My girlfriend s family is poor and my parents are old, should we get married sooner?

What you should consider is not to get married early or later, but more importantly, to think about how to make money, make more money, take on the responsibilities of the family, and be able to support your parents when they are old, right?

Get married early, and then your girlfriend's family will suddenly get rich? And then your parents will suddenly be younger? Wouldn't it? So what kind of impact can getting married at an early age bring?

We know that love is a matter of two people, and the parties like it themselves, and they don't need to think too much. But marriage is different, in addition to both parties to the marriage, there may be other factors to consider, such as family environment, economic level, future development, and so on.

If you get married early, from a certain point of view, it is a sublimation of your love, but it does not play an obvious role in changing the poverty of your girlfriend's family and the age of your parents.

Therefore, because of these two reasons, there is no need to consider getting married early.

If you already have a certain emotional foundation, then you can get married.

You already know each other well enough to get used to each other's existence in life, and after you get married, you can be more clear about each other's identities. To work hard for the common family, of course, even the other party's family problems and the responsibility of supporting the elders also need to be borne together.

Both men and women need to do this.

It's not that the daughter who got married spilled the water and raised the daughter for more than 20 years, after marrying, she is no longer a daughter. Not to mention that as long as the son-in-law gives a dowry, he buys someone else's daughter home......<

When it comes to women whose families are financially poor, but who marry early, I think of Liang Luoshi. When she was in her early twenties, she was with the rich Li family, and then gave birth to three children.

In real life, such characters are too far away from us. More people, or find a similar boyfriend and girlfriend, no one is more noble or humble than others, the family is poor, and they can only rely on themselves to work hard, early marriage and late marriage, the biggest significance is that when he is unsuccessful, he will accompany him as a family member in trouble and ......

Instead of working hard together, he finally accompanied her into the marriage hall and was another person.

However, if you don't get a marriage license and don't hold that ceremony, won't you work hard for each other's future? Is your relationship real or fake?

If it's me, I think getting married is a very important thing, not because of the ceremony, but because we decided to take on the responsibility of the family together. Treat her family as my family, and manage our future with heart, the original me and her will be us in the future. This kind of decision has nothing to do with whether her family is poor or rich, and it has nothing to do with whether my parents are old or young.

Does your girlfriend's poor family have anything to do with your early marriage and late marriage? It's understandable that your parents want you to get married as soon as you are old, if it's just because of the conditions, I think it's better to think about getting married again, and I think marriage shouldn't be based on conditions and age, and the most important thing is that two people are in love! <>

If you love your girlfriend very much, then marry her home, marry her well, be good to her from beginning to end, take care of her, and take care of her parents, this is a husband's responsibility and obligation, don't we all say that love is a responsibility? That's the truth. Don't dislike your girlfriend because of the conditions of her family, the dog is not poor, the son is not ugly, and the conditions of their family are not something they can decide, but the parents are old and incapable, so I hope you get married as soon as possible, so that the old couple can feel at ease as soon as possible and enjoy their old age!

Of course, all of this must be based on your feelings, if you reach the right age, or you are in love, there is no objection to marriage, then get married, I think your girlfriend's parents will also hope that you will get married and start a family as soon as possible if you agree to be together, parents do not require you to be rich, but just hope that their children can have a good home, can have a person who loves her, can have a stable home, I think this is the greatest wish of parents!

So if it's suitable, let's settle it quickly, now the weather is lukewarm and just right for marriage, so it's a matter of the old couple! Marriage means responsibility, you have to be good to her, be good to her parents, have time to accompany her home to see, parents don't ask much, you can often accompany them is very satisfied!

Marriage is the most important thing in the life of two people, marriage is not a play house that we played when we were children, we will marry whoever we like, marriage is the beginning of the formation and responsibility of a family of two people, if your girlfriend's family is poor and your parents are older, I think the two of you should still get married naturally, rather than getting married early because of these circumstances, for the following reasons. <>

The first reason is that marriage cannot be forced. Two people get married willingly, and then they are very happy to prepare for marriage, but if you get married early because of the situation in your girlfriend's house, I think this is irresponsible for two people, your marriage is not an accessory to the change of your girlfriend's family conditions, but the beginning of the two of you going on together.

The question you started to ask, plus your girlfriend's family conditions are not good and poor, if you are a girlfriend who feels sorry for you, then you can get married early, but you have to have enough money to change the situation, if you don't have this ability, don't force marriage.

The second reason is to marry with the person you love, not because of the other person for some reason, or not because you pity the other person. Your marriage is not about having money or not, but whether you love your girlfriend or not, whether your girlfriend married you because she loves you, and if your girlfriend wants to change the situation in her family, I don't think you need to marry her at all.

The third reason is that the change of a family cannot be changed by a marriage. You have to know that your girlfriend's family conditions can only be changed by the people in their own family, and what you can change is only some superficial things, temporarily help to change the status quo, but not the most basic problem.

Fourth, you're ready. In the face of your girlfriend's family conditions are so poor, your salary is not high, and after you get married, the house, car tickets, and children, are you really ready, don't forget the most realistic problems for the sake of a moment.

I think two people get married because they feel that their relationship has reached that point, and two people suddenly start to want to live a stable life, and want to have a stable home that can bring each other a sense of security. I don't think the progress of marriage should be affected by some external factors, if the two of you are not ready to get married at all, and you get married in a hurry, it will be very detrimental to your married life.

If your girlfriend has no money at home, it can't be solved by getting married. And if you really want to solve this situation of no money, you can still solve it even if you don't get married! Leaving a part of the salary of two people every month to honor the elderly, it does not mean that only when they are married, the money of two people can be shared.

There are a lot of people now, and when they first start falling in love, the things of the two people become shared.

Then there is the fact that the parents are old, and it is not the reason why they should get married. Could it be that as long as the two of you get married, her parents will be able to become younger? Or are you not willing to take care of her parents without you getting married?

If you feel that you are not obligated to take care of your girlfriend without getting married, it only means that you do not love your girlfriend enough.

When two people are in love, they should think about each other. Since your girlfriend's family is not very good and her parents are relatively old, then you should take care of her a little more, so that it can also alleviate her family's predicament, right? So, this solution is not only the way to get married.

Of course, my values have changed because of what I've been through, it's just my thoughts, and I'm just giving you advice. I just think it's better to be cautious about things like marriage, and don't let two people get married because of external pressure, so that the marriage may be more difficult in the future.

In fact, there is no most suitable time to get married, I think as long as you are in a relationship to that extent, and then both of you feel that the time is ripe, you can get married. But having said that, in fact, marriage is still a matter of two families, you can think so much about your girlfriend, I think she should be very happy, her parents are older, they must hope that their daughter can get married and start a family as soon as possible. Because they are afraid that they will not be able to take good care of her in the future, they will want to have a reliable man to take care of their daughter instead of them.

If both of you have more or less stable jobs now, I think you can get married sooner. But have you ever asked your parents for their opinions, for fear that your parents are not satisfied with your girlfriend's family conditions. After all, many people don't like girls from too poor families to be their daughters-in-law, and if you are an only child, you are afraid that the pressure on the other party's parents to support the elderly will all be on you in the future.

Although you are very good to your girlfriend and think about her, I think this kind of thing can't be decided by the two of you alone, you still need to ask your parents for their opinions first, and then make an appointment to have a good conversation together. <>

But if you don't have a decent job or just have a job that hasn't stabilized, I think you can't be in a hurry about getting married, after all, the two of you will live on your own in the future, and you have to bear everything by yourself and can't rely on your parents, a reliable economy is related to the harmony of your family in the future, so don't consider getting married because of too much external pressure, I believe that whether it is your parents or her parents, I hope you can live a better life in the future.

What are you talking about is that his family is in poor condition, should he get married?

One. First of all, I think you are in love, and then you are married for a lifetime, so in this case, you manage the conditions of the family is good or not, I don't think there is any need to dwell on this issue, you want people, not the family conditions of the people you want, two r

Two rough book, even if people are not good, or your family's family conditions are not good, you should work together after you get married, not to say that the suspect's family conditions are not good, and not to say that you married to others, so I think this is very good, if his family conditions are not good, at this time to your house, will do a good job, is a good girlfriend of Iwasan, I think you should cherish the lead bar, three, because you mainly look at people's looks and look at people's temperament and character, not to say that look at people's family status, As long as he is sensible, then it is better than anything else, if his family conditions are not good or his family conditions are particularly good, then he is not sensible, then I don't think there is any need to associate with him.

The financial situation of your girlfriend's family is not the only factor in getting married, so you should not give up on marrying your girlfriend just because she has poor conditions in her family.

First of all, marriage is based on mutual love and respect, not on material conditions. If you and your girlfriend are genuinely in love and can support each other, then her family conditions should not be an obstacle to your marriage.

Secondly, if you and your girlfriend decide to get married, you can face the difficulties and challenges in life together. By supporting and helping each other, you can create a better future together.

Finally, if you and your girlfriend decide to get married, there are some financial measures you can consider to improve your family's financial situation. For example, you can work hard together, save money, or look for investment opportunities that suit you to increase your income.

In short, the financial situation of your girlfriend's family is not the decisive factor for marriage, what you should consider is the relationship between you and the future development of your model.

It is also possible to get married if there is a big gap with your girlfriend's family, because in addition to the material requirements for marriage, the most important thing is that two people really love each other, that is to say, they have deep feelings, so there is no need to have too much psychological pressure, and the mentality should be better.

1. Correctly deal with the problem of large family gaps.

Treat the gap between two people correctly, in fact, it is normal for two people to have a gap, the purpose of being together is to make this gap continue to narrow, and move forward in the direction of the efforts of two people, and more importantly, you can't escape this problem, everyone will have shortcomings, everyone has advantages, try to ignore some small shortcomings, and amplify each other's advantages.

2. The two have a common goal.

If the person you marry has a common goal with you, even if the gap between the two parties is relatively large, it may not be impossible to live happily.

3. A high degree of consistency of thought.

If the height of two people's thoughts is more unified, then they will get along more relaxed and happy, such a state of mind is undoubtedly beneficial to the development of lovers' feelings, and people with inconsistent thoughts can also find out the way that suits them through mutual understanding and understanding, which can be improved.