Shouldn t dating be utilitarian?

There is no need to make such friends, or make fewer friends!

No matter how many such "friends" there are, it is better to make a few real friends with your heart!

Making friends will definitely be somewhat utilitarian, and utilitarianism is not very dirty.

True friends will help you when you are in trouble, otherwise what's the use of making friends?

So think about which of your true friends are, cherish them, and let them go with the flow!

Good luck!

Friend: Of course, we have to divide it. Some are friends who have played since childhood.

Some are friends I met from work. Some are friends you use to work with. Some are friends who must not be offended.

Some are friends with wine and meat. It doesn't matter what kind of friend it is. It's normal for you to pay.

You have time to take a look. 163 of Niu Bo, said "Song Jiang". There is money to be used on the blade.

He's very good at selling people's hearts. "Note: Add it simply".

I would love to make friends like you. Reading between the lines, you are the person of the CC.

Let's sleep, I think I won't be confused when I wake up, sometimes the confusion is just a momentary feeling.

I don't know what you mean by utilitarianism, but as long as you pay attention, you should be able to find a friend who is really suitable for you.

My way of making friends is: no longer have many friends, but fine; To see a person's hole cards, you have to look at his friends.

Do you say yes?

I think you should sometimes tell your friends who are going to dinner with you as if you were joking: "You pay for this treat." See if he's interested in paying the money. If he still eats white food, then you should consider dumping him. It's okay if you don't make this kind of friend.

I don't know when people always do things with a strong sense of purpose, and forget the thing itself and the essence of things. Do things only when you can achieve your goals, and if you can't achieve your goals, you will push back, find various reasons to avoid them, or simply not do them.

For example, when reading a book, you must read a small medium oak to count more than one hour; Walking must be completed with 10,000 steps a day; To cook, you must make dishes that are full of color and flavor to be considered successful; Networking must help to broaden contacts and resources to be meaningful.

Doing anything forgets the thing itself, but only sees the purpose. Reading books is to enjoy and expand knowledge, rather than to measure it by time; Walking is to be busy and exercise, not to shout how much you have to reach to walk. Whatever we do, we should look at the essence, not the end.

Doing things with a purpose, although it seems more efficient, as if every minute of Zheng Peichun is spent on the blade, such a life seems to be easier to achieve; But if you look closely, it happens that this kind of behavior that is too purposeful unconsciously solidifies people's thinking, ignores the essence of things, and finally becomes nondescript.

There is no shame in doing things with a utilitarian mind, but it is often difficult to do things well with a habitual utilitarian mind. Planting land is for the harvest, but with a utilitarian heart to do it, constantly fertilizing to promote growth, worrying about slow growth, and not hesitating to pull out seedlings to help grow, the result can only make the growth not good, and there will even be no harvest.

People are not stupid, who will not be able to see that when you communicate with a purpose, especially when you enter a circle that you have never entered, everyone else knows your every move. If you treat others as fools and only know how to use others, you can only backfire in the end, you can't fit into the circle, and you are looked down upon.

When communicating, more important than the meaning of networking is the feeling of being free and relaxed when chatting with friends. It is originally a relaxed and pleasant environment, and if you insist on turning it into a scene of comparison, intrigue, and mutual use, it will only make people disappointed and disgusted with communication.

Sometimes life seems to rely on those "useful" things to be meaningful, such as a successful career, a transcendent status, a lot of income, etc.; But what really makes life interesting and cute are often the so-called "useless" things, such as reading, traveling, exercising, etc.