What to do with the things of the ex

People are gone, but things are still there, what should I do with this pile of love relics, after all, it is very common to break up, but it is not common to break up peacefully. With a sense of anger.

When ending a relationship, it's easy to mishandle those relics of love.

Some people are particularly unwilling after the breakup, packing all their boyfriend's things, and calling the other party back to pick up their things. Not only is that stuff involved between you, but it's also likely to be the most awkward interaction of your life. There are also people who maliciously damage their ex's things when they are angry.

Damaging things, first of all, is waste, and secondly, it is easier to regret it, after all, things that are smashed and burned to ashes cannot be restored, and if you really want to see things again in the future, you will not have a chance.

Then there is the thing that changes hands and gives it to someone else. The circumstances of this treatment are not serious, but the bad is bad, in case of water reversal.

This matter is known to the ex, and the ex will think that you don't pay attention to the past relationship at all, think that you broke up and broke up correctly, and maybe torture you even more. Besides, it's really unfair to give your ex-boyfriend's things as gifts to others.

No matter what kind of treatment you have, being able to treat a few items so ceremoniously just proves that you can't let go of each other at all. In fact, there is no so-called correct way to deal with what is left by the ex. Sometimes let go of some useless sense of ritual.

It's going to be easier. Those are just things with some love memories, the things themselves do not carry any feelings, let alone threaten, and those with feelings are just lovelorn people.

If there are things left by the ex that can still be used, it doesn't matter if you keep them, maybe the other party will run to get your things back in a hurry.

If the other party leaves something there, in addition to making you sad, it is just a pile of useless household garbage.

If you want to start a new life, you simply don't have room to accommodate them anymore, so you just throw them away.

In short, you need to forget about a person, not rack your brains to fight with what that person has left behind. If you don't have feelings, will it take a long time to be sad about a bunch of things? Not.

Ex is a sensitive word for many people, many people avoid talking about it, and there are many people who have a strong desire to survive and choose to avoid the important and light, after the breakup, you may still have gifts or things from each other, how will you deal with it in general? Do you keep it as a memento or throw it away?

For what my predecessor left behind, I still keep it for use if I can use it. After all, forgetting a person is no longer touching the scene affectionately, but no longer caring from the bottom of my heart. Compared to my ex, I don't know who loves me more.

However, it was he who left me on his own initiative. The moment he left, I realized that my heart was dead.

Reminiscing about the good or bad of the past still stings my little heart. We don't have any way to contact us now, and what he left behind is proof that we were once well.

Other than that, we have long had nothing to do with each other. Gradually, everything will be timed**, whether the things left behind are thrown away or left, and finally they will slowly fade out of our lives with memory.

Regardless of men and women, after the breakup, the things sent by the ex are kept or thrown away, just a choice in turn, these objects are also a memory, but for the sake of your future life, it is recommended that it is best to deal with it thoroughly and thoroughly.

Because a breakup heralds the end of a certain period, it also indicates a new beginning, but no one can predict what your next relationship will be like, people and people's thinking is different, don't affect your future life for the things of the past, and for you, the future days are definitely more important than the past days!

Pragmatists believe that some of the things sent by the ex are still there, and they can continue to be used, and there is no need to throw away all the things of the ex because of the breakup, isn't that a waste? It's not about remembering the past, it's just about thinking it's useful, and keeping it doesn't mean anything, does it? It is said that I don't care about the eternity, I only care about what I once had, and life will inevitably leave a lot of memories, and passing by is also a landscape!

As for those things that you want to keep, then leave them all, so that you don't have to worry about it in your heart, and you also have a thought.

The key is to pack up your mood. For the things you want to keep and don't want to keep, then follow your heart, and if you feel in your heart that you want to keep it, you can keep it, and if you don't want to, you should throw it away!

But in the final analysis, you need to bear all these things yourself, because since the ex is gone, let it go, so that the other party is good and you are good.

No one can live without anyone, some are constantly perfecting themselves, and in the days to come, you will be happier than now.

Now that you've broken up, you should forget about her.

Should. After breaking up, you should return your ex's things to him, and don't keep anything at all, this is a break from the past, and don't affect your future love life because of some objects.

Since the two Pei Hao people have broken up, it is impossible for Chang Zhongcong to get back together, so I am completely separated from everything she has

The way to break up should be to make some decisions, not to procrastinate, to break up, to break up, is some advice I give to everyone who has fallen out of love.

There is a saying that "long pain is better than short pain". What awaits you is a long period of pain. Every time you see the dynamics of your ex, your ex's **, and the Naizakura gift given to you by your ex, you will touch the scene, see things and think about people; The feelings that have been in the past for a long time have resurfaced in your heart.

There will be unforgettable memories for two people, whether it is a good memory or an unsatisfactory one, it will leave indelible traces in the hearts of two people.

For the ** taken when they were together before, there should be two specific treatment methods, the first is to delete it cleanly and leave no traces. The second is to leave some ** with personal growth significance, and the emphasis here is on the individual. If you take this relationship seriously, then ask yourself, can you really handle it cleanly?

I think it must not be, so I suggest that if you take this relationship seriously but treat it, you should leave something that is more meaningful for growth, for example, because of the other party, you have become better and more mature.

But you shouldn't leave that kind of intimacy, this degree, it should be measured by yourself, but don't leave the kind of ** that will make the future object disgusted, or cherish the present, cherish the person in front of you.

After two people are together with each other, there will be unforgettable memories, whether it is a good memory or an unsatisfactory one, it will be left in the hearts of two people, indelible traces, for the bleeding to stop the bleeding when they are together, there are two specific treatment methods. The first is to delete it cleanly and leave no traces, and the second is to leave some ** with personal growth significance, which emphasizes the individual. If you say that you take this relationship seriously, then ask yourself, can you really handle it cleanly?

I don't think it's necessarily so, so I suggest that if you really take it seriously, this relationship. There should be some growth significance, such as because the other party himself has become better and more mature, but it should not be left that kind of intimacy. This degree is measured by yourself.

But don't leave the kind of ** that disgusts the object of the future, or cherish the present and cherish the people in front of you.

Because breaking up already means that this relationship is unsuccessful, perhaps everyone started this relationship with the mentality of trying it at the beginning, because the pace is too fast in modern society. Many people simply don't have time to get to know each other, maybe it's not an exaggeration to say that they fall in love first and then get to know each other! But if you personally feel that there is nothing to be nostalgic for in this relationship, there is nothing to consider when dealing with it cleanly, but what you can think about is in a relationship.

Every time people start a relationship, they will hope that he is the right person, but often many difficulties in life slowly wear out the feelings of two people, and sometimes it is not so smooth sailing, and two people may encounter a lot of problems. The relationship between two people may even be consumed by life, and in the end the two people naturally break up, but those traces of the two people together prove that these two people have been together. All in all, if you want to keep it and want to start over, I recommend not to keep it.

Now that you are separated, let's start a new life and see your choice.

After the breakup, you should return all your ex's things to him in time, don't stay by your side, which will only increase your troubles and affect your future life.

It is okay to give it away, return it or throw it away, or destroy it.

You still have feelings for your ex, and they are not married. Put your stuff away. Although it is an ex-girlfriend, but the feelings can not be erased, there are some moments of breakup because of anger, but what he said, the water that was spilled out, can not be undone, in this case, it is recommended that you and the ex-girlfriend solve the matter and put it in the room.

This is a great way to give yourself a chance to salvage your relationship and show your ex that you are sincere.

<> ex hurts you, makes the other party take the things, and the timeout is to throw them all away. When a relationship ends because of a hurt, you want to let go of the past, contact him or her, and let him or her take it all away. Give her a deadline to complete the task, and if he or she keeps procrastinating, throw it all away.

There is nothing to think about. There are movies and TV series that keep each other's things because they hate their exes in order to motivate themselves to forge ahead, and I think it will be very painful for me. Throw it away!

Although you can't come out quickly in your heart, at least you have to be positive in your actions. To abandon is to give yourself the motivation to make up your mind to start over.

What to do with the legacy of your predecessor Memorable items can be kept in a box or collected in an inconspicuous place. During a relationship, there will always be something memorable that you can't choose for a while, so selectively throw them out and put them in the box. In the beginning, you may watch it a lot, but over time, when you start a new relationship, forget about your ex, it's okay to throw things away.

Forgetting requires a process, and deliberately forcing yourself will only make the psychology more uncomfortable, so it is better to go with the flow, so it is better to give yourself a process of acceptance.

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I think you can make all your ex's things into a courier and send it over, so that the two of you don't have to meet and don't look particularly awkward.

I think Sun Jiao can give his ex a **-shaped eggplant for his ex's things, saying that it is okay to let his ex pick it up, because this is his ex's thing, and he shouldn't rent it to deal with it.

For the first love** or all his things, I will choose to burn or return to the other party. If it was taken by two people, I would have chosen it, because there is no point in it, and there is no need to torture myself. Breaking up, for most people, is a chance that someone has only been in love once in their life, and that is marriage; While living in marriage, he began to grope for love; From being single in the mother and fetus to the age of talking about marriage, I met a person who was almost suitable, and I decided to live the rest of my life.

There are also some people who have many twists and turns in their relationship, start a new relationship after breaking up, and break up again not long after falling in love; The more frustrated you are, the more courageous you are, dare to love and hate. There are also some people who may only need 1 or 2 breakup experiences to consume all their courage and patience; He could no longer fall in love with anyone, and he could not devote all his love. Because of the breakup, he has lost half of his soul.

In fact, breaking up is an opportunity for young people; This kind of chance may not have results, but it will be a rare experience in your life.

We all understand a truth, when we recall the love and hate of our youth, and the bravery and romance of our youth, we will also feel that this life has been in vain. It is very normal to feel sad after a breakup, but how to face a breakup is a difficult problem. Whether you are 20 or 40 years old, you have the right to pursue love; Whether you're 20 or 40, it's going to be sad when you break up.

It's just that ending a relationship at different ages has different ways of coping. Some people spend it easily, and some people need to spend months, or even years, to digest the scars brought by their broken love. Falling out of love is not a trivial matter, compared to the feelings you yourself experience; But if compared to your long life journey, falling out of love is a small thing, the key is how you look at it.

The way to break up should be to make some decisions, not to procrastinate, to break up, to break up, is some advice I give to everyone who has fallen out of love. What awaits you is a long period of pain. Every time you see the dynamics of your ex, the ** of your ex, and the gift given to you by your ex, you will touch the scene, see things and think about people; The feelings that have been in the past for a long time have resurfaced in your heart.

So it's better to choose to dispose of it, so that you can find some torture for yourself, and you can also start a new life for yourself.