Is it really good to not talk in class, just read and not make friends? Quasi high school junior so

It's not good, but it's like that when I was in high school, I just had something to say to my tablemates. I don't have anything to say to anyone else. Don't worry, in fact, you can study hard in the third year of high school.

After going to college, when I left my parents and was alone, I slowly became cheerful, let's just say that it was a process of growth, not as serious as social fear, everyone will have such an experience.

If you don't think the people around you are worth befriending, then it's okay not to socialize. If you find someone interesting or desirable and want to be friends with them but don't dare to say it, then I'm going to pat you on the back and push you out.

Making friends in high school is pure, and there is no other strange purpose, just to like it. Be sure to make some genuine friends before college, even if it's one.

None of the people I met after college could laugh with me until my stomach hurt, and none of them could walk aimlessly on the street with me late in the evening.

After college, social factors have forced into your life, and it is difficult to make simple "friends" at that time

Start at the same table, and then get acquainted with other classmates, so that you can also discuss and study, only study and not make friends, and it is difficult to get along with colleagues when you go out into society, so there are many jobs that are illegal.

It's definitely not good, even if you have good grades? By the time you enter society, you have completely lost your social function, which is terrifying.

Not good! In this way, you can only improve in your studies, but you don't know anything in interpersonal communication!

Message: Inspirational slogan for senior high school.

No bitterness, no tiredness, tastelessness in the third year of high school, no hard work is equal to working in vain!

Strawberry-flavored powder fungus is just ahead.

Foolproof means standing still, that's the biggest adventure ever! Foolproof means standing still, that's the biggest adventure ever! Foolproof means standing still, that's the biggest adventure ever!

Foolproof means standing still, that's the biggest adventure ever! Foolproof means standing still, that's the biggest adventure ever! Foolproof means standing still, that's the biggest adventure ever!

Foolproof means standing still, that's the biggest adventure ever! Foolproof means standing still, that's the biggest adventure ever! Foolproof means standing still, that's the biggest adventure ever!

Kill one of you, and make your family happy.

How bold is man, how fruitful is the earth.

Whoever doesn't go to college together will be Aruba, and the future university will be together.

The east wind is blowing, the war drums are beating, who are we afraid of.

If I don't do well in the exam, I won't come!!

Students, in order to dream of getting erect again, there will be a college entrance examination notice, and there will also be strawberry-flavored powder fungus.

I've seen all your experiences, and your problem lies in being too inferior and overthinking.

Because I had the same experience as you, I wasn't very confident since I was a child.

This classmate:

Hello, aren't you afraid to say hello to a psychology teacher? Now I, a psychology teacher, take the initiative to greet you, okay! To be honest, I read your question, my heart sank, I felt that your fear, helplessness, helplessness and desire to be understood by others was so strong, and I didn't think you were stupid at all, and even I thought you were very smart, otherwise, if you were stupid, how could you go to school?

Nowadays, you are afraid to meet people, study and live alone, and live under the shroud of fear and insecurity all year round, I think it is the social support system that has lost its function, it is the numbness of the teacher, the neglect of the basic safety needs of a classmate, the lack of kindness among the classmates, and the obstacle to your social interaction.

But now that things have come to this, I don't think it can go on like you say forever. Because you still have to work, you have to start a family, and you have to participate in social life. So you have to change yourself and change your life.

How to change it? I think you have to change your perception of people first, you have to understand that in general, good people are still in the majority, and people's hearts are generally good.

Second, you have to change your attitude towards yourself. From a psychological point of view, if you want to be liked by others, you must first like yourself; If you want to be recognized by others, you must first identify with yourself. Otherwise, you don't even like yourself, you don't agree with yourself, how can others like you and agree with you?

Third, if you want to get others to change their attitude towards you, you must first change their attitude towards others. For example, start with your roommates, take the initiative to help them do something, find out their respective strengths in private, and then find an opportunity to tell them that you said that they saw you and praised them, but they still don't see your strengths! After that, slowly expand your influence, gradually interact with people, start by praising others, you will slowly learn to praise life and praise people and human beings, and you will gradually come out of the shadows and live a healthy and happy life.

Don't you say?

Well, have a nice day.

Northeast man. How could it be. Hey, in a place like school, the good ones are getting better and the worse ones are getting worse. If you don't meet good teachers and classmates again, it will be really painful.

In many occasions of living people, you first look for people with similar personalities to you, even if they are very good"Fear of socializing"of people. Say hello to people like you first.

Acquaintances are not familiar from the beginning.

I was nervous because I didn't have a business card, not because of your fear. What is there to fear?

I was nervous about going to an interview when I first graduated. The interviewer I interviewed was Japanese, and they had to speak Japanese and sometimes English. Very nervous. But if you have more interviews, you won't be nervous.

You bite the bullet and think: Aren't you going to die? With this attitude, take the initiative to say hello to a stranger and hand over a business card. A few more times would be nice.

Discuss the weather or something, and find a topic that everyone can interject.

I'll give you a few beliefs.

1. I believe in myself.

2 Everyone else is a human being, and so am I, and everyone makes mistakes sometimes, so don't be afraid.

3The people I have met are not necessarily stronger than me, but they may be more afraid than I am.

4 I have the courage to face everything, and if I am afraid of something, I will not start all over again.

5I am a social master, and I can be very relaxed with everyone.

You say these words to yourself ten times in the morning and ten times in the evening (remember to shout them out loud).

Do so and good luck.

I'm sure you'll do it.

I don't have much to say, I think you really need to find a doctor to guide you well, or it will be very troublesome in the future.

Not all guys are so bad, you learn to get in touch with your personality that will make you explode in a concentrated way one day.

It is very important to improve yourself, you have an outstanding side, others will naturally not despise you, and even take pride in getting to know you. Instead of deliberately interacting with others, you will feel that there is no point in interacting too much. But it's important to be honest with people

You are already aware of your own problems, and you are aware that these have a serious impact on your future life, which is a positive factor, we are Shanghai Haoyang Psychological Counseling, these problems are easy to overcome in our opinion, but they are very troublesome for you. This needs to be addressed at a physiological level. For more details, please refer to the introverted column in our **.

The most fundamental reason: lack of self-confidence. Only if the landlord can find a way or a way to improve his self-confidence, he will definitely be able to overcome the above symptoms. Good luck getting rid of your troubles soon!

It's actually a good idea to find a psychology teacher at school.

Psychology teachers are very good at talking to people, and our school's psychological counseling room occasionally invites some random students to chat, and our classmates like to go.

It's nothing if you're seen by an acquaintance, it's just a chat.

It's time to make a reasonable plan for yourself.

Speechless, what kind of school are you, and this phenomenon will appear until death? The wound is still said in the past.

It's been a hundred years in the blink of an eye, so let it be.

You are lacking in self-confidence. Consequences of low self-esteem.

...Oh God- You know what.

You have the potential to be a great man!! Your condition, Einstein, they all appeared. Stumbling blocks are also stepping stones.

You can be a great man or a "normal" vulgar person. Look at you Luo

Be brave enough to take that step, don't do it again.

I recommend a book to you "Out of Depression".

Go to a psychiatrist, it's effective.

It's so funny, it's funny to death. It's so funny, it's time to make a movie!!

Won't you be ruthless? You should know that you can't let people bully casually.

It's best to find a psychologist to help with counseling, because you are due to the psychological shadow of your childhood, and it would be good if the teacher gave you psychological counseling as soon as possible.

It's all from that stage, if you don't have it, you can't have it, whether you like it or not, you have to pretend to like it, and you have to be able to endure it, otherwise there will always be some people who say bad things behind your back, this is the lesson I learned, I hope it will help you.

There are often such things, social activities should be necessary, people only become friends in the process of doing things together in social activities, don't they?

Who isn't? Tell the truth out of school. Run to the community. Who still knows whom?

I was a freshman in high school, and I was like this, my classmates were all divided into gangs, and sometimes I couldn't find someone to talk to.

1.Lu Xun chewed chili peppers to ward off the cold.

Mr. Lu Xun studied seriously since he was a child. When he was a teenager, he studied in the Jiangnan Sailor School, and his grades in the first semester were excellent, and the school awarded a gold medal. He immediately took it to the streets of Nanjing Drum Tower and sold it, then bought a few books and bought a bunch of red peppers.

Whenever it was cold at night, when it was unbearable to read at night, he would pick a chili pepper and chew it in his mouth, until it was so hot that his forehead was sweaty. He used this method to ward off the cold and insisted on studying. Due to his hard study, he finally became a famous writer in my country.

2.Smell a lot of drunken books.

Smell a lot of reading addiction, look at it "drunk", on the day of his wedding, the cave room is full of lights, very lively. Early in the morning, relatives and friends come to congratulate them, and when the sedan chair to welcome the relatives is almost home, people still can't find the groom anywhere. In a hurry, everyone searched everywhere, but found him in the study.

He was still wearing his old robe, and he was fascinated by a book in his hand. No wonder people say that he can't read, and he will be "drunk" when he sees it.

3.Hua Luogeng's story.

Hua Luogeng, a famous mathematician in China, has taken on the responsibility of the whole family for his father since he was a child because of his poor family background. But as soon as he had free time, he borrowed a few math books to read, and he spent five years studying all the math courses in the three years of high school and the beginning of college. When he was 18 years old, he contracted typhoid fever, and for this reason, all the things in the family were gone, and his condition did not improve.

Fortunately, with the careful care of his family, he was able to save his life, but he became a lifelong disability. Later, under the care of the middle school teacher who was originally studying, he went to this middle school as a handyman. He borrowed books whenever he had time, and his disabled left leg was often painful, but he was still bent on chopping the waves in the ocean of the kingdom of mathematics, leaving behind the pain of his body, the hardships of life, and the ......injustice of the world

4.Sun Kang's story.

Jin Sun Kang's family is poor, and he reads in the snow on a winter night; Jin Cheyin's family is poor, and he practices fireflies in summer nights, and reads by the glimmer of fireflies. See "Beginner's Notes" volume 2 quotes "Song Qi Language" and "Jin Shu Che Yin Biography".

5.The story of Confucius.

Confucius, a representative of Confucianism, became famous, and people respected him as the epitome of everything. His father died when he was three years old, and he was often discriminated against by his clan. At that time, there was neither papermaking nor printing, and the works that circulated were all copied, and if you wanted to keep the writings of others, you had to carve them word by word on the bamboo pieces with a knife, and keep the carved bamboo slips in order.

The Book of Changes was engraved by Confucius, so he often flipped through it, and because he read it too many times, the very strong cowhide rope was broken several times, and Confucius became a celebrity in such adversity.

Famous opera table bai

Acting artist Mei Lanfang once said: "I am a clumsy zhi art learner, I don't have enough genius, I rely on it."

Study hard. Actually, what he said was true. Mei Lanfang went to learn drama when she was young, and the master said that he had a pair of dead fish eyes, gray and sluggish, and he was not the material for learning drama at all, so he refused to take him in.

However, the lack of talent not only did not discourage Mei Lanfang, but instead prompted him to become more diligent. He feeds the pigeons, looks up at the sky every day, and his eyes follow the flying pigeons, and he chases after them; He raised goldfish, looking down at the bottom of the water every day, and his eyes followed the swimming goldfish, looking for shadows. After years of unremitting efforts, Mei Lanfang's eyes finally became like a pool of clear autumn water, shining and full of affection.