How to propose a breakup so as not to hurt the other party too much

Updated on psychology 2024-05-19
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If he or she really loves you, since you brought it up. It has already hurt him or her. So you have to think about it before you bring it up.

    Don't regret it", then there must be a reason for your breakup, so you have to talk about it well. Then bless each other, if you can't be a couple, you can be friends.

    Sometimes it has to be in dreams.

    There is no time in the dream and there is no force.

    I'm a girl. I've often come to that taste, but what can I do? If two people are not suitable together, it is better to separate early, and long pain is better than short pain.

    Because since he (she) has brought it up, it means that he or she doesn't love you anymore. Many people are stuck in love, unable to extricate themselves, and feel that they will never be able to get out, but they don't expect that time is always the best way. One day you will meet another person, another life.

    It doesn't matter what you have suffered in the past or how sweet you have been. If the past is not important, it means that the present is doing well.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Without this method, it will definitely hurt the other party.

    However, you can use her side of concern for you and the opposite side to try to convince the other person. Or, prolong a misunderstanding so that the other person is discouraged and completely loses patience and love for himself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Wouldn't hurt if he loved you. You can euphemistically express that you are not compatible with him, and maybe there is a better girl waiting for him and bless him. That's the only way, I'm also a girl, and there's no way to keep him who loves you from getting hurt.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The guy in front of him is really enthusiastic.

    Admire. If only I had.

    It's cold and cold, and then say it's better to be ordinary friends.

    Let's start over.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The way to break up without hurting the other party is: don't say "you're a good person, it's me who is not good enough, I'm afraid I'm sorry for your good", don't wish the other party happiness when proposing to break up, don't propose to break up without warning, etc.

    1. Don't say "You're a good person, it's me who isn't good enough, I'm afraid I'm sorry for your goodness".

    Talk calmly and honestly with each other, explain the reason for your breakup, if it is a subjective reason, analyze this reason for both of you can not overcome, and in the long run, it will be more harmful to both of you, and you can only break up; If it is an objective reason, let the other party understand that this is a reality that neither of you can change, and you can only break up.

    Don't say "you're a good person, it's me who isn't good enough, I'm afraid I'm sorry for your goodness". This is very hypocritical, since the other party is as good as you say, why do you want to break up, does a person's "good" also become a reason to break up?

    2. Don't wish the other party happiness when you propose to break up

    Write a sincere breakup letter, listing your various memories of the relationship, the unpleasant experiences between you, but not discussing who is right and who is wrong. Show that you really can't love each other anymore.

    3. Don't break up without warning

    Give the other person a buffer time, reduce contact, and slowly distance themselves. Tell the other person that he has been very busy at work recently and will not be able to contact him for a long time, and hope that the other party can take care of himself. And really become more and more estranged day by day, until you feel that the other party can accept it before proposing to break up.

    Breaking up doesn't hurt the other party's copywriting

    1. The result makes the cold and mature, and the blur between the two can be seen clearly by one person.

    2. I let go of my dignity, my personality, and my stubbornness, just because I couldn't let go of you.

    3. Now that it's finally time to separate, he left before me, and I feel a little relieved.

    4. Flowers do not belong to those who appreciate flowers, but to brave people!

    5. My dog doesn't like you very much, and your cat doesn't like me very much, so don't say anything more, and you will slowly understand it later.

    6. Love is not chasing, a person you don't love can't catch you. So never take being chased by a boy for granted. But your test for him is a must!

    When a man loves you, you tend to be moved by the details, and in the same way, when a man doesn't love you anymore, you can also find out from the details.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Summary. Dear, <>

    Kiss <>, hello, this kind of breakup does not hurt the other party: 1Tell the other party frankly that you don't like it, and tell the other party the reason for breaking up directly.

    2.Affirm the other person's efforts and don't denigrate them. I believe that if you can go on, no one will choose to break up.

    Since you can only break up, when you talk about breaking up, you must not say bad things about the other party. 3.Say goodbye to each other and draw a happy end to this relationship.

    How to mention breaking up without hurting each other.

    Dear, <>

    Kiss <>, hello, this kind of breakup does not hurt the other party: 1Tell the other party frankly that you don't like it, and tell the other party the reason for breaking up directly.

    2.Affirm the other person's efforts and don't denigrate them. I believe that if you can go on, no one will choose to break up.

    Since you can only break up, when you talk about breaking up, you must not say bad things about the other party. 3.Say goodbye to each other and draw a happy end to this relationship.

    Dear, <>

    Kiss <>

    The reason for this is because: to break up with the other party, it is not love, so it is good to get together and disperse, propose to the other party without hurting the other party, bless the other party, wave goodbye. Dear, you can ask such a question, you must have encountered a related problem, you can also tell the teacher in detail, let the teacher judge for you, maybe it can help you.

    Dear, I hope mine can help you. I wish you all the best in your emotions and a happy life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. Don't mention old accounts.

    When you break up, you can mention old accounts, and even say at length about the other party's shortcomings, which is very hurtful, maybe this can speed up the breakup, but this is a very big blow to the other party's self-esteem, remind everyone not to say this, to say that the breakup try to say some of their own shortcomings, don't talk about the other party.

    2. Sometimes it's better to say it in person.

    Maybe many people will think that it is better to break up on the Internet, at least not so directly, sometimes it will be simpler to say it in person, it will be more convenient, and the harm will be less.

    3. If you know friends on both sides, say hello in advance.

    When dating, we will know friends on both sides, if we know his friends, you can say hello to your friends in advance, so that he can comfort and comfort each other more, to get out of a relationship, you also need a person's company, friendship sometimes works like this.

    4. What are the reasons for breaking up?

    Maybe some friends think about breaking up, but they can't find a suitable reason, we can look for clues from the daily quarrels, because of what to quarrel, to find the key to the problem, such as mutual distrust, no personal space, the other party is too willful, etc.

    5. Don't slander the other party.

    Don't slander your significant other when you break up, no matter what he does, no matter how much you hate him, at least he has brought a beautiful time.

    6. Say more about what you are not.

    When you break up, talk more about your shortcomings and give the other party a step, so that the breakup will be faster and smoother.

    7. Bless her.

    When you are separated, you should bless her, I hope she is happy, you are not suitable, there is always someone who is suitable for him, it is not easy to meet, I wish her a good life.

    8. How to get out of the sadness of a breakup.

    In the days after the breakup, your life is dark, no goal, no direction, if you have the opportunity, go on a trip, go for a good break, you can also go out with friends to meet more people, you can relieve your boredom, you can also find a more suitable partner.

    9. Pay attention to the tone.

    No matter what we end up breaking up for, we have to remember that the tone of our voice must be smooth, kind, not too sad, not too irritable.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When you break up, how do you not hurt the other person?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Be open and honest about the root cause of the breakup. A lot of thoughts are not forgotten, not because of how much they remember that person and that relationship, but because they broke up unclearly, and they don't know what the reason for the breakup was.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    People who quarrel every day.

    I don't have any feelings anymore.

    No matter how troublesome the breakup is, it will be unhappy.

    In fact, they are all the best way to treat each other.

    As long as two people are together.

    It's the real harm.

    Therefore, the breakup is normal.

    Then a peaceful breakup will do.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Quarrel every day and fight every day, if you break up, it will not hurt the other party, on the contrary, it is a relief for the other party, since there is no relationship between each other, and then keep arguing like this, it is not good for anyone to keep fighting cold, so breaking up is the best solution for each other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

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