't! If you do this to others.

Talking from behind! Then you can see that it is really annoying her! Just give her a small speech! Think for yourself.

Who would dare to say that they have not had such an experience? I've had a lot of this happen to you! Don't worry too much! Rather, pretend.

I don't understand! Ask you anything, and you don't hear it! It's also a good idea! This is a certain blow to the other party! Be.

Heart-wrenching If this is not good! Think about it yourself! One more friend and one more enemy! This you.

You get the idea!

I think since I live in the same place, under the same roof.

A little friction is inevitable.

Boys should be generous, don't worry too much about small things.

And I think time changes everything, and I think it's necessary for you to learn to appreciate her, and sometimes try to communicate with her, find something to do together, develop a common language, and change your perception of her.

Everyone has shortcomings, and we can only slowly accept the shortcomings of others.

Also, don't forget that you also have shortcomings and are being accepted by others.

Some things tend to be disagreeable

I'm a girl

It's normal to have friction, and it's okay to find a few dormitories The important thing is to tolerate Oh It's not good for everyone to be stiff, and it's embarrassing to meet And we still have to face all kinds of people in the future Or you just tell her what you don't like about her, you can say it half-jokingly

The result of the imbalance between the development of spiritual civilization and economic development. He's too free at home.

1. Restrain your little temper and don't rely on your own temperament.

At home, you can have parents who are used to you, and you may blame your parents for a little disappointment, but everyone is equal at school, and no one will take care of you as well as your parents. Don't use the good or bad background of your parents as a weapon to suppress others, this is a behavior that only naïve children have.

2. Don't melt people who don't meet the first impression aura.

Thinking that trying to get in touch would improve the relationship, but that's all whimsical. Don't compromise yourself to hold on to the relationship. When encountering people with incompatible aura, the first reaction is to stay away.

3. If you have something to say, don't hold it in your heart.

Some people don't like to make sense, and they often suffer dumb losses. For example, if the other person does something that makes you unhappy, then you have to express your dissatisfaction. For example, if you don't like others to use your own things, you have to say it, otherwise others will not realize their mistakes and continue to do so.

At this time, you are angry, and others still say that you are inexplicable and not a loss.

4. Cultivate your own empathy.

Empathy is the ability to feel sad or happy when something happens to someone who is happy or sad. And some roommates usually don't care about your feelings at all. Only ask you to have empathy to help them when they are in trouble.

It's all whimsical, okay!

5. You can't ask others to do what you can't do.

If you want to ask others, you might as well do your own things well. I've met such roommates before, and every time I come back, I play games in the middle of the night, and I don't start washing up until after twelve o'clock. It's really speechless for this kind of person.

If you can do this yourself, you will naturally be treated with the same respect when you make a request.

We all know that three women in one play, so what happens when four women share a dormitory? The harmonious dormitory will make our college years come to a perfect end!

Take your own responsibility

When it's time to clean up by yourself, you should be active, don't make a noise when you sleep, and don't force others to cultivate immortals with you, even if you are an immortal cultivator. Students who want to watch the drama can install a curtain, and they also need to use headphones! When you want to borrow your classmates' belongings, you have to ask, after all, it's not your own things, and if you don't ask, you steal it!

Respect for regional differences

The most important thing between people is respect, and there should be no discrimination between the North and the South. This is very boring, after all, the whole of China is so big, can you discriminate against it? Having good communication is the key to a harmonious atmosphere in the dormitory.

When roommates have an argument, don't sit on the mountain and watch the tiger fight, we can adjust calmly. Don't shy away from it.

Don't speak ill of people behind your back

Don't talk to people about roommates behind your back. Only if you do it yourself, you are worthy of it. Others may have some problems in some aspects, but you just know it, after all, "trouble comes from the mouth". As the saying goes, bad things should be said to your face, and good and bad things should be said behind your back.

Keep your own principles

Don't be aggrieved by letting others go. We must have our own bottom line and principles, and blindly tolerating will only allow others to gain an inch unscrupulously. Dealing with dormitory relationships does require tolerance and understanding.

But tolerance does not mean enduring everything. Don't just pander to others for the sake of dormitory relationships, please others, and do your own thing.

Get out and about more

The dormitory is a place to sleep, a place to rest and relax. We need to go out and walk more, and there are still many places worth staying in during the good university years. During the day, you still stay in the dormitory less, rarely order takeout, and the library, classroom, and playground are calling you.

Other considerations

1. In the middle of the night, I am still playing games, watching movies, and chasing dramas, and consciously wear headphones.

2. Don't touch other people's computers casually.

3. Don't borrow someone else's computer for a long time.

4. When you take someone back to the dormitory, you have to say it in advance.

5. Don't eat other people's snacks casually.

6. Don't throw garbage on the ground, as big as a drink bottle or as small as a melon seed shell.

7. Pay attention to personal hygiene, take a shower, wash your hair and clothes on time.

8. Chat with men and women for a long time** consciously go outside.

9. Get permission before borrowing shower gel, shampoo, and cosmetics.

In my personal experience, I really don't want to spend too much time dealing with people in the dormitory, you should go with the flow, if they want to have fun with you, if they don't want to, forget it, you must not become a people-pleasing personality. If you want to learn more in school, you will find that the need for self-independence and quiet learning is becoming more and more intense, and if you want to have a good relationship with your roommates, you must sacrifice a lot of self-time and control.

If you keep spending time and effort to have a good relationship with your roommates, lower your requirements for yourself in order to maintain the relationship, and spend a lot of time and money, it is very unworthwhile to become a slave of others.

After going to college, it is a feng shui moment for whether a person will succeed or not. Some people spend a lot of time playing games, some people like to make friends, and some people choose to go to the library or study hall to study. One day, one week may not see much of a difference.

A month, a year, and you'll see the difference. The skills of playing games may have really improved, but they still can't get on the table, compared to the so-called gods. The classmates who make friends have a wider network, but they don't necessarily see a larger circle.

People who insist on learning must have changed, changed their worldview in the book, expanded their self-structure, changed their perspective on problems, and even the way they do things and speak. There was once a senior sister who was a little introverted and not very good at self-expression, she chose to insist on watching documentaries and debate competitions**, and after a semester, when I saw her again, she had spoken decently and generously.

<> it is very important to keep learning, and it is equally important to make friends or relax appropriately, but you must understand what you want, why you should work hard, there are always gains and losses, you must understand what you want to give up, and you must give up when you give up.

Everyone comes from different imitation pure stove recipes, does not have the same growth experience, has different views on many things, and it is normal that they do not blend together. You don't have to deliberately please anyone, like-minded people will be attracted to you, this should be the so-called soul mate.

What you are doing now is undoubtedly right, Li Wheel Cover does not give up on himself to cater to others, and concentrates on learning. This means a lot for the future. The reason why you feel annoyed is that you don't want to get too stiff with the girls in the dormitory?

From your question, I can also understand that you are a person who values friendship very much, but you must know that on the road of life, there may be many friends, but true friends will not, and you don't need too many.

Friends, if you get along, you can make friends, and if you can't get along, you must not force them, and you can't give up yourself to cater to others. Try to be kind and warm to others, help each other, but also be principled. Be more tolerant and understanding when encountering problems.

You say that you are annoyed by the conversation topics of your roommates, and when they are talking, you may try to listen and try to blend in with their conversations, but don't be too deliberate, let alone distort your original intention and interfere with your studies. Sometimes it's best to go with the flow....As long as you be a friendly, warm-hearted, easy-going, generous, tolerant person, not selfish to friends, not betrayal, not hidden, sincere, learn more from others' strengths, reflect on your own shortcomings, be perfect, and master the way of dealing with others, I believe you will be able to make the most intimate friends!

If you don't get along well, it may not be your fault. So there is no need to voluntarily do so.

1.When borrowing something, remember to say thank you. Don't use your roommate's stuff for your own sake, it's really annoying.

2.If you wake up early and your roommate hasn't gotten up yet, remember to go down the stairs, wash up, etc. gently, don't crackle, the dormitory is not for one person.

3.Don't tell everything to your roommates. Not everyone will keep your affairs secret for you, and your roommate may not be as nice to you as you seem, and maybe one day you will see his face because of one thing.

4.Stay away from people who are constantly pumping bad emotions into you. Something will affect you subtly.

I experienced something like this, roommate 1 got up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom because he flushed the water. The next day, roommate 2 said that roommate 1 had made a noise to her when she flushed the toilet last night. I said, maybe roommate 1 is older.

Roommate 2 said that it was impossible, and she went on for more than 30 seconds. I was ...... in my heart

Roommate 2 belongs to the kind of person who is too sensitive in her heart, because she can't sleep and has insomnia, she will blame her roommate for arguing with her.

Speechless. 5.Have your own opinions.

If you don't want others to do it, you can do it, and have your own opinions. If you want to finish your homework before you go to dinner and shopping, there is no need to go to dinner and shopping with them first. It's really bad to blindly cater to others like this, and it will make you lose a lot of things.

Sometimes relationships aren't very important.

6.Don't be in small groups and isolated. Some dormitories may have three or four groups in one dormitory, and I've really come across them. It's really low-quality socializing, it's better to work hard to improve yourself.

1.Respect your roommates.

Respect for roommates is a prerequisite for building a good dormitory relationship. We all want to be respected by others, respect is mutual, and if we want to be respected by others, we need to learn to respect others. When we were at home, we were "little princesses and little princesses", but when we were outside, we were all the same.

Everyone is equal, and when talking to our roommates, we can't use a commanding tone, let alone give instructions to our roommates.

2.Do not engage in "small groups".

Rely on your parents at home and your roommates at school, and your roommates are a family that loves each other. When everyone goes out, the closest person to them is their roommate. We need to live in harmony with our roommates and be sincere.

We must not "cut each other twice," nor should we engage in "small groups" or divide our roommates. Most of the dormitories are 4 or 6 people, and there are not many people in the dormitory, so there are no friends if you form a gang. So, don't do that.

3.Actively participate in dormitory activities.

After the beginning of the freshman year, in order to integrate into the dormitory as soon as possible and establish a good dormitory relationship, students must actively participate in dormitory activities. The most important activity in the dormitory should be dinner, especially in the freshman year, there are a lot of dormitory dinners, and everyone may change the invitation or AA system, don't be afraid of wasting money and not participate. If you don't participate at this time, it will not be so easy to participate later.

4.Greet your roommates warmly.

A smile is the best language, whether it is to your roommates or classmates, students should greet them warmly. All friends are from strange to familiar, and the more we greet each other, we will gradually become familiar with each other. Smile when greeting, a smile is a key to open the door, and we all like people who are approachable and have a pleasant smile.