Mothers with two treasures, have you ever regretted it?

My three children, they all get along very well, and they don't feel tired. Very well, they will know later how lonely they are in the world, how good it is to have a brother and sister, because the spouse may leave them at any time, but the relatives will never change, and they will take them in at any time.

What's in this, it's all a matter of your mentality, there are good and bad things. It's up to you.

The two children are lively and lively, I think it's very good, after all, there is a generation gap between the parents of a child. And if you say something bad, he will have something to rely on when you are not there in the future. His parents can't take care of him for a lifetime, but his siblings are for a lifetime.

If possible, support! It's better for a child to have a companion than anything else, how tiring can it be to raise a child? I'm old, and I have a care.

There are not too many good children, and there are too many bad children.

In fact, I personally think it's better to have a second child. At least if there is anything that the child does not want to say to his parents, he can say it to his siblings

I'm also as entangled as you, whether I want it or not, and now I think about it, if you want it! They're not, we're fighting for, they're not.

They are afraid that their parents will not love them anymore, and they are afraid that Erbao will rob their parents of their love for themselves, and they feel that their parents will revolve around Erbao in the future, and they are not important.

Worried that after having Erbao, Dad and Mom will focus all their attention on Erbao and will no longer care about themselves and will not love themselves.

I am worried that my parents will ignore him if they have younger siblings. I'm afraid that I won't get the care and love I deserve.

I thought that Dabao's clothes could be worn directly by Erbao, and I could save a lot of money, but I didn't expect God to favor you and let you have both children happily, so you should buy it! Buy! Buy! Still keep buying! Buy! Buy!

It may be that there is another person in the family who worries him, and he wants to take time to spend more time with Dabao and Erbao, and Dabao will often eat Erbao's vinegar, feeling that he has robbed his parents of their favor.

It feels very good, even if Dabao is not by his side after marriage, he will still have a second treasure to accompany him, so that he will no longer be lonely around him, and he can reduce his thoughts about Dabao.

I feel like I've brought another big treasure. Erbao looks super like her sister when she was a child. When you see Erbao now, you will recall the time when you took Dabao. It's beautiful, and Dabao also re-realized how he grew up.

Dabao always bullied Erbao, thinking that I was partial to Erbao, maybe when I took care of Erbao, I didn't take care of Dabao, so Dabao would have this kind of mentality.

It's just that there is suddenly an extra child, crying and crying all day long, and the family is around, but it is estimated that the one who feels the most is Dabao.

With a new member in the family, Dabao will not be lonely, and with a brother, he will be more busy taking care of his two children, but it is very fulfilling.

Very, very hard, the two children will quarrel over some trivial things, and the eldest baby will not let the two treasures, sometimes there is really no way to take them.

Having two treasures at home is one more happy experience, originally there was only a big treasure at home, and Dabao was very lonely, and he was much happier after having two treasures.

It will be very happy to have two treasures at home, because the atmosphere in the house is lively. It will be more interesting for the child to grow up in the future.

Parents with two treasures are most worried about their children's education, their children's marriage, and their own pension problems. With the opening of our country's two-child policy, many families have joined the army of recreating a baby.

This sudden extra two treasures will naturally bring some worries to these parents.

Today's parents are no longer as ignorant as they used to be, and they all know the benefits that reading can bring to their childrenDesperately trying to send their children to the best school, so school district housing, cram schools and the like have become the most considered issues for parents. If you don't buy a school district house, or you don't shake the number to go to school in the school district room, then these parents must be worried about not being able to eat and sleepBecause they will feel that their child is losing at the starting line.

We all know that young people are getting married nowThe bride price is basically the biggest obstacle. A house is a must, otherwise who will fall in love with you! Therefore, parents who have Erbao must be worried about Erbao's house every day.

After all, the growth rate of his income must not be able to keep up with the growth rate of housing prices. Of course, not only the bride price, but also the marriage of children also includes many unexpected situations, so parents must also worry about these messy things.

As a parent, I finally raised Erbao, and I must be old enough to retire. And the energy and money spent on this extra two treasures have already emptied the parents' bodies and bank cardsThese questions, which can be thought of with their eyes closed, must also be the things that parents worry about the most. And there are two children, who pays more and who pays less in the elderly parentsIt will also cause family disharmony and some property disputesThis is also something that has to worry them.

Parents who have two treasures at home are most worried about the lack of education and the lack of time.

Parents with two treasures are most worried about how to take care of their children.

The biggest worry is naturally the uneven care for the two children, which leads to the children's psychological shadows.

I think the biggest concern for parents should be the relationship between the two children. Fear of favoritism.

Worried about the arrival of Erbao, he didn't take care of Dabao's mood, which caused Dabao to be hurt inside.

Of course, it ignores Dabao's feelings, and we should take into account Erbao's feelings at the same time.

Because it is easy to care for the two children unevenly, the children have a shadow in their hearts.

Life is very stressful now, after all, it takes a lot of time, energy and money to raise a child now.

Pretty good. Just like my friend, now that the two children are raised together, they have also been raised, and the pressure has also come through, and now the family is very happy.

The current family situation is actually very bad, sometimes I am very busy, and my parents are very old, so I feel very stressed, and my income is not very high.

I am a mother of two treasures, the two treasures are pregnant in October, painful for a few days and nights of hard work, the palms and backs of the hands are meat, of course, to be treated equally, try to achieve a bowl of water flat, not partial.

I have instilled in Dabao since I was pregnant that he is about to have a younger sister and brother. I also told him that you were also in your mother's belly when you were a child, you come to touch your mother's belly, guess if it's your sister or your brother? Usually if it's okay, let Dabao talk to the two treasures in the belly, and let Dabao sing to the two treasures in the stomach, and by the way, the prenatal education.

Slowly, Dabao began to look forward to the birth of Erbao, and he definitely said that it was his sister, and I asked him why he was his sister? He said, "Because I like my sister." As a result, my Erbao is really a younger sister, do they have telepathy?

Later, Erbao was born, and Dabao was occasionally jealous. Because my sister is still young, I take care of it more. One time I was breastfeeding, and Dabao came to me and asked me to tell him a story, and I said that I would come when I finished feeding my sister.

Dabao refused, lost his temper, and said that he wanted to throw his sister away, but it was because of his sister that my mother did not accompany me.

I went to comfort Dabao as soon as I finished feeding, talked to him a lot, and paid attention to his emotions, so as not to cause Dabao to have such thoughts that I favored my sister. Usually, if Dabao needs me, my sister will let my father hold and coax me without milk, and I will accompany Dabao when I have time.

The family will also try to balance the two babies and will not be too partial to one of them. If you buy something, you will also buy it with two babies, and you will have a share. Two-child families need more meticulous care from their parents, especially the sensible Dabao, who must be calmed down.

When the two treasures grow up, they must begin to treat them equally, if they blindly treat the big treasure, or the two treasures, they will definitely get the one who loves less will be particularly rebellious, only the same treatment, can the family get along in harmony.

And don't compare two children, because when you praise one of them, the other is very unhappy in his heart, and even hates you and his brother, and it is best to praise and criticize at the same time.

Only by doing this can I think that parents can live in harmony and the family be happy.

We must deal with the relationship between the two children, treat the two of them equally, and never have eccentricity, once one of them is eccentric, it is not conducive to the physical and mental health of the other child.

I believe that many parents are partial to the small one, but in fact, this is not right. Children's minds are more delicate, once they feel that they are not loved by their parents, it is natural for them to feel uncomfortable, and they are afraid that they will do something excessive.

Many parents will have a second child, which means that they want to let the two children be companions, and they can discuss with each other if there are any problems in the future, but when they are young, they can't understand the thoughts of their parents at all, and they always feel that someone is here to rob their parents, and naturally they will not be good to them, so the two children will often have conflicts when they are young.

As a parent, children see what they do, and you must remember that children are much more delicate than adults, maybe parents feel that the attitude towards two children is the same, but it is possible that children feel different. Be sure to put yourself in your child's shoes, know what they are thinking, and dispel the perceptions in their minds. Let them know that they are the closest people in the world.

Just like my family, we two sisters, although it is only ten minutes apart, but to be honest, my parents are really partial to my sister. In my subconscious, they didn't care about me since I was a child, and they should have treated me better, but the reality and thinking are often different, and they don't take me into account for anything. It's like we're at school now, and they never pay attention to me if I don't talk to them, but my sister is different, she talks to them every day.

To be honest, I really envied her when I was young, but now I want to open it, since they are so partial and have never cared about me, why should I be good to them?

So, as parents, don't be too partial. Be sure to treat both children equally.

Every child is the crystallization of your love, a kind of indescribable pride and pride.

There are two babies in the family, and the most important thing to do is to treat them equally, and there must be no difference, let alone compare the two children. Children's hearts are very simple and sensitive, and it is possible that your words will leave a shadow in their hearts.

We also have two children in our family, I am the eldest, and my parents are very fair when they treat me and the second child, they are the same in terms of shopping or other things. It's just that I'm afraid that we will be biased, and these practices of theirs have a great impact on me. They taught me the ...... of sharing, tolerance, and helping each otherIt gives me a lot of insight into being a person.

For the two treasures in the family, first of all, in terms of education, you must supervise them. For learning, teachers are responsible for imparting knowledge on the one hand, and parents are responsible for learning on the other. Children's schooling, cram school or something, you must think clearly, these are all things related to the child's future, you must be cautious.

And. You should always pay attention to the children's psychological problems, give them more love and care, and there is no difference in love!

Then, for the two children, the attitude and treatment of them are different. As for the boss, parents put more energy into them. The growth process of the boss is also the growth process of the parents, and he naturally has more experience than the second child, so the expectations for the boss will naturally be higher than the second child, and the hope will be higher.

As for the second child, because the grade is smaller, in some cases, parents or elders will love the second child more.

Be sure to always remind yourself to find ways to get along with your two children, treat them correctly, and be a qualified parent!

Every baby is an angel sent by God, and since he has decided that he wants to, he should treat them well and love them well.

First of all, it is clear that whoever is bigger has to give way to the other. In our traditional concept, the big is to let the small one, if the small one cries, the big one will be reprimanded by the parents, and if the small one is not satisfied, the big one will also be reprimanded by the parents.

I have seen such a scene, the little one wants to play with a toy, and the big one is playing with this toy at this time, then the parent said a word, the younger brother wants to play, you have to give the toy to him, you have already played with this toy, let your brother play, otherwise he will cry again after a while.

First of all, we have to make it clear that now the big one is playing with this toy, and he has no reason to give the toy because his brother wants to cry.

The second is to give the two children full care and love, and let them know that they are the closest people to each other. Just like in the lyrics, you have a sequence in life, but you live in the same greenhouse. The flesh-and-blood bond between you is predestined, and nothing changes this objective fact.

In the future, your parents will grow old, and you will be the closest relatives to each other.

Finally, there are the same standards and rules. The right and wrong of the matter is not the age, but the matter itself, no matter who violates it, should bear the corresponding punishment.