My boyfriend s parents thought I was poor

As a parent, he always thinks about his children, but it is nothing more than for his happiness, treat him and his family well, let his parents know that you can work hard together, your conditions are not bad, people's fate is very mysterious, I wish you happiness!

Actually, to speak from the heart! I'm a girl! I can relate to your feelings! Because I'm facing this right now.

To be honest, my character is very hesitant, I can't let go of this, I can't let go of that! But I am very resolute in my feelings: when I give everything and have nothing, you (the man) or you (the man's parents) still come to trample on me, and the only self-esteem left to save my life, I will fight back unceremoniously - no matter who you are!

It's like the usual saying: there is fate, but there is not enough.

I think, smart as you, should think clearly!

You can try to put down your self-esteem (because the other party's parents are also old people), catch up with some special days, buy some old people's hobbies or favorite gifts (not necessarily very expensive), people's hearts are meaty, you are good to the old people they will also believe that you are good to your son, the key is to grind and learn, to learn empathy, if it still doesn't work, you are not married to them, don't care so much (the key is that the boyfriend should be good to you), time will forget everything, the construction of socialist spiritual civilization is useful to anyone, The trend says everything, hard work will have a better tomorrow, and marriage will not be the whole of life!

Sometimes you have to be content! Now there are still many people who are temporary workers, rent houses, do not have 3 pensions and pensions, etc., people are still sick, and their children are not filial. Are you miserable enough? When will people see happiness? Is it worth it to be so tired?

Don't say anything more, just say a word, stick to yourself!

Are you married to his parents or to him?

Don't care too much, as long as you are in love with him, it's OK.

Obviously, your parents think I'm rich and don't associate with my bourgeoisie.

I think you're the saddest guy

On one side is his beloved "fiancée".

On one side is the parents who raised themselves.

Parents start with the outside, because you don't know each other, and what they are exposed to is also the outside (work, family, education, looks).

But if you get in touch with each other, the deeper you will understand.

Whether the character is good or not, whether the character is good or not.

The most important thing is that his parents will consider whether it will be good for their son After all, you are married, and the parents' advice is a reference

Don't give up easily, it's too hurtful

Of course, I want to make it clear to my parents that I don't feel that it's a shame to have no money at all, because my boyfriend has always worked very hard.

You should let your boyfriend go out and start a business, and you should also let your boyfriend buy a car and a house as soon as possible, so that parents can change their opinion of your boyfriend.

You can tell your parents that now you are both young and it is normal to have no money, but he works very hard and will have money in the future, don't look down on him.

Urge your boyfriend to make more money, so that your parents can see his potential and can rest assured that you will be together.

Just let your parents see how motivated and hard-working your boyfriend is, there are not so many people born with rich parents, and it is generally unreasonable to ask men to be so rich at the same age, as a daughter, you must keep the balance balanced. You love your parents, and you know that they look out for you. You also love your boyfriend If your boyfriend is in the entrepreneurial stage and is very self-motivated, encourage your boyfriend and try to change your parents' perspective.

Then, your boyfriend's lack of money is definitely a big stone, so you can divide early, if you can work together and grow together, this will not be a problem, and your parents will acquiesce. It's not too much of a problem for your boyfriend to be rich or not, first of all, it depends on whether the character hurts people, whether he is filial, whether he is kind-hearted, and secondly, whether he is sensible or not, whether he has anything to do, your parents like rich men. Does this man like your parents and you?

What is it about you that makes this man like you? Men and women are destined to match.

Do you know your boyfriend's family, your children will repeat their parents' marriage pattern in their marriage, whether your boyfriend's parents get along harmoniously, your boyfriend's parents get along harmoniously, character is very important, good character will make your future married life more stable, and poor character will make people miserable. As long as people are willing to work hard, endure hardships, and endure tiredness, today is not equal to tomorrow, look far, as long as you have faith, persuade your parents.

The attitude of parents is understandable, what parents don't want their daughter to marry a wealthy family, parents want their children to have no worries about food and clothing, and no financial pressure! If you can grow up with him From no money to rich You have the courage to be together If not, don't waste each other's time You don't have to worry too much about this, everything has a process, and good things are grinding. First of all, the family put forward their opinions and suggestions before you talked about marriage, all for your good, as long as you are willing to work hard, willing to make progress, there will always be money!

So it's all about your own ideas! After all, it's you who wants to live with another person for the rest of your life!

You should have a good talk with your parents, and you can also tell your parents the story between you, after all, your parents are also afraid that your boyfriend will treat you badly, so they will say this, I think you should talk about it with your parents, your parents can understand.

You should tell your parents that your family conditions are very ordinary, so you can't find a particularly rich man, otherwise you will not be in the right household.

As a daughter, you must keep the scales in balance. You love your parents, and you know that they look out for you. You also love your boyfriend and are ready to share all the ups and downs with him. Just talk to your parents about what you think.

You can let your parents understand how self-motivated and enterprising your boyfriend is, not all people are born with a prosperous family, and you must keep the balance balanced. Parents value these things, and they are also worried about your future, and they should communicate well with them.

Focus on your boyfriend's abilities so that he can act like he can support you, and also give your parents a little confidence in him.