How can I build confidence in failure?

Don't worry, I'm actually quite a failure. I didn't do well in the high school entrance examination and entered an ordinary school. Although I can rank in the top three in my grade, I know that my level is very insufficient, and the gap between me and my classmates outside is very far.

So like you, I want to be the number one in my current school first.

An optimistic mindset is important. Take me as an example, don't worry about exams, worry about questions you don't understand; Don't worry about being overtaken by other students, learn from their strengths with an open mind, and discuss topics with your classmates more to make progress. Of course, you must have the spirit of not admitting defeat in your heart, and believe that you will definitely be able to surpass them.

Once you're fully engaged in your studies, there's no need to dream about these troublesome problems. Thinking about your parents all day long, the pressure brought by teachers will only distract you from studying.

Believe in yourself, you still have time. Your goal is not this exam, but the future high school entrance examination.

I wish you and I all the best of luck!

Be optimistic! Actually, you're putting too much pressure on yourself!

Imagine that! There are so many classes! If only everyone wanted to be the first! Those who can't get the first place in the exam want to die!

In the end, there was only one person left in the class!

In fact, as long as the academic performance of junior high school can be admitted to a key high school! As for the first one, why bother!

The time in junior high school should be utilized! Cultivate more of your interests and hobbies!

You still have a long way to go in life! It's not that you can't get the first place in junior high school! Your life is over! There will be a college entrance examination in the future! And the university! And work!

Do you have a way to be the first in everything?

Most of the pressure is self-inflicted! So you should let go of your baggage! Don't keep thinking about taking the first place!

Relax! It's good for you to learn, too!

Plus, you'll be in the top 10 of your class! What else are you afraid of?

If you are in the top 10 of your class, you will be considered a failure! And what about after 10 students in the class?

You won't, you can still take the first test, if only I had half of you, you're fine, unlike me, I still have a year and a half to take the college entrance examination, where can I say, you can be content, okay? Actually, I had the same idea as you, but now that I'm older, when I think about the things I used to do, I'm really stupid, don't think about it, okay? Find something fun to do.

Awesome, you. I was so happy when I got the top 20!

Boy, you're already very good, even if you're number one this time, can you be number one in the world?

You should be the first, what should people do? How can there be such a person? Annoying!

Like many people, I had great expectations for the future and confidence in my future. But as we get older, we inevitably encounter many setbacks and difficulties. Do we let ourselves feel disappointed and regretful when we fail to achieve what we expected as children?

Personally, I think that everyone will feel and think like this, but what matters is how we face these emotions and find our own growth in them.

First of all, for many people, the dreams they have shaped in childhood may not be the most suitable path for their own family. This does not mean that our dreams are wrong, but that as we experience and grow, we continue to discover our interests and strengths, and choose a path that is more suitable for us. Therefore, let's not get caught up in our childhood dreams and trust the decisions we make now, as Mahatma Gandhi says, "Be yourself and do your best."

Second, we need to look for the causes of failure and disappointment and learn from them. On the road of life, we cannot avoid encountering setbacks and failures. However, what matters is how we face these challenges and learn from them.

Failure or disappointment can help us recognise what we need to improve and invite others to give us advice and opinions to improve ourselves even further.

Finally, we need to recognize that life is a process of continuous exploration and trial and error. There will be a lot of ups and downs and difficulties along the way, but the important thing is that along the way, you need to believe in your wisdom and courage, try to explore your own areas of interest, and keep moving towards your goals. Don't let your childhood dreams hold you back from imagination and innovation, discover and explore a better future.

In conclusion, whether we are moving forward to pursue our childhood dreams or to find our own path, we need to face every challenge and obstacle in life bravely. We should try to explore our own interests, find opportunities to improve ourselves in the process of constantly challenging ourselves and failing, and guide ourselves to become better people, which is the right direction and goal for us to continue to move forward on the road of life.

Everyone's life path is not smooth sailing, of course, except for some extremely rich people, when we fail again and again, we will inevitably be frustrated in self-confidence, at this time how do we get out of the haze of failure as soon as possible?

1. Look backwards occasionally when you are tired.

When everyone feels that they have failed in their own field, they are just too much in line with the people in front of them, which is not only tiring but also prone to a sense of failure that is beyond their reach. It is said that people can't always look backwards, but occasionally looking backwards is good for us, and it will greatly improve our own confidence. I have a friend when I was in college, to be honest, her professional ability is really superb, but she always likes to compare with the seniors who are several years higher than us, and the huge gap makes her feel like a failure, and she always hides in the dormitory and secretly sheds tears.

As an otaku girl, I naturally saw her secretly wiping her tears more than once, and finally I couldn't stand it anymore, and told her about the overall level of our grade and pointed out the level she was in, she was stunned for a moment after listening, and said Am I so good? Then he burst into tears and laughed. You see, people can't always look backwards, and they can't always look forward, and when they're tired, they still need to look backwards once in a while.

2. Autosuggestion.

Autosuggestion is one of the more common ways to regain confidence. When encountering setbacks, we can try to hint as much as possible that we will be able to overcome them, and maybe under the psychological effect, we will really succeed. Or a friend of mine in college, her limbs are not very coordinated, when she applied for the physical education module, she coincidentally won the aerobics module, the final exam of the aerobics module is a complete jump off a set of aerobics, she took the exam many times and couldn't pass, and she couldn't sleep at night, so her sisters in the same dormitory kept encouraging her to jump, and she kept hinting that she would be able to jump off a complete set of exercises, and finally passed the exam successfully.

It can be seen that autosuggestion is also very effective.

No matter how many setbacks we encounter on the road of life, we must remember to embrace the sunshine.

When you fail, don't give up on yourself, but get up bravely, sum up your experience and lessons, and move on, so that you can regain your confidence.

After failure, we must summarize the experience and lessons in time, so that we can make progress every day, so that we can regain confidence.

Of course, it is necessary to sum up the experience and lessons learned, and improve day by day, so that we can regain confidence.

You have to have a mental hint of self, which can make your heart strong, to treat failure as an accumulation, to think about problems with optimistic thinking, and you will regain your confidence.

First of all, you should put yourself in the right position, figure out the reasons for your failure, relax yourself, and encourage yourself.

Of course, it is necessary to be more and more courageous, to get up from ** from the ** fall, and to have the belief of victory, so as to regain confidence.

We must look at failure correctly, learn to sum up lessons, improve ourselves, don't be discouraged and complain, success will not be smooth sailing.

After failing, think seriously about what was the reason for the previous failure? Sum up experience, keep learning, improve your ability, and don't immerse yourself in failure.

Let yourself learn something from each failure, so that you can regain your confidence and continue to struggle

If you want to regain your confidence after failure, you must learn to release pressure and comfort yourself, because only by relieving the pressure can you regain your confidence after failure.

Using the method of writing a diary can be a good way to pour out your troubles, write down the reasons for your failures and the process in detail, and learn from experience.

Find a friend who has the same goals as you and team up with them, and encourage each other when you fail.

It's a power that comes from the heart

Thinking about others, maybe it's possible.

It's not as good as yourself.

Mental guidance: Adjust your mindset! It is impossible to be happy every day in life, once satisfied, but also lost, once happy, but also sad, always maintain a normal heart, and take a step back when angry.

Tomorrow the sun rises as usual! ~

Have a good mood for the day.

Bad mood is also spent the day before talking.

Why don't you spend every day happy?

A lot of annoyance is only temporary.

Maybe you'll forget about it tomorrow.

Life is good.

There's no need to dwell on painful memories all the time

When you're in a bad mood.

Listen to the song and relax.

Or talk to a friend.

Otherwise, find a clean place and slowly experience the static beauty of nature.

If life is so smooth, it is not called life.

Life is colorful.

Today is sad and stupid.

Happy tomorrow. Bad things today.

Good things tomorrow.

Life is like a stool to accompany the weather ==

Cloudy and rainy. Storm.

Out of the rainbow. Fret no more.

Be happy to face each day.

I wish you a happy day.

Everything went well!!

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