Can t you really be friends after a breakup?

You can't be friends after a breakup. The reason why I chose to be a stranger is: since I broke up, I don't want to have an ambiguous relationship, that will only make me sad and uncomfortable, neither can I advance or retreat, since I have broken up, I will completely quit, a happy life, and happiness is the only pursuit now.

I can only say sorry to him, whatever the reason, we broke up and broke up, and since we can't love each other anymore, let's be strangers. You can't be friends after a breakup. If you have ever loved this person deeply, he was once an inseparable part of your life, then how to switch roles to see him as a friend casually?

This is probably difficult for most people to do. You can't be friends after a breakup. If it is said that after a breakup, they will keep in touch, it can only mean that one party has not really let go of the other party, and he is not willing to completely disappear from the other party's life, so he will find all kinds of seemingly high-sounding reasons to approach the other party.

However, ask yourself, if you have really loved each other, if he is really sorry for you, can he really be friends? No, because the reality is cruel and not as colorful as we think.

You can't be friends after a breakup because you've hurt each other. You can't be enemies after a breakup, because you have loved each other. So you can only do the most familiar stranger ......After breaking up, don't be friends again, if you can still be friends, it can only mean that you haven't loved deeply.

If it's a friend, it needs care, and if that's the case, then why choose to break up? A relationship, a journey, a journey together, too much joy and touching, too much helplessness, heartache, from true love to hurt each other, to the moment of breakup, can you still be friends? If you can, you must not have really loved, or it is the result of a person's grievances There is no floodgate in feelings, and it is not a ...... that can be closed with a pullIt is difficult for two people to love each other at the same time, and it is even harder to not love each other at the same time......There is no love or hatred in the heart, and only when the throbbing in the heart is indifferent can we become friends.

Lovers are so close, friends are so far away......If you can't be a lover, maybe he will say that he will be friends, but the car obviously drove away, even if he returns to the original point again, it will be a different time......Different characters, different landscapes. We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? It's better to keep moving forward and keep going ......Until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

If you don't love him or her, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness. Don't keep if you still love her, don't expect her to turn back ......Therefore, when you break up, you can't continue to be friends or enemies, and you can only be the most familiar stranger.

Whether or not you can be friends after a breakup depends on the relationship and affection between two people. If the breakup is peaceful and there aren't many reasons for breaking up with each other, then it's okay to be friends. If there is no quarrel after a breakup, then it is possible to become friends.

But if there is a lot of noise, then it is not advisable to be friends in this situation.

Breakup is generally two situations, one is a calm breakup, no tearing, no quarrel, no discord, that is, two people sit down and say goodbye to each other calmly, and some people can even have a casual meal together and hug before parting. In this case, two people just don't have love, and they don't hate each other, it's completely okay for this kind of person to stay with Chongji as friends, and it may even become very good friends.

But if it is a breakup, two people tear up ugly, quarrel, pull all relatives and friends to watch, or have calculations, insults, etc., this situation is absolutely impossible to be friends. The reason is very simple, because there is no longer any affection between the two, and at this time there is only resentment left in the heart. Some people may tear up particularly ugly when they break up, and they feel indignant, but after a period of time, the wound is gradually healed, and they will slowly remember the beauty of the past, and feel that the other party is not as bad as they thought, and at this time they suddenly want to contact each other to see if they can be friends.

This is absolutely unacceptable, because when you broke up at that time, you tore up ugly, in fact, it was the worst side of your relationship, if you continue to be friends, you may continue to be a friend, then, you may be scattered and you will experience the tearing war again. The breakup battle in the past has proved that you can't even be friends, so don't wade into this troubled water again.