My boyfriend disliked our poor family and abandoned me

Updated on society 2024-02-09
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't be angry, there's nothing to be angry about, on the contrary, it's a blessing for you! You should be happy to recognize the true face of a person through a small thing. I think you should do this in the future, have a boyfriend again, take him to your house as soon as possible, and don't tell the other party that your family is much richer than it seems, to see if a boy really likes you, and is there a better environment than your family is in this situation?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I've heard that women care about this, but I didn't expect men to care too. It must be a little white face, eating soft rice.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Isn't it just right to be separated, as you said, fortunately, you can see him clearly, and you won't be happy with him with people of this kind of power!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Such a man should let him go! There are many men in the world, find another good man, bless you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hehe, where are you? In the future, I will not go there to find my girlfriend. It's so realistic.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Is this kind of person worth it, don't do it, you will find someone who really loves you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't care too much about the woman's family conditions or appearance

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Dump this kind of man, it's too materialistic, too cheap.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's good to divide so that men can't do it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then it's good to pull and dig better in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Congratulations on seeing him for who he really is

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    How lucky are you to be such a man, don't want to.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In a person's life, we will meet a lot of people, and we will miss a lot of people, if you break up with your boyfriend, it can only prove that two people are inseparable, and your boyfriend gave up this relationship because of your family environment shows that your boyfriend is not reliable, more concerned about interests, even if you don't break up this time, you will often quarrel because of the problem of interests after marriage, so it is also beneficial for you to break up in time now, there is no need to regret because of a wrong relationship, Learn to relieve the bitter emotions in your heart.

    Confide in your best friends. I believe you must have some girlfriends, make these appointments to talk about your heart, tell each other about your own things to ask for each other's opinions, and release all the negative emotions in your heart in the process of confiding, your heart will be much more cheerful, don't stuff the painful things in your heart, otherwise it will be more sad, and many times it will be more comfortable to say things.

    Travel to your favorite places. Let's go on a trip, the world is so big, there is always a place to accommodate you, to the grassland for galloping, sleeping with the stars at night, to see different cultural landscapes, at this time to find the vastness of the world, their own smallness, do not have to be entangled because of some trivial things in life, to use every minute of life, so that you will not feel regrets, in the process of travel will make people forget their troubles, start again.

    Have a beautiful meal. There is nothing that cannot be solved by eating one meal, and if there is, then eat two meals, and turn grief into craving, and forget all the pain. In fact, it is not your fault that you broke up, but your boyfriend chose to leave, what you need to do is not to blame yourself all the time, but to find your own direction, strive to improve yourself, and become better, so that you will definitely be sought after by more people of the opposite sex, and continue to move forward, I believe that you will definitely reap your love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You can go out for a walk more, and you can slowly relieve your sad feelings, in fact, if you think about it, this is also a good thing, which shows that he doesn't like you at all, and you don't need to waste your youth on such people.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This aspect can be alleviated by watching movies, watching TV series, listening, singing and traveling. Because these methods can distract oneself and also make oneself feel happy.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Uncomfortable? It's normal! Because never use your kindness to challenge the ruthlessness of the world, live yourself, I don't have so many big truths from others, I am more direct, because that is experience, not for what experience, one day, you will feel that everything is a cloud of smoke!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Let's break up early, I think it's good.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Men have been abandoned too much because women are poor, and I am not the same.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Not true love, I think.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    When you are bored with the poverty of your boyfriend's family, do you want to save the relationship? This is a difficult question because everyone thinks differently and has different situations. However, there are a few things we should consider sooner rather than later.

    First of all, family poverty should not be a reason to reject someone. While money is indeed important, it doesn't represent the whole of a person. You should respect his values, personality, and character, which are all important factors.

    Therefore, if you really like him, you should accept his background, and it will also make you a more sound, open, and mature person.

    Second, you need to discern how you really feel about the relationship. Do you really like him, or are you just with him because he's nice to you and rich? If you really like him, then you will accept all his shortcomings and strengths and face any difficulties with him.

    If you just want to be with him because of interests, then the relationship is doomed to fail because any relationship requires a certain amount of sacrifice and effort.

    Finally, you need to recognize that emotions are not one-way. If you decide that you want to win him back, then you need to make him want to be with you. You can give him some time to think about it, or you can try to communicate with him to understand his thoughts.

    When you express your true feelings to him, you should avoid criticizing him and instead make him understand your desires and expectations. Then, you need to respect his reaction, whether it's acceptance or rejection.

    In short, disliking your boyfriend's poor family is not an independent problem, because it involves your attitude towards life and emotional development. You should think hard about your true feelings and the future you want before making a decision. Ultimately, no matter what choices you make, you should respect and love yourself and others.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What else can I do, I can only make money, anyway, this is the fact that there is more money and less money.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This problem varies from person to person, some people dislike it, some people don't dislike it, but most girls will dislike it, after all, the current society is too realistic, and it is difficult to maintain love without bread, of course, there are people who give up bread for true love.

    In fact, economic problems have always been a factor that has a great impact on the love between men and women, and it is difficult to maintain love without bread, of course, there are people who give up bread for true love, so do girls generally dislike their boyfriends for being poor? This question varies from person to person, some people dislike it, some people don't dislike it, but the majority of girls who dislike it, after all, the current society is too realistic; But this does not determine whether two people can be together or not, as long as two people work in a common direction, it is enough! There will be bread, and there will be love.

    Saying that most of them are false, in a relationship, everyone will look at whether the value matches. Then the side with high value will have a contrasting mentality, while the side with low value will easily feel unconfident. In fact, girls want boys to be motivated, and being poor is really not wrong, being poor all the time is.

    Girls don't care about the word poverty itself, but about the spiritual and value impact it brings. If you are poor and short-sighted, you will be disgusted by everyone.

    In fact, the relationship between two people is the most important, and only when the relationship is good, will there be plans and plans for the next step. The second is whether the two people have a development and a future. Many girls are not disgusted with boys' poor family backgrounds, nor do they dislike boys for being poor, but they are worried that they can only be poor in the future, and there will be no days when they will turn over.

    Some poor boys blindly complain about fate, complain that they have not been reborn, complain that their parents are useless, and complain that girls are snobbish, but they just don't complain about why they are incapable. In a word, some girls don't dislike their boyfriends for being poor, but they dislike having no future. As long as the boys are willing to work hard, there will be girls who will follow you without regrets and struggle, just to live a better life in the future.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    As long as it is a girl, she will dislike her boyfriend for being poor. Poverty can not satisfy the spiritual and material desires of girls, can not bring a sense of ritual romance to women, can not take girls to travel, walk around the world, understand local customs, familiar with local culture and customs, taste local food. Girls are not given a sense of security, and poor boys and girls are disgusted.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No, looking for a boyfriend must be of the same class as myself, since it is from the same class, I don't think he will dislike me, and I won't dislike him. But finding a boyfriend, I don't think it's just about wealth.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Yes, you can't give you what you want if you're too poor, and you can only live a hard life with him. It's okay to be self-motivated, but it's even worse if you're not self-motivated.

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