How do you say no to a gift that you feel you must not accept?

Updated on society 2024-05-09
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    To refuse a gift that you feel you can't receive, first of all, the tone must be particularly euphemistic, after all, this is someone else's mind, when refusing, it is equivalent to rejecting someone else's mind, you must be tactful, you can't hurt others, and secondly, you must express your gratitude, thank him for these concerns about yourself, and give yourself these gifts.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can opt for a humorous rejection. If he gives a gift that you really don't want, you say let's go out to dinner together, and you can bring it back when the gift is given. You just say that you are a person who doesn't like to accept gifts from others, so you want him to understand.

    Let's go out to eat together, and it's okay for you to give me a gift. Perhaps, this boy will take the initiative to take you out to dinner. In the process of eating, he is also embarrassed to give you gifts again.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Generally speaking, you can refuse without breaking someone's heart, and this is the final outcome. If it's someone you don't want to associate with who is always pestering you to give you a birthday present, you say:"Hey, it doesn't seem like I'm my birthday today, right?

    You remember wrong! My birthday is long gone"Then he should let you take it. You just say:

    Don't! It's past the birthday, so I won't accept it, next time! "Then just make an excuse and walk away, it definitely works.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you think that this gift is something you can never say, you must be very firm to refuse this gift, because if you are resolutely unable to accept it, if the tone is too tactful, others may be very firm to give it to you, and you have no way to refuse, which will cause a very troublesome result.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think if you want to refuse a gift that you must not accept, you can directly express his meaning, or tactfully refuse him can also know what he understands what you mean, I don't think he will force you anymore, you have to think about who gave you this gift, why you can't say it, if you can't receive a reason, you can just say it to him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think if you want to refuse a gift that you think you can't accept, you have to be tough, because if you don't have a tough attitude, then that person will probably keep telling you to accept the gift, and then they will keep grinding, so I think you have to be very tough on this matter.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When we celebrate our birthdays, there are often many people who send us all kinds of gifts, but some of these gifts are gifts that we can introduce. This is unacceptable to us. I think that when we encounter those unacceptable gifts, we must tell the giver in a special tactful way that I can't accept your gift, because your gift is so precious that I don't think I should be.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think if you want to refuse a gift, you can say it directly, don't let others have some misunderstandings about you, I think this is not good for others, it is not good for you, some things are sometimes said directly, often the effect is better.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think I can't accept a more expensive gift from a boy. You can find some good excuses, but you must be tactful, for example, I really can't say such a gift from you, if so, we really can't even be friends

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When we celebrate our birthday, our classmates will send us all kinds of gifts, but some classmates may have given me a particularly expensive gift because they like me, so I think that on my birthday, if it is very bad to say that this particularly expensive gift fitting room like him is very bad, so I will tell her tactfully, this gift of yours is too valuable, I don't think I can accept it now, I will tell him tactfully.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Basically, my friends give me expensive gifts, I won't accept them, because I think this gift is too valuable, you give it to me, I want to manage it for you when it's really not easy to manage, because I don't have as rich as you to buy these things, I will almost always give them what they say, and then don't bring gifts, even if you bring me myself, I won't accept it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think it's just that in the face of the boy's behavior of giving me a ring, I can't accept it anyway, because I'm a very traditional person, I think the ring can only be given to two people who love each other, and you're just an ordinary friend of mine, if you give me such a gift, I will feel very embarrassed.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1. Tactfully refuse to give gifts to others.

    1.Look at the occasion and then refuse.

    It is often better to refuse privately than in public; There are others, and if they are rejected, it will make the other party feel very shameless. If you really can't avoid the other person, it's best to find an opportunity to explain it to them right afterwards.

    2.Now friendly, first affirm and then refuse.

    Having a friendly attitude and giving affirmation before rejection can reduce the other person's feeling of being "denied".

    3."Devaluing oneself" is better than "denying others".

    Second, the sentence that the gift was refused.

    1. Don't fulfill others, disgust yourself, learn to reject others, and respect others' rejection.

    2. I have known how to protect myself since I was a child, and I know that if you want not to be rejected, the best way is to know how to reject others first.

    3. The reason why I am afraid of rejecting others is because I am afraid of being rejected by others one day. And it turns out that even if you don't reject others, others will reject you anyway.

    4. If you want to avoid being rejected, the best way is to reject others first, but so far, I have not learned to refuse.

    5. Why do I always feel that rejecting others is like doing something wrong, and I am always embarrassed for others and for myself.

    6. Since you can't get along, why should you wronged yourself and accommodate others, from now on, everyone will be safe, your business will no longer have anything to do with me, I can afford to hide!

    7. Don't be embarrassed to refuse others, because people who are embarrassed to embarrass you will not be good people.

    8. What does it look like to be insecure since childhood. I think I should reject others when they reject me, and I feel heinous when I reject others, maybe I haven't learned to reject others.

    9. Don't know how to refuse, most of them are almost stupid kindness, when you are embarrassed to reject others, think about why they are embarrassed to embarrass you"。

    10. If you want to have dignity, don't provoke others first, and secondly, learn to refuse, and reject others before others reject you.

    11. When you learn to reject others and learn to retaliate with a tooth for a tooth, others will respect you and even fear you.

    12. It is not easy to refuse other people's requests, between promise and rejection, it is easy to promise and difficult to refuse.

    13. I'm always afraid of losing, so I always go to reject others first. It's not that I'm too cold about everything, I just want to instinctively protect myself.

    14. Everyone is a world, so you can accept others and learn to reject others, and whoever leaves can live.

    15. Don't be embarrassed to refuse others, because some people know that it is difficult for others, but they still have the confidence to let you compromise.

    16. A truly high-level person must be both gentle and ruthless, both charming and capable of rejecting others.

    17. Don't be embarrassed to refuse others, anyway, those who are embarrassed to embarrass you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    As follows:

    1. I'm glad to see you give me a gift, but I can't accept this gift.

    2. We are disciplined, I can't ask for these gifts, please take them back.

    3. We are very strict and can't accept gifts, so I can't ask for it, please take it back.

    4. Thank you for the gift you gave me, but we have a rule that we can't accept it, I'm really sorry.

    5. This gift is very beautiful, but I can't accept it, thank you for your kindness.

    6. In accordance with the relevant regulations, we are strictly forbidden to receive gifts, thank you for your cooperation.

    7. It's good that you have this heart, but I can't accept this gift.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Here's how:

    1. If you encounter a gift that is directly courier, then the way to return or exchange it is relatively simple, directly refuse to sign or send the gift back through the courier.

    2. If you don't want to refuse directly when you first receive the gift, you can first collect the gift unopened, and wait for a day or two after the matter has passed, and then take the gift to the giver's home to return the gift.

    3. The goal is shifted, because the person who gives the gift is generally an adult in the family, and when the guest wants to leave, the gift can be returned in the name of the child or the elders in the family, so that it is not only more natural but also everyone will not let everyone lose face.

    Precautions. Every holiday, birthday will receive gifts from others, if friends have a good relationship with nothing, if you encounter some unwanted gifts, or need to return them to others in time, then how to reasonably return the gifts given by others, how to return the gifts cleverly received, will not make everyone feel embarrassed.

    The above are some ways to return and exchange other people's gifts, I hope that after reading it, you can get some inspiration from it, and be able to return gifts better and more politely, without affecting personal relationships and feelings, so collect it quickly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Bi Liangstool's euphemistic method of refusing other people's gifts:

    1. If someone gives you a gift in public, you must not refuse in person, and take care of the other person's feelings. The best way is to accept it in person, but return it to someone right afterwards. What should be paid attention to in this is to grasp the time to return to others, preferably no more than 24 hours, and ensure that the gift is intact, and do not open it because of curiosity, so that the gain outweighs the loss.

    2. When others give you gifts on more formal occasions, it is best to refuse in a tactful way, but the position of refusal should be firm, and do not give others a gesture of wanting to refuse and welcome. Use polite language to talk about the hand travel when refusing to be round, so as to ensure that the other party understands your mind and gives the other party a face.

    3. When someone else gives you an overly expensive gift on a private occasion, especially when the other party gives this gift with a certain purpose, you must refuse with righteous words, and do not leave a little room for the other party, so as not to misunderstand the other party.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Something is not at home today.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If the relationship is not very close, just politely refuse, say thank you for his kindness, you understand but still can't accept this gift, if the relationship is very good, you don't need to be so polite and say that you don't want to receive.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It is advisable to tell others very tactfully, for example, this gift is too expensive for me to ask for or my parents will not approve of me accepting such a valuable gift. If it doesn't work, it is recommended to explain the reason to him directly, I really can't ask for your gift, I thank you very much for your gift, directly explain that this is the best, and the trouble behind the rescue exists.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you don't want to accept a gift, you will refuse outright. Make it clear to him the benefits and disadvantages of receiving gifts.

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