How can I save it, what can I do to get it back?

I can understand this feeling, no matter how big or small it is, there will always be a lot of conflicts between two people together. But so what, that's life, we don't live for ourselves. I think time will dilute everything, as long as you can persevere and irrigate this home with your love.

I believe that one day you will sit in the sunset, holding hands and snuggling up to each other, looking at the children playing not far away, and savoring the past.

If you ask me how long it takes, I'd say: never!!

Cherish everything in front of you and take care of your family.

？Where do you live???

After reading the landlord's question, nothing is the same, as long as you work hard, you will be rewarded, don't be knocked down by the difficulties in front of you, be strong, no matter what, keep a good attitude, everything will be fine.

The landlord is right to think so.

Now that a child has been born.

You should do your best to let your children and their loved ones live happily.

Maybe your lover can't fully forgive you right now.

But you should keep working hard to love her, care for her, take care of her.

Everything you do.

She'll know.

It's been a long time. She'll change her mind, too.

Because now your responsibilities are greater.

Old husband and wife, how can you not want family harmony, as long as you are good to her, you will be reconciled soon.

There is a kind of love in the world. That is, the love of family affection is the most sacred. The most selfless. Love is understanding. Inclusive. With love. All contradictions will be solved.

You can fake a divorce and find a way to deceive the unit.

Ask me to understand, why can't women understand what you mean?

So, the landlord is a 96 boy? Received a breakup letter from a girl in '89?

I probably looked at it, because ** is a little vague, roughly, she thinks you cheated on her, about age. Moreover, she thinks that if she accepts you, she will violate her conscience, which is equivalent to hurting the post-00s boy before.

So, should age be a mustard, I don't think so. If it's true love, a white lie (I'll say that only if you love her enough) can exist, how can there be so much right and wrong in things, and you can lie to your family and lie to them that it's good that you're not tired outside, but it's actually very hard. Should such a lie be equated with a malicious lie?

I think you have to explain this to her. said that he didn't mean to lie to her.

Then, I give my opinion, first of all, you can try to say to her like this, I am young but I will protect you, I will also fight hard when others bully you, I will not say too much sweet words, I just want to love you well, protect you and live with you.

Then, after a round of coaxing + theory, I think she should be soft-hearted.

If, first, she doesn't think the malicious lie is right, then I think you're a bit of a hanger.

If, secondly, she still insists that age is the generation gap, then I think you may be ready to give up, because obviously, she doesn't love you that much.

She loves her age more than you.

1 You have to face up to the fact that you have broken up After the breakup, normally there should be no more contact, let alone meeting. Some relationships are not bad, and they can continue to keep in touch after a breakup. But you have to understand that you have broken up and there are some things that you can't get.

For example: Talking, texting, meeting for dinner, dating. But often in your mind, you think that those things should still exist.

So you will pull up the satisfaction point, thinking that if the other party doesn't give you a good response, doesn't reply to the text message, and doesn't answer, it means that the other party doesn't love you and doesn't give you a chance. The more you think about the situation, the worse it gets, the more you fall into it, and you keep thinking about the worst. If you keep thinking like this, then your redemption is just a waste of time and energy.

It's not as bad as you think. Because you are redeeming, you will suffer and sacrifice happiness, which is normal. Don't start to be pessimistic and start to lose confidence just because the other person doesn't give you much.

Redemption is meant to be one of you to bear the pain of two people and solve the problems that remain. You're going to be sad, you're going to feel like you're at a loss, you're going to feel like you're cheap, that's normal. But it's not that the other party is sabotaging, it's that you yourself are unwilling to improve.

Your own value is actually reflected in the process of recovery, and it depends on whether you are determined to make changes. For example, girls can dress up more, know the opposite sex more, and enjoy the right to be pursued. Boys can work hard to make money, work hard to develop their own careers, and make more friends.

These are all ways to enhance your own value. When you have enough chips, show your self-worth and personal charm, in exchange for his (her's) attention and concern for you, and even him (she) to redeem you, this is the highest state of redemption. 2 Choosing to redeem an old loveIn summary, redeeming an old love is:

Take the initiative to attack when the opponent responds, and when the opponent does not respond, first improve yourself, change yourself, enhance your strength, and wait for the opportunity to continue the attack.

But there are no rules about when to take the initiative to attack and when to wait for the right time, after all, people are alive. At the beginning, the normal means is to attack. After taking the initiative for a while, it was found that there was no effect, how.

What to do? You can try to passively see, disappear from the other person's sight, and test whether the other person will take the initiative to find you. Whether it's a ** or a text message, don't take the initiative.

Because you have been taking the initiative, he or she thinks you have been there. So he or she doesn't feel that he or she still loves you.

The best way for him and his brother to redeem themselves is not to dwell on them so much. Find out the reason from yourself, even if it's not your own problem, you should learn to look at it objectively. It is important to understand that no reason is a reason.

You should work hard with your ultimate goal as the starting point.

What exactly did you do? Is it unwilling to give anything? I just feel like I'm young. If you want to take advantage of that, he will definitely leave you in this way, and if you want to get you back, he will make him feel at ease. Give him a sum of money first.

In fact, in such a situation, you can only use your own integrity, only to do a certain thing sincerely, can move the other party, and can make all things be satisfactorily resolved.

People say it very clearly, you are not the right person for her, so why bother too much?

She said you lied to her, just because you didn't tell her, real age? Anything else?