I really don t understand what girls think, am I just a spare tire? 20

This is something that most girls do. There is no need to worry, the girl wants to find someone who truly loves her and has patience, so she will hesitate. She doesn't admit it because she cares about your feelings, she may be entangled in her heart, and she may be testing you.

You don't always ask her if she has a boyfriend, don't put too much pressure on her, care about her and be good to her! Don't expose her lies, it will only make your relationship worse. If she agrees immediately when you confess, do you think she will be a serious person about feelings?

On the contrary, she always refuses now, which shows that she is serious about her feelings, and she will not easily agree to other people's pursuits! It depends on your perseverance, for such an insecure girl, you have to care more about her, and often text her to greet her. Over time, she will know who to choose.

Is she worthy of you doing this for her, think clearly about it yourself and then do it.

Like is like, what is it like for her to sway from side to side.

If you really like her, chase her and impress her with your sincerity.

Even if the result is not together, you will have no regrets.

As a fellow girl, I'm depressed for you.

Maybe she's afraid that your male colleague in the sales department is like this, and women are like this, and they lack a sense of security.

I think you should get to know each other better.

I hope things go well.

If it doesn't work, then I can't help it.

I think this girl is an exception, just a very small one in a group of girls.

He's just not as worried about him as you are.

When it comes to spare tires in love, I'm afraid some children will not be strangers, now, many girls have one or two spare tires around, these two spare tires can be said to be very warm, but this is also an insult to boys, it is a kind of irony, when you find that you have become a spare tire, it is already too late, because you have fallen in love with her, can not let go of her, so we must let go of the end of the spare tire, and strive to turn positive, but also to find out whether girls regard themselves as spare tires, girls who regard you as spare tires often have concentrated performance, hot and cold to you.

to chat with you to pass the time, then you are the ball she plays, basically does not take the initiative to contact you, no matter how you chat with her, usually you take the initiative to chat with her, and she has not talked to you for a long time, if she takes the initiative to chat with you, it can be to maintain the current relationship, that is, continue to hang you, will not let you give up easily.

Keep it ambiguous.

It's simple, when I need you, I think of you. For example, when you need to spend money, you need to screw shopping bags, take couriers, etc., usually you take the initiative to find her, and she ignores her (always you take the initiative, she is passive).

Judge whether a girl treats herself as a spare tire, first confirm whether she still maintains a close relationship with other boys when she gets along with you, and secondly, you can observe whether she cares about you very much from the days when the two get along, and you care about your daily life.

Experience with your heart, if a girl loves you, she doesn't ask you to have more than you, as long as she loves her, it is enough. If you are treated as a spare tire, you will be asked for various conditions

When it comes to marriage, if she agrees, she can basically judge that it is sincere.

Then it depends on how much the girl cherishes you!

If there is thoughtfulness and care for you everywhere, you can feel the girl's sincerity to you, and she will not treat you as a spare tire.

You'll know when you make an appointment on an important holiday, and if you're a spare tire, you won't have a chance to meet on these days.

Hello, a girl is hot and cold to you, she shouldn't really want to develop with you, but treat you as a spare tire, that is, if some people she particularly likes can't be together, then she will choose to date you. So, if the other person is hot and cold towards you, it is advisable to give up and then look for someone who is genuine to you.

How to tell if you are a spare tire:

1.Is the other party giving you a message and ** in time? If you often can't reply to ** and messages on time, it may be that he is very busy, or it may be that he treats you as a spare tire and thinks it doesn't matter, and you should observe more.

2.You have said many times, did the other party take it to heart? If you don't hear it, then you are likely to be a spare tire, and if you care about you, you will definitely be relieved of what you said.

3.Whether or not I hang out with you often. Always using the excuse that you are too busy at work and don't have time to play with you may also be perfunctory.

4.Is it taking you to meet his or her friend. If your lover hasn't taken you to meet any of his friends once, and hasn't told anyone that you are his lover, then you probably have a spare tire.

5.Is it to create a festive romantic atmosphere. If you encounter an important holiday, but the lover does not show anything, does not give blessings or gifts, then you may also be a spare tire.

6.Is it because of the trouble that came to you. It's just that I think of you when I'm in trouble, then you may be a spare tire, just looking for you when you need help.

Do you think this is something that girls think of you as a spare tire? Do you see girls using you as a spare tire? I think this can attack some language to judge that girls are not rotten or use you as a spare tire?

I think this can be judged from some language or some things, whether the female Lu Liquid Leak is treating you as a spare tire?

Normal communication, don't lick it, see if she cares about you, and the speed of replying to messages can be judged mainly by reason.

Summary. Long-distance relationships are really not easy, and the teacher can understand your feelings. Because you waited for her and didn't see her for a day, she must be very disappointed and sad.

I asked the girl if she was using me as a spare tire, and she didn't use me.

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Is it a definite boyfriend and girlfriend relationship between you?

Confirmed. Do you want to ask your friends if they are using you as a spare tire? The question is too direct, and people are not good. Actually, you should feel it.

I don't know, but she still takes the initiative to message every day.

Are you in a long-distance relationship with your girlfriend?

Yes, I went to look for her the other day and waited for her for a day, and she didn't come.

Yes, I went to look for her the other day and waited for her for a day, and she didn't come.

Relationships with girlfriends can be channeled in a positive way. Don't you think that's too straightforward? If she replied yes, wouldn't you be sad?

If she's not. Do you think she lied to you? If she really replied to you like that, what would you do?

The answer to the question is too extreme.

Long-distance relationships are really not easy, and the teacher can understand your feelings. Because you waited for her and didn't see her for a day, she must be very disappointed and sad.

I don't know if I want to continue.

What is your normal relationship?

How long have you been together? What about the emotional foundation?

It's OK. Then there are no other big contradictions between you, do you?

No, it's a good relationship to manage. Many times there are problems in the relationship because I don't know how to manage. Feelings are to be managed with care.

Love has methods and skills.

Do you know what your girlfriend's biggest hobby is? Do you know what her needs are?

Only by mastering her needs can he make him die for you for the rest of his life.

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First of all, because women treat you as a spare tire, most girls enjoy the feeling of being pursued, but these girls are just enjoying, they will not turn you into their official boyfriend, when many boys are pursuing the same girl, then this girl will feel that there is light on her face, and she will also feel that she is very beautiful and attractive to boys, and at the same time, she also enjoys the envy of the people around her, after all, there are some girls who no one wants to take care of.

The second is because you can't meet her standards, but she doesn't want you to run away so easily. It is a very happy thing to enjoy the care and love of many people, when the girl you pursue is more excellent, then the girl will feel that she has a sense of superiority and thinks that she is worthy of a better man, not with you, so she will have an affair with you at this time, because she is afraid that in the next time, she will not find someone who meets his standards, and you are far away from her, so she can only hang you, making you mistakenly think that she is interesting to you, but in fact, she just wants to find a spare tire.

In the end, it may also be because this girl is soft-hearted, she can't bear to refuse you, so she has been getting along with you in an ambiguous way, he thinks you can understand her heart for you, but in fact, you misunderstand, there are still a lot of such girls, I have such a girl as a side, she is very beautiful, is the darling of the boys in the class, almost all the boys in the class have pursued her, but she has maintained an ambiguous relationship with every boy, once made me mistakenly think that she has been with many boys, But in fact, she has never been with a partner until now, because she thinks that these boys are only suitable for friends, not for love.

So when you pursue a girl and the girl doesn't make a clear statement, it means that she is using you as a spare tire, and you have to think about it at this time.

For a man, if a woman really doesn't treat you as a spare tire, she will definitely not know your benefits only when she needs you.

She gives all of her spare time to you, so you don't have to worry about him hooking up outside.

Because, a woman who really likes you will not have spare time.

The woman said that she was dating, but she said that she didn't have any ideas, and he was using me as a spare tire.

Is it? I don't think it's that he treats you as a spare tire, but that he still knows very little about you, and it will take a while for him to understand before he can really have a formal relationship with you.

When a man likes a woman, he may have an inferiority complex, feel unworthy of the other party, and just want to protect her silently. If two people are together, the man is also humble, he is insecure, feels that the woman is too good, and is easily coveted by other men.

So when a man is with you, but he is particularly insecure, it means that he loves you very much and is afraid of losing you, at this time the woman should build confidence and security for him, and tell him that he will always be by his side, of course, on the premise that you love him.

In addition, if you really like someone, you will be careful in a relationship, so if a woman finds that a man likes you, but this man will not always send you messages, then this man is afraid that he will always message you, and you will feel bored.

Therefore, if a woman meets such a man in a relationship, then you should cherish him, after all, this man knows how to consider your feelings and does not want to cause you trouble, in this relationship, because he likes you too much, he seems to be very humble.

In short, in a relationship, when a person is confident, always dares to move forward, dares to express, and when the other person understands your mind, he will also react accordingly. When a person has low self-esteem, he will be very hesitant and contradictory, and he will not know whether to advance or retreat, which will bring great trouble.

Therefore, people with low self-esteem, please show some courage, become confident, and pursue boldly, so that you can not leave regrets, and it is a pity if you miss it.

This girl is more sensible, what she said is very correct, you can try to date, and then you can go further if you are suitable. It's not about treating you like a spare tire, it's about respecting you.

The girl said that the relationship may be agreed to under your repeated requests, and she said that she had no idea, which shows that the girl did not have it, and she wanted to date you, so as not to have an embarrassing atmosphere, she said that she could date.

The girl said that she was dating, but she said that she didn't have any ideas, did she use me as a spare tire? I think the girl said dating, but said that he didn't have any ideas, he just didn't have much feeling for you, and he didn't use it as a spare tire, but the two people just came into contact and didn't have much feeling.

Although this girl said that she didn't have any relationship, this kind of thinking must treat you as a spare tire, so you shouldn't worry too much.

In fact, this situation is not necessarily, maybe this girl wants to know more about you, so he will say this, but it is not ruled out that she may use you as a spare tire.

The girl's performance itself is an insincere attitude, this kind of girl has too many eyes and is not easy to get along with, so it is better to get married early, and to find someone who treats love truly and reliably.