I just want to have a harmonious environment with my boyfriend, why is it so difficult?

Hehe, this is very normal, why don't you quarrel with ordinary people? Because they're so far away from you. One of the sayings that we often see quarrels with is, why are you so gentle and lovely to others, why are you so polite and gentlemanly to others, and they are not good for me...

The essence is to have a self that refuses to forgive!

Instead of blaming each other, we are blaming ourselves, imagining, are you giving the responsibility of your happiness to the other person? Is it to say that all your wishes and expectations are handed over to the other party, is it that you care too little about yourself? Don't love yourself enough?

If you love yourself enough, you will take less of each other. will be more tolerant of each other.

And love and marriage will go through a run-in period.,It's nothing.。。。 The key is that you all need to calm down and find the reason from yourself first, too many people's communication has become a criticism meeting for each other. Hehe.. In this world, there is no one else outside, only yourself.

I recommend you this book, men are from Mars, women are from Mercury, and, **, Harvard Happiness Class, all things need us to operate and learn, to solve problems, the essence is to rely on ourselves. Bless you.

When you quarrel, you still love each other deeply, and if you don't love, you don't bother to quarrel. Hehe..

Personality discord. Communicate more.

Change yourself, make yourself mature and sensible, and only then will you be able to keep him. Respect his habits and preferences To love someone, you must first understand. Understanding is more important than love.

It's useless to argue at all I agree with him. Wait until you're calm down and then communicate well. Otherwise, it can only hurt each other.

Don't think it's uncaring, it's just that you don't want to destroy, you don't want to lose, you can't bear to be beautiful, and suddenly it changes. Once it changes, it will only get worse and worse, and there will be no going back.

It's an interesting phenomenon. People sometimes quarrel, most of the time not because of a dispute over an issue, but because one of the parties has a bad attitude. Since he has his own ideas, you just say that the estimated effect is not great.

You can find some similar ** or TV series to watch together, the main plot is that the heroine because the male protagonist has a bad way of communication, and finally the two broke up, and then you start to discuss why the hero and heroine broke up.

My situation with you is like, I and my boyfriend are the same, he doesn't say, I just hit **, he is very annoying, I also said that I just need to coax it, but he doesn't, in the end, we broke up, now that I think about it, it's actually quite uncomfortable, I feel it, you can communicate with him, if he doesn't want to, then you keep yourself busy, don't see him as your own world, enrich yourself, don't think about him, let him take the initiative to contact you, so it's better, I hope it can help you.

You're a very complementary couple, so that's great, don't try to change. If you look for someone who is also emotional, you will know what it feels like to add fuel to the fire.

Actually, I'm similar to your boyfriend's personality.,It's not that he doesn't care about you.,It's that he won't show his concern.,I'm generally just very close to people who don't have too polite language or anything.,And outsiders instead.。。。 These are all kind words. I'm just going to talk about what I think, and I hope it can help you.

Respect each other, discuss, communicate, and be considerate of each other.

The vast majority of normal men are like this.

When you meet a violent man, you will know that he is good.

You should cherish ... He's right.. Such talents are worth living for a lifetime! 1

Why don't you die, get along with your boyfriend, and ask us if it's useful? Dry.

Women don't do too much, because many men are more masculine ideas, try to be gentle with them, they will also be good to you, heart to heart.

Whether it's a man or your boyfriend, you have to keep it to a degree.

For men to respect you and respect each other, this requires you to have your own thoughts!

You can get along well with men if you don't rely on men!

I'm talking about the common ground!

The difference is that your boyfriend's place in your heart is more important than a man!

The key is to see what your boyfriend thinks of your man... Your boyfriend is stingy. Jealous. You can't get along with each other.

Of course, if you get too close to your boyfriend's friends, your boyfriend will always be jealous, and if it's serious, they'll fight, and my friends are like that, and I want to keep a certain distance from them, but not too much, just be careful, I think that's right.

Human beings are a product of nature.

Without nature, human beings do not exist We eat and wear with raw materials provided by nature, and human beings do not treat nature scientifically and unreasonably, which is to dig graves with themselves.

Difficult! A beautiful woman makes a man stop, and a wise woman makes a man stay.

The most difficult thing between a man and a woman is to be humble to each other.

If you want to maintain a good relationship, you have to understand the man, what he cares about, and what he needs.

Of course, women also have women's guidelines, women. The mouth should be sweet, the heart should be ruthless, and the work must be absolute! Don't be too competitive. I don't fight with my husband. I won't talk about the details, you can understand it yourself.

Overcome rigidity with softness, and advance with rigidity and softness.

That's a very general question! I don't know your specific situation, but in general, I have to analyze the specific situation. So I can only give you a general answer :

Self-esteem, self-love, self-improvement and self-reliance, do not maintain their happiness on each other, do not lose their temper, show the gentleness and elegance of girls at the same time, they need to be soft and strong. Hope it helps.

Save face for him in public, calm down and discuss things instead of pointedly pointing out whose fault the problem will always pass, and don't worry about everything.

Accommodating each other, finding common interests, strengthening communication, and being honest.

I think there are two possibilities.

One is, as said upstairs, he loves you too much, and he is afraid that you will be sad and anxious when you hear about it, and that your family will dislike him.

The other is that he doesn't love you, everything is lying to you, of course, this possibility is very small Upstairs said too ruthlessly, only love, no job, do you have to starve two people to death together to applaud?!

But I think you're doing something wrong; You shouldn't tell his family that he really lost his job, you should help him hide it.

He also lied to you because he cared too much about you, this kind of white lie, you can definitely forgive him, but for you, I have to criticize you twice, I think a woman like you is too unreasonable, do you love him or love his work! If I were him, I would have been with you if I knew you thought so

I don't think he meant it.

Let's find another one. Take the initiative to apologize.

The relationship between our colleagues is very harmonious, and I conclude that everyone has a different division of labor, even in the same department, each person's jurisdiction is different, and there is no conflict of interest. And every company has its own atmosphere and aura of each company, it will inspire people to adapt to it like a fish in water to work, incompatible can be easily picked out, so, very simple, no conflict of interest is the most important, followed by individuals can not be too top-notch, too much, everyone let a step is very good, and the appropriate benefits of the boss will also make employees feel more cordial. By the way, this Friday our company went to play ball and have dinner. Roar.

When the leader asks this, he obviously wants you to live in harmony

1. Unity, teamwork.

2. Progressive, for the common goal.

3. Generosity

Optimism and warmth.

Solidarity and mutual assistance. In a positive environment!

Strive to work with like-minded people, if you really don't have it, try to do some less controversial work with others, it's really not enough, just silence is golden!!