After a breakup, I really can t be friends, why can t I be friends after a breakup?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-18
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It takes courage to accept a breakup, and having the courage to accept the fact cannot be delayed!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Most people don't make friends anymore, and many people break up even if they become friends, and they will feel very embarrassed when they meet, so they don't have anything to say, and even if they do, they say hello or something!

    But I personally think it's not a question of whether you can talk about it, but whether you dare or not, many people are like this, the key is to see how you treat a girlfriend who you used to talk about everything and everything has now become a girl who has nothing to say,!

    It's actually very simple to want to be friends with a girl who wants to break up with you, many people think it's embarrassing to even meet after breaking up, let alone chatting, so they don't have the meaning of wanting to be friends with him, and breaking up doesn't necessarily mean that they can't talk, I think the average girl is not so absolute, and if you want to make friends with her, you used to treat him with the mentality that you called an ordinary friend, and it's the same to speak, but the way you talk can't be the same as when you chase him!

    It's not hard to see how you deal with it yourself, friend, I just want to say that you can be friends after a breakup, not strangers and enemies!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Personally, I don't think I should be friends after breaking up, and I feel that I can still be friends after breaking up, which can only mean that I didn't really love at the beginning!

    Because after the breakup, I will still care about you, I will worry about you, and I will be jealous because you have a new boyfriend! Now that we've broken up, I don't want you to hurt me again!

    So, break up, break up, don't contact again!

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  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's up to the two of you to deal with it!

    Some people think that in order not to touch the scene, it may be better not to meet!

    Some people think that in order not to be embarrassed by each other, it may be natural not to meet!

    But. Some people think that if they break up, they are still friends, and they will have a different life if they treat each other with another vision!

    Some people think that after breaking up, they are still confidants, and there is no need to let the other party disappear from their lives forever!

    Isn't that what life is all about? Love we can't resist.

    But friendship, we have the ability to ride!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you still want to save it, then be friends, maybe I will find you again in a few days, but you are still friends, and I think you can still be friends

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really love each other, then you should let go and don't hold grudges. Loving someone doesn't have to be having.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No. You can only be the stranger you know best! Now that we've broken up.

    Why do you want to break the thread! That will only make each other more miserable!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can still be friends after a breakup, it depends on what kind of mentality you have to deal with.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Love hurts deeply, you can only use the scar removal cream of time to slowly clean him up!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Not necessarily. It still depends on whether you break up peacefully.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't want to be friends for a short time, but I'm willing to be friends after two years

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Say so, very few can really do it!

    How awkward.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    My ex-girlfriend and I are friends now! You tell me?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The enemy is very red when they meet.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't always think about the past.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1.The reason and how to break up. If you break up because your personalities and life values are incompatible, and the way of breaking up is more rational and peaceful, this is conducive to becoming ordinary friends in the future.

    But if the reason for the breakup involves a conflict of interest or emotional betrayal, or if the breakup is done in a bad way, it is usually not conducive to being friends later.

    2.Mindset after a breakup. If both parties are comfortable with the breakup and have the mentality of understanding and understanding each other, it is more likely that they can become friends.

    However, if one or both parties are obsessed with the breakup, it can make it difficult to make the dream of becoming friends a reality.

    3.Whether you can maintain a friendly relationship after a breakup. If both parties can still chat or have a meal occasionally in a friendly way after the breakup, it shows that both parties have a basis for becoming friends.

    However, if you break up with each other and cut off all contact and communication, it may be difficult to become friends again.

    4.Whether it is necessary to be friends in real life. Sometimes the reason why I want to be friends again is because I have to meet frequently in my life, and I have the idea to avoid embarrassment.

    But if there is almost no intersection in life, purely out of nostalgia, the motivation to become an ordinary friend may not be enough.

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