I accidentally know that my colleague has a crush on me, how to solve it?

As long as the other party doesn't confess, I keep pretending to be stupid and stunned, as if I don't know.

In the process of getting along with men and women, it is always easy to have a good feeling. However, being liked is not necessarily a joyful thing, and it may cause trouble to yourself. When I accidentally know that a colleague has a crush on me, I think I'll pretend I don't know.

Office romances are annoying because it can mean someone giving up their job. In real life, most companies do not allow office romances, because two people in the same company fall in love, which may affect the work status and may also have a negative impact on the company.

Although this rule may not apply to everyone at work, it is really difficult to stay in the same company when two people are in a relationship.

In today's day and age, it's really not easy to find a suitable job, and whether you're willing to give up your job for a relationship that hasn't started yet, is a question that everyone needs to think about carefully.

As long as the other party hasn't opened his mouth to confess, I will assume that I don't know about it. I haven't experienced an office romance, but I don't think it's any different from having a crush on a classmate. Both of them look up and don't look down, and they are surrounded by people who are familiar to both of them.

I know that some of my classmates once had a crush on me, but I always pretended not to know, and I never deliberately avoided it in my life, just got along with ordinary classmates and friends. When the moment of graduation comes, that is, the moment when the two people will never cross paths again.

The same is true of colleague relationships, as long as the other party doesn't open his mouth to confess, I will definitely pretend not to know. When two people get along, I will treat each other as ordinary colleagues, and I will not have anything special about him.

I think this is the best way to deal with it, because love can never be said clearly, and there is no way to solve it completely. Maybe when one of us leaves the company, everything will go back to the way it was.

The origin and end of love are difficult to describe in words. But it's really a good feeling to be liked, but some of the troubles brought by liking are too heavy for people to be unwilling to face.

I need to live my life and try to do my job well, and as for emotional issues, let it be.

If you don't like the other person, first of all, you should pretend that nothing happened, and secondly, you should not meet the other person alone.

If you like him too, it's easy to do, if you don't like him, then you can be cold to him in the future, just have less contact, and don't need to do anything deliberately, because people haven't said anything.

If you are still single and have feelings for him, you can give him a little chance, and if you don't feel it, you must learn to keep your distance and not give others the wrong information.

If you don't solve it, it's the best solution, and in the future, try to minimize contact with this person to avoid embarrassment and misunderstanding.

See if you also like each other, if you also like each other, show him a little bit of your heart, if you don't like each other, you will vaguely show your attitude.

If you also have feelings for this colleague, then you can take the initiative to approach him, if you don't have any meaning or feelings for him, then you don't know.

We can pretend we don't know, and then deliberately stay away from this colleague, and slowly he will be able to read what we mean.

If you have feelings for him, I personally feel that it is better to enhance the relationship between each other and talk about it.

If you don't have a loved one, then choose to be with the other person, because finding someone who loves you will be a very good choice.

If I don't have feelings for my colleague, I will find an appropriate opportunity to tell the other person tactfully and let them let go of their baggage.

If I also have a crush on him, I'll tell him directly, and then the two of us will develop further, but if I don't like him and don't have feelings for him, I'll ask my friend to tell him.

Pretend to be deep, ask others for your news, usually speak unscrupulously, but in front of you, they are polite, pretend to be fateful, deliberately pretend to be cool in front of you, and will chat with the opposite sex to test you.

1. Pretend to be deep.

Whenever he is with you, he will be preoccupied, or he will tell you about his deep love and past at every opportunity, and the more he talks, the more embarrassed and heavy he becomes. Some men like to dress up to attract the opposite sex, and this person may fall into this category. If you are moved by his sad past, or even teary-eyed, he will naturally take further action towards you.

2. Ask others for your news.

Motivation analysis: This "he" should not be very familiar with you, but he knows the truth of "knowing the other and winning all battles", so he will do everything possible to find out your news, just like not fighting unprepared battles. However, it may also be that he is just a timid crush who is content to hear your name.

3. I usually speak unscrupulously, but I am polite in front of you.

Women always like gentle, generous men. In this way, if he really pursues you, of course he will "reshape" his image and make you have a good impression of him.

Fourth, pretend to be fateful.

On the way to and from work, you will often find his trace, he seems to be with you; Or, he often says things like "Hey, I like this brand of clothes too" or "I like to eat at that restaurant too", so that you can feel that his preferences and lifestyle habits are similar to yours.

5. Deliberately pretending to be cool in front of you, and will chat with the opposite sex to test you.

He may not have the courage to confess his heart to you, so deliberately make these small gestures to get your attention, and if you want to test his true intentions, you may as well play with another man in front of him and see how he reacts.

Crushing on a person is deep love, whether it is in the eyes or in the heart of only each other, but he just doesn't dare to say it, afraid of being rejected, and Ming love is like, because he likes it, so he is good to him openly, he likes it together, and if he doesn't like it, he doesn't have it.

In fact, there is no real crush in this world, all crushes are open love, are you at a certain moment, you have a heartbeat for a person, but, don't dare to approach, just silently watch, just think in your heart, never take action.

Everyone may have had a crush, but many people put it in their hearts, and after a long time, they can't let it go. And the other group of people, who just thought that this person was very good, thought about it in their hearts, and passed.

The main thing about a crush is that you may be an introvert who is ashamed to behave, so you meet someone you want to know, or the right person, and in the end you just miss it, so the crush is just a crush in the end.

But maybe the other party also knew your careful thinking at the time, but no one broke it. In reality, most people can see that there is a person who has a crush on them, because everyone's feelings are very sensitive, and they can basically see it by looking at each other's performance.

Therefore, the crush, but no one explains it, and the parties are basically clear in their hearts. If the other person also likes it, it will give you a little response. If the other person doesn't like it, they will stay away from you. If you don't take a stand, you can try to take the initiative a little bit.

Crush, you like him, but he doesn't know that you like him, you can swagger and watch him chat with him, Ming Lian, you like him, he knows, but you don't dare to look at him, when you can't see him, you want him to appear in front of you immediately, but when he is in front of you, you don't dare to look up at him.

In fact, the crush itself is very emotional, the crush is uncontrollable, it is knowing or not being sure, and you have to choose to like it.

When I saw that man, my heart was like a deer. I don't know if I've ever felt this way, I can hear the sound of my heart beating, my brain can't seem to think, it's like a dream, when you see that person.

The most rational thing is that the person still turns out that a friend is a friend, or a stranger is a stranger. It doesn't show the slightest feeling to that person, it's just the right distance, and it doesn't cause trouble.

I know I like you, but I also know that it will be a good memory for me to remember, so I'll enjoy this crush anyway.

If she has a crush on you, she will often deliberately find fault with you and get angry with you, and you will often see her in the places you frequent. When something doesn't go your way, she will be the first to comfort you. If you invite her to dinner or hang out, she will say yes.

And then there is her eyes, always with a strange look of admiration, when you are alone, shy and gentle.

1.If two people are very close to each other in the same workplace, then you will find that person will always be secretly watching you. There will always be a chance encounter after work, and you will be brought breakfast during work hours.

2。I'll always talk to you. When you are working, you will be helped with small things like copying, organizing documents, and buying coffee.

If he has a crush on me, he should be ready to help me, and he will show up wherever I am.

It should be something too ambiguous, always helping you for no reason, you should pay attention to it, and it will be embarrassing if you don't handle it well.

Always look at you and talk to you, high-level people generally don't care about a waiter, but it is still very possible to attract attention, pay attention to your dress, must not be cheesy, the style is best to be ladylike and virtuous, and the makeup should also be careful not to be too thick.

Please, typing is so hard.

Take the initiative to help you share the work, help you bring breakfast, wait for you to get off work together, send you home, you are criticized by the leader for helping you carry the bag, or righteous indignation to defend you.

It doesn't matter who has a crush on whom, it's a good thing!

If you have a love affair in your heart, you will be in a much happier mood!

If you're both single, then you can turn your crush into a crush by hinting at it.

If one of you already has a spouse, then have a secret love forever, and don't tarnish the purity of this relationship.

Maybe he has a crush on you, too.

Crush on a colleague. Or make a bold confession. Or just give up.

Colleagues go to work together every day. Look up and don't see what you look down. It's not good to be in such an embarrassing state for a long time.

Sometimes it doesn't matter if it doesn't work out. Even if you fail, it's better to have a long pain than a short one. If it happens that the other party also has intentions, it will be done.

Otherwise, someone else might get ahead of you. You're worried.

Crush on gay, see if the other party is married, if people have a family background, don't disturb others, you just bury this relationship in your heart, if you have a family, you have to love the family, don't do irrational behavior, affect the happiness of both families.

If the other person is married, then choose to give up and not tell her. Don't bother each other. It's good for everyone. If the other party is unmarried, you are also unmarried, but you are blatantly chasing after it. You'll regret it if you don't chase it. Because I missed the opportunity to regret it.

If you have a crush on a colleague, if the colleague is not married, if you don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend, then you boldly confess and chase the ball.

I think if you have a crush on your colleague can confess to her face, why make yourself so miserable, of course it's good to have the courage to do it, and if you can't do it, it also gives yourself a relief.

That's it. Tell her that you like Tabei, and if people reject you, then die, it's hard to have a crush.

Crush is pain and happiness, pain is that you don't confess and have no result, happiness is having someone you like. Therefore, when you talk about love, say it out loud, only by doing it can you have results, and strive for your own happiness.

If the company's rules do not allow love between colleagues, and you need the job, I think it is better to keep this love in your heart and work hard to earn money and work.

Confess directly, in case she likes you too.

Either continue the crush or confess it, and that's it.

Above I can understand that the two of you belong to the type that does not like to express, but one of you must take the initiative, so you have to be open-minded. 1.Colleague relationship belongs to a very large number of intersections, working hours to help, take your time, further you can take the opportunity to find a reason to ask him, slowly you can feel whether you both call!

2.The body standard is different, the most important thing is the self-confidence I mentioned above, because if you want to shine, you must have self-confidence, so that your advantages will not be hidden! 3.

Acne is not the main problem, and men who are overly greedy for each other's appearance are not necessarily a good destination for women, not to mention that there are no scars that can't be removed now, not to mention acne scars, these are very common, so it's nothing. That's all for the above three points, the key point is that you and him may be slow to heat, so you have to seize the opportunity, take the initiative, not be anxious, the focus is on self-confidence, come on! Word by word insight, hopefully, thank you!

I'll come to your question、I also said that there are countless people、Hehe。

The first question: You want to further develop with the boy you like, which can be divided into the following three types:

1. Observe his mannerisms and movements to see what concerns he has.

2. I have nothing to care about him, and use words to tease him from time to time.

3. Find a hobby that you can share with him in private, such as spreading.

Second question: Do you want to know what the criteria for a boy to choose a mate for a girl are?

1. Boys don't like girls to be sloppy, sow discord, and be speechless.

2. Boys like girls with temperament, no matter how they look, and they are soft-spoken.

3. People who are beautiful are not as beautiful as their hearts, regardless of poverty and blessings.

4. There is no reason to love someone, to ask for this, to be successful.

The third question: you want to know the beanie on your face, the acne scars, whether he will mind:

Tell you directly, no, hehe, because I don't believe that a woman will attack her prey without makeup, makeup is confidence for women, illusion for men, I like self-beauty, because I see through the red dust, hehe,

Finally, I am telling you a classic: men love women and sit on the mountain, and women love men only have a piece of paper.

Signed: Junjie, 23 years old.