The famous inverted son in law in history, you know those

Zhu Bajie, formerly known as Zhu Gang Xuan, entered the family of Gao Laozhuang Gao, and Gao Cuilan became married, after Tang Seng arrived at Gao Laozhuang, Zhu Gang was renamed Zhu Bajie, and said goodbye to Gao Cuilan and went to Tang Seng Xitian to learn scriptures.

Zuo Zongtang was lucky, and by chance, he combined with Zhou Yiduan, a talented woman from a large family in Xiangtan, Hunan. Although it is a rich man, the Zhou family is very good to Zuo Zongtang, because he is indeed a talent.

Li Bai got married several times in his life, and two of them were "inverted doors". The first object of the inverted door is the granddaughter of the prime minister, the woman has the right to be rich, and at that time Li Bai wanted to be nameless, and had no power, although the status was very different, but this time Li Bai lived a very happy life, and his wife gave birth to a son and a daughter, which can be described as having both children and daughters.

Li Bai is the most famous son-in-law in history, and the "poet fairy" Li Bai is the son-in-law, and after marriage, the relationship between the two is also very good.

When Li Bai was in his fifties, he married the granddaughter of Zong Chuke, the former prime minister of the Tang Empire, in the form of "inverted door". Although the history books do not record Li Bai's relationship with her, she has the grace to recreate Li Bai.

Zuo Zongtang was unambitious in his early years and was a late bloomer. In order to support himself, he decided to be an "inverted" son-in-law. After his marriage, he continued to devote himself to the study of geography, which laid a solid foundation for his great achievements.

The Tang Dynasty did not strictly require daughters to abide by women's morals as strictly as in the Ming and Qing dynasties, and the wind of free love was also prevalent throughout ancient times. Li Bai directly made an appointment with Xu Ziyan, and the two fell in love at first sight and were willing to marry each other. When he was asked to be a son-in-law, Li Bai didn't care very much, he just wanted to spend this life with his wife, and he got married soon after they met.

Boss Zheng of Chow Tai Fook Jewelry is the son-in-law of the inverted door, and his wife Zhou Cuiying's jewelry company Boss Zheng inherited and carried it forward.

Hanpu was a Bohai man who wandered from Goryeo, and when he came to Baishan and Heishui, he was already over 60 years old, and because he had successfully mediated the conflict between the two tribes, he was affirmed by one of the tribes, the Wanyan tribe, and let him enter the house of a sixty-year-old girl from that tribe, and became married to the old girl.

Zhu Yuanzhang, Li Bai, Zuo Zongtang, Wang Xizhi ......They all have one thing in common, that is, they prefer to be free, creative, and not confined to form.

Nurhachi, into Tong Jia's family.

Because China is "the king does not go to the countryside", the governance of the country is the joint governance of laws and public order and good customs, and the Chinese civilization sacrifice is a very sacred right for us! The sacrifice also reflects the nobility and cheapness, the heavier the sacrificial ceremony, the more noble the sacrificial ceremony, the son-in-law into the family has a written statement: a certain township and a certain father at a certain time to a certain son into a certain township and a certain daughter as a son-in-law, how much does the woman give the man a dowry!

Since then, it has nothing to do with the man, the man and the woman sign, the guarantor two or four sign, and some have to pay the tax and seal it at the official base! In the future, the sky is closed with his biological parents, and the man's parents and ancestors are not qualified to sacrifice, and he has children with his wife from his mother's surname! The woman's parents and ancestors are enshrined as wives, and their children, nephews, and cousins bow down after them!

And you can't take the book exam! You can't be an official anymore (except in special circumstances)! Because of the high and low of the family, it is divided into:

The Son of Heaven, the aristocracy, the ** can't do things, the gentry, the farmer, and the son-in-law who advocates excellence is called Huazi, so as long as he can live, he will not be a son-in-law! Not only is it a shame for itself, but also for the whole family (including parents, brothers, clans) is ashamed!

In the late Qing Dynasty, Zuo Zongtang joined a large family because of his family's poverty, and his wife paid for it to continue to study literature, and he was a small official first, and his ability was outstanding! was favored by the governor to be the master of the scene! After the governor was promoted to governor, all matters big and small should be handed over to Zuo Zongtang to deal with!

And he has reported Zuo Zongtang's merits to the court many times! Guarantee its prefect title, prefect title, and provincial title! Known as the Hidden Governor!

Because of his son-in-law, Zuo Zongtang and the governor were ginseng to the emperor! The emperor knew his merits and abilities after strict investigation! There is a shortage of officials in the Taoist station!

Constant temperature! When he was down, he was favored by the princess all the way to Fangzhen in Jingzhou, and then went all the way to the north to create a hegemony and coerce the Son of Heaven to order the princes.

Li Bai married Zong Chuke's granddaughter, and Zhuge Liang married Huang Chengyan's daughter.

Chow Tai Fook! And Nurhachi!

Meng Jiangnu's man was arrested for hard labor as soon as he entered the family.

Chai Rong! If it weren't for illness, there would be nothing going on in the Song Dynasty.

Tu Shan's daughter-in-law's son-in-law Dayu.

Bo Feng Shuimen, Uzumaki Kuyuki Na is a big family, and Naruto Uzumaki has to follow his mother's surname (funny) when he gives birth to Uzumaki

In fact, Shun also intervened and married Yao's two daughters.

I went to the daughter of the secretary of the municipal party committee.

There should be very few inverted doors of the Han people in ancient times, right? Because men were inferior to women in ancient times, it should be a shame for men to plug the door upside down, right?

The Han Dynasty had the lowest status of the inverted door, and basically recruited sons-in-law, death row prisoners, and rangers to the front line as cannon fodder.

The inverted son-in-law is a real man! Don't rely on Zu Meng, in a place where you are not familiar with life, go into the world alone! I've seen a lot, but some people just show their experience at home, and as soon as they leave the native land, they will buy one!

**Glory! One of the Big Three of Shanghai!

"Inverted door" is also known as "entering the house", formerly known as "door-to-door", which refers to the woman marrying the man, or the man joining the woman's family and settling down on the woman's side.

After the man marries the woman, everything is the woman's, and the man needs to take care of the woman's parents at home, and the children born must follow the woman's surname.

In some areas, the man needs to do some housework such as laundry and cooking at home, while the woman goes out to earn money or works in the fields, but this is relatively rare.

In the past, "inverted door" had a pejorative connotation. At that time, if the man chooses to "plug the door upside down", it means that the man's family situation is difficult, and people's remarks will cause great pressure on the man; If the woman chooses to "plug the door upside down", it means that the woman's family does not have many people and needs to rely on outsiders to pass on the lineage. But now people's thinking has changed a lot, and more people are in free love.

The inverted son-in-law refers to the man who goes to the woman's house to marry and settle down.

The inverted son-in-law is into the house, and the marriage refers to the situation where the man and the woman get married, and the man goes to the woman's house to marry and settle down. When a man goes to a woman's family and settles down, he has to follow the surname of the woman's family, which is called "inverted door", "the kid is incapable of changing his surname" and so on.

Marriage ceremonies are usually simple and not extravagant. However, there are also overseas Chinese or wealthy families, who first let the wealthy man come to live at home, and let the daughter live at the grandmother's house, and when the marriage is auspicious, there is still a sedan chair to the grandmother's house to greet the relatives, and the dowry and drum music accompany the family, and the family still arranges a queue for the newlyweds, and welcomes the bride with a warm cannon.

Ancient rituals. In the old days, on the day of the enrichment, the four-person sedan chair was prepared by the woman's family, and the pedestrian deacon was used to welcome the groom, commonly known as "raising the head of the man", or the day before the woman's family pressed to go, staying in the new house, on the first day, the sedan chair was preached, and the bride was carried to the god side, like the man's family to marry, to the door of the church. There are also brides who do not sit in a sedan chair, and men and women will worship in the church to get married, and the etiquette and ceremony will be simple.

The men who are rich are often selected by the daughters themselves, and in this respect, they are better than those marriages arranged by the girls who are kept in the dark and rely solely on the "orders of their parents" and "the words of the matchmaker".

The difference between the inverted door and the door-to-door son-in-law is that the child must marry with the woman's surname, which is equal to the man's marriage, and the door-to-door son-in-law can follow the man's surname, provided that the man must live with the woman's family and take care of everything in the woman's family.

At present, the development of the rural areas is getting better and better, and the people's living standards have also improved. However, not all people are like this. Even if the social conditions are good, the family conditions will be good and bad.

There is such a family in the countryside, which everyone must be familiar with, that is, a family with two sons or one son whose family conditions are not very good.

Sometimes, if the family conditions are not good and there is no money to marry a daughter-in-law, the man will "marry" in the form of "inverted door". In fact, many people are still very prejudiced against these sons-in-law. Generally, door-to-door sons-in-law are uncomfortable, and the psychological impact on them is serious, especially for their future married life.

Choice of inverted door

I have a friend near my house, and my parents' house is okay. There is only one daughter in the family who does not want to marry. Think about it, find a son-in-law at home.

The baby girl in the family does not need to get married, and can have an extra son. With this in mind, I asked the matchmaker if the people in the neighborhood would like to let my son's daughter-in-law get married. Families like this are easy to find in rural areas.

It didn't take long for me to find a young man. There was only his mother in the house. After his father died a long time ago, the living conditions of the family were poor.

Seeing that it was time to get married, I became his son-in-law. When they first got married, a couple was very happy, but sometimes the woman had a bit of a big temper, and the man would let her go, and the man was very self-motivated and able to endure hardships.

It didn't take long for the two to have a child. However, after giving birth to a child, the two began to quarrel every day, and the man's personality began to change a lot. He used to always be on time for work. Now he is lazy and often goes out to play cards.

Sometimes go out and do shady business. After spending money, he is like his daughter-in-law. If he didn't give it, he would go out and make up various excuses to borrow money from relatives and friends at home, and soon owed a lot of money.

Inverted doorsThere is no difference from a door-to-door son-in-law. It is also called the inverted door, and some places are called door-to-door sons-in-law, which is a form of marriage in the old society, the man goes to the woman's house to set up a group residence, and the surname is changed to the woman's surname, and some places do not need to change, but the child needs to follow the woman's surname.

In the past, the word inverted door was a derogatory term, and many people would have a contemptuous attitude towards men who inverted the door, but now with the progress of the color club, it is also a normal thing for many men to become door-to-door sons-in-law, and it is not common, but modern door-to-door sons-in-law do not need to change their surnames, and their surnames are also the same as the man's surname.

Inverted door form

In the old days, those who had women and no children recruited sons-in-law was called entering the house, also known as the inverted door. When a man becomes a child in a woman's house, he needs to change his name and surname, and the child born to him will change his mother's surname.

Those who enter the rich are often despised by the villagers, bullied by the family, and it is difficult to raise their heads for life.

After the 70s of the 20th century, with the development of family planning work and the Constitution and Marriage Law.

After the man settles down in the woman's house, the husband and wife share the responsibility of respecting the woman or supporting the parents of both parties. Men do not change their names and surnames, and the children born to them can take their father's surname or their mother's surname. After the man settles in the woman's house, he not only no longer suffers discrimination in the society, but also is respected by the people, and at the same time does not enjoy the preferential treatment of the relevant policies.

The scientific name of the inverted door [dào chā mén] is "入赘", which is changed to the woman's surname, becoming the "son" of the woman's family, inheriting the woman's family, and the children born follow the woman's surname. Let me give you a detailed description of what it means to be an inverted door.

synonyms: into the house, only the son-in-law is the door, and the woman marries the man or the man who settles in the woman's house after marriage is called "inverted door".

After getting married, when a man settles down in a woman's house, the man "marries" into the woman's house, and almost all of the food and clothing are provided by the woman's family. It doesn't necessarily mean that the man is worthless and worthless. A few years ago, before the implementation of family planning, the woman who inserted the door upside down generally had no sons, and had more than two daughters, although the policy still allowed births, but the old couple felt that they had more than enough strength and were not enough, so they pinned their hopes on recruiting sons-in-law.

The man who inserts the door upside down is generally more brothers, the family life is relatively poor, and he has no financial ability to marry, so he has to live under the woman's roof, although he is reluctant, but it is better than not having a daughter-in-law.

In ancient times, there was a bolt next to the door, which was used to lock the door, but now it is reversed, and it is opened by someone outside, which is a thing that will be laughed at by people in the mountains, and the master who laughed at the door was too poor. Describe the man living in the woman's house, and say that this man is not good and is laughed at.

The scientific name of "inverted door" is "into the family", which used to refer to the man settling in the woman's house when he got married, changing the woman's surname, becoming the "son" of the woman's family, inheriting the woman's family, and giving birth to a child with the woman's surname. The man who inserts the door upside down is called the "door-to-door son-in-law". In the past, inverted door was a common and slightly derogatory term.

Nowadays, there are many sons-in-law who come to the door, and it is also very common, but now it is not necessary to take the woman's surname, and the children born are also surnamed the man's surname as usual, but they are settled in the woman's house.

The inverted son-in-law refers to the man who goes to the woman's house to marry and settle down.

The inverted son-in-law is into the house, and the buried code refers to the situation that after the man and the woman get married, the man goes to the woman's house to marry and settle down, and this kind of marriage is mostly the woman's family has no brother and no brother, and the son-in-law is recruited to come to the door in order to inherit the lineage. When a man goes to a woman's family and settles down, he has to follow the surname of the woman's family, which is called "inverted door", "the kid is incapable of changing his surname" and so on.

Marriage ceremonies are usually simple and not extravagant. However, there are also overseas Chinese Fuhe or Yin Fu families, who first let the wealthy men come to live in the house, and let the daughters live in the grandmother's house, and when the marriage is auspicious, there are still sedan chairs to the grandmother's house to welcome the relatives, and the dowry and drum music are still accompanied, and the family still arranges a queue for the newlyweds, and welcomes the bride with a warm cannon.