What should I do if I fall in love with someone who doesn t love me, I can t be together, I can t le

Updated on psychology 2024-05-23
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's very similar to my experience, since the other party doesn't love you, it's useless no matter how good you are, because he doesn't have you in his heart, even if they are reluctantly together, they won't be happy. So bravely give up on him and cross this bitter hurdle, there are many good men in the world, why hang yourself on a tree. Find a good person who loves you and you love to live, this world is so unsatisfactory, often the person you like doesn't like you, and the person you don't like is stalking you.

    Hehe, be a happy self again, there is no need to be sad for him, let him know that without him, you can still live a wonderful life and live a happy life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I have such an example around me, there is a girl who likes a good friend of mine for several years, more than five years, and they can't be together, and that guy has always had a girlfriend, but that girl doesn't force anything, she just likes him silently in her heart, and she is silently good to him, and he knows it in his heart, but it is impossible to accept her, because he just treats her as a friend, are you in the same situation? Later, I graduated, and the girl still liked the boy for a few years, but now I've let go, and the knot in my heart has finally been untied, and if I don't let go, will I be unhappy for the rest of my life? Do you have to be miserable all the time for someone who doesn't love you?

    I also know it's sad, but the more you think about it, the more you can't let go, the more tangled your heart becomes, the more painful it is, it's a vicious circle, so leave him, don't see him, and slowly focus on other things, maybe half a year, a year, or you can't forget it, but after a few years, you will definitely forget, and you will also find someone you love At that time, when you look back, you may feel that you were so stupid and naïve, but this is youth, although the heart hurts, but beautiful, I hope you are happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    How long is your life? How long have you been using it? The average person has nothing to do in the last part of his life, so how long is there in between you before and after?

    Think for yourself, why spend all this time on things that are destined to be fruitless? If you don't get it, it's necessarily the best? If you have this time to go out for a walk, maybe he'll be a thing of the past!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Learn to let go, I used to be like you, but do you know that while you waited for him for three years, did anyone wait for you for the same six years?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since you know that it is impossible, why not let it go. A girl's youth is only 10 years, and you are willing to waste your most brilliant time on boring questions like "how to let go"? Maybe later, you will find that he is just a passerby in your life.

    I can't put it down at the moment because you haven't taken your attention off him yet. Think about your goals and work hard to achieve them. Over time, you will find that you have let go, and even if he remains in your heart, it will feel different.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Time can kill everything, and slowly it will pass, and you will meet another person later.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hurry up and find someone who loves you, and replace the person you like.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    That's not real love. Love needs to be pleasing to both sides. You're always like this, and you can't get his love. I'll let go slowly. I want to open a store. Tell him, and leave.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't be cheap, let it go yourself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Li Ning, everything is possible, how can you know if you don't try.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If he still can't be with you, then you should stay away from him and go somewhere else to live quietly.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You should be decisive to let go, only by really letting go, can you be free, and you can meet a new life!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Why are people who can't be together, is it because of the gap between the two, if such efforts narrow the gap between the two, no one will not like a person who doesn't know how to work hard, if it's really destined not to be together, I feel like it's better to go out and walk more, keep yourself busy, so that you will soon let go.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can choose to use time to dilute your feelings for this person, and during this time, try to start your new life, study and work hard to transfer your transfer power.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Love is sometimes a very helpless thing, falling in love with someone who can't be together, then at this time we should think clearly about what we need in the future, if we can't get this love, then why stick to it.

    So we should be clear about what we want to get, if we can't be together, why don't we try to give up and find our happiness again, because this society is tolerant. Therefore, we should re-pursue our own happiness and not be tied up by one person for our whole life.

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