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If two people get married, then, they must have children for the man, because getting married and having children is a woman's lifelong mission, and if you don't want children after marriage, then it is better not to get married.
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Men should be given children, after all, men do not have the function of giving birth, and women have given birth to children since ancient times, which is the responsibility of women.
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It may be that most people in China think that it should be, but there is no fixed answer to this answer, it depends on the two people's own perceptions. If you make up your mind that you don't want to have children, and the boy has to, then there is no need for the two of you to be together. But the concept will change, so I hope you don't miss it.
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A woman is not obliged to say that she is going to have a child for a man, unless she is willing to do so, and if she is willing, then she can go.
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It is necessary to treat man as an ordinary creature, for the sake of the continuation of the species. However, it is different in human society, and it is not necessary to look at these with the mentality of continuing the species.
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If all women are there to give birth to men, then I think women are worthless, so it should not be women who give birth to men.
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I don't think it's like to say that we should have children for men, if we like children, we can raise such a child for love, but if we are not happy, there is no need to ask for this child for anyone.
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Because if you like each other or love each other, you will give birth to offspring for each other, so that the relationship between two people has a continuation, and it is also a witness to the love of two people, perhaps this is also the reason for the continuation of human beings.
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1. Inheritance, this is a more traditional view, and most of the people of the previous generation hold such a concept. I feel that having a child is to pass on the lineage.
2. Pregnancy and childbirth enable human beings to reproduce and live endlessly. So some people hope that when they grow old, there will be a continuation of life and continue to live in the world.
3. Many people say that life is incomplete without children. In addition to playing the role of a daughter and a wife, a person must also be a mother and experience the happiness of having children. Life is complete when you have children. Raising a child to grow up will also bring a great sense of accomplishment.
4. Some people think that children are the joy of life and the meaning of life. The wife and children are hot on the kang, so you don't have to worry about everything.
5. A woman who is in love often wants a crystallization of love that belongs to two people. If you love him, bear him a child.
6. The traditional concept is that a family with children is perfect, and a marriage without children will break up sooner or later. However, the existence of children is not only a kind of reconciliation for feelings and families, but also a test.
7. Participate in the growth of children's lives and let them have a wonderful life.
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Not because to give a man a child, but to build a better family. Extending life is also for the sake of a better life in the future.
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Because love wants to come to fruition.
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It's not about having children for men, it's also for yourself, people are always going to get old one day, do you want to have a child of your own?
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Mainly influenced by old-fashioned ideas. Because in the past, women were mainly engaged in housework, childbirth and raising children at home, and the center of the family was men, so they felt that everything they did was for men, including giving birth.
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It may be because the birth of a child follows the man's surname, so it is thought that the birth of a child is for a man, but in fact, the child is born to both parents, and there is no reason for whom it is born
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Most of the women who think this way are rural women, who believe that men are working hard to support their families outside the home, and they have the obligation to give birth to children and keep incense for the man.
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A brief let me say what I think:
First of all, the premise: I belong to the kind of people who don't want children, and the reason is very simple: I don't like it, I can't afford it.
On this basis, the opinion is drawn:
1. Having a child is a very risky thing. From many perspectives, pregnancy and childbirth are extremely risky for pregnant women, and to a large extent, I don't want my loved ones to take this risk; From the child's side, I am not sure if I can give it a stable future, and poverty is the first thing I have ruled out, at least at the educational level, to ensure absolute satisfaction; For me, having children, raising children, and the children themselves can be a huge test for the couple or even two families, which is more risky than starting a business, and the consequences are irreversible.
2. Having children is a redistribution of family obligations and rights. Social issues such as widowed education will not be discussed for the time being. How to balance children's material expenditures and time contributions, and how to balance work and family.
Women's efforts in childbearing are too large to be estimated, which means that if family rights and obligations need to reach a new balance, then men must pay more for raising children and domestic work, and in real life, it is often difficult to achieve this, thus causing huge and widespread family conflicts.
3. At the same time, having children is a woman's unique ability, which means that the right to have children lies with women. There are two sides to this exclusivity: the advantage is that women have a natural advantage in mate selection; The disadvantage is that women are naturally discriminated against in the workplace.
Therefore, I believe that men's giving up childbearing is a great respect for women's wishes, and it is a measure to truly implement the equal rights of men and women. How to deal with women who are willing to have children? : Please look for men who need children, your question is too much for me.
Do you want children, how many children, and when? This should be a matter of consensus between men and women before marriage, and if it is discussed after marriage, it can only be said to be hasty.
Finally, I can't rule out the saying that people change, but all opinions are based on what I have seen and heard so far. To sum up the point: women having children is a dangerous and great thing, but it is not necessary.
Do you want? When to do it? The right to procreation is in the hands of women, but marriage is a matter of two people and two families.
Please be cautious about marriage and childbearing, and avoid harming each other, each other's families, and the most innocent children.
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Because that's the way the world is.
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