Children who do wrong things in Chinese family education are generally beaten, and how do parents ed

Why do children have to solve wrong things by beating? Find out why your child is doing something wrong and what causes him to do something wrong. Is it intentional?

Or did he not know that it was not supposed to be done. Only by figuring out the reason can we start to solve the problem of what he has done wrong. Sometimes the child does something wrong, it's not that he does it on purpose, but he doesn't know that it shouldn't be done, you don't care about beating him, it's really a little innocent, and he will still make mistakes next time.

I heard that it is not allowed to hit children in foreign countries (some countries), and it is illegal to beat children. Adults will leave disobedient children alone in a distance, where adults can see.

However, I think this method is more cruel to my daughter, who would rather let me slap me twice than be ignored by me.

As a parent, you can't use beating and scolding as a way of education. How can a child not do something wrong? Help your child find the reason for her mistake and guide her to understand how to do it better and more perfectly.

Foreign parents pay more attention to the cultivation of their children's abilities, and exercise their children's hands-on ability at a very young age.

When foreign parents make mistakes, they will not yell at their children to punish them, nor will they beat and scold their children, on the contrary, foreign parents will let their children know that they have done wrong. That is to say, after foreign children make mistakes, they will not be punished by their parents immediately, on the contrary, foreign parents will let their children know psychologically that they are wrong, and then guide their children to make changes little by little. When a child does something wrong, he or she may be encouraged by his or her parents to try again and do it the right way.

This kind of education has great advantages, because this kind of education method does not let the child suffer the corresponding setbacks from the parents in the first place, so that the child's attitude towards the parents does not change, and the child will always feel that the parents are supporting him. In addition, parents guide children to take the initiative to find their own mistakes, which means that children can realize that they are doing wrong in the process, and then after making changes and making changes, children will be more impressed by this matter.

Once your baby has solved these problems on their own, they are likely not to do it again in the future, because they know that what they did in the first place was wrong. And after trying it, they know what the right thing to do should be, so when they face the same thing in the future, they will only choose to deal with it in the right way, rather than making mistakes again.

This kind of education is much better than yelling, which only hurts the child's self-esteem and makes the child feel frustrated, but it does not seem to have much effect on this aspect of education, and the child may make mistakes again after such punishment. Therefore, it is better to choose to let the children realize their mistakes and then correct them themselves, so that the punishment for the children is not particularly large, but the children can actively correct them.

Most parents will not punish their children, but will tell them that this is wrong, and let them realize that they are wrong.

Most parents are very open-minded and usually communicate more with their children, and they will also let their children think about the wall, which is the most common method.

Generally, they will take good care of their children, and at the same time, they will explain some situations and let them change some things.

Preface: It can be found that there is a clear difference between foreign parents and Chinese parents when educating their children, most of the Chinese parents are very spoiled for the growth of their children, and even indulgent behavior, but there are also some Chinese parents who are very strict with their children, no matter what will do well for their children, this way to educate children is very unfavorable to the growth of children.

If a neighbor or someone else sees you beating or scolding a child, they will call the police, and the police will come immediately, so you may lose the custody of your child, and many people will be imprisoned for child abuse. When foreigners face their children making mistakes, they are very worthy of learning from Chinese parents in terms of education. Most foreign mothers will choose to take a cold approach when facing their children's mistakes, because children will deliberately make mistakes in many cases to attract the attention of their parents, and they also want to achieve their own goals in this way.

When some children cry and want something in public, foreign mothers often choose to turn a blind eye, and if the child's behavior affects others, they will choose to take the child away immediately and put it in a wide and quiet place until he has enough trouble. This kind of cold treatment will also teach the child to take responsibility, let the child experience the consequences of making mistakes, and let the child know that this way will not get the desired results.

Most Chinese mothers will choose to coax their children in the way they want when they are faced with their children's crying, which is very detrimental to their children's growth. When the child makes a mistake, we must use a serious expression to stop the child's wrong behavior, and point out the child's mistake in time for the child to correct, when the child sees the mother's serious expression, he will be aware of his behavior, and can quickly correct it.

Foreign parents will not directly punish their children when they make mistakes, but let them change psychologically, and will let them do it again, find out the reason, and then solve it to ensure that they will not do it again next time.

In most cases, cold treatment will be used, and communication with the child may be used, but in general, there will be no excessive interference.

They will let the child reflect on some problems on his own and forbid the child to do some things he likes, so that the child will realize his mistakes.

They will let the child think about it, they will also let the child solve the difficulties on their own, they will also let the child take the initiative to admit mistakes, they will also calm down with the child to discuss, and they will also let the child reason.

(⊙o⊙)…It's simple. Countries around the world educate children in the same way, criticizing small mistakes, beating and scolding big mistakes. Sometimes it's not okay for children not to hit, but there is a limit to the punishment, don't break the child.

1. To educate children who make mistakes, foreign parents mainly punish their children for their free time.

2. Take the United States as an example, when punishing children, it is mainly based on punishing children's free time. Once a child makes a mistake, parents usually ask the child to calm down for a few minutes, let the child think about the mistake he has made, and then the parent will take the initiative to ask the child about his personal feelings. In fact, when the child calms down for a few minutes, the emotions can often calm down, and at this time, they will basically admit their mistakes, so there is no need to punish them too much.

3. Suggestion: In fact, when a child makes a mistake, it is difficult to fundamentally change the problem through scolding, and even worsen the problem. And if parents often beat their children, they will also beat their children, relatively speaking, you might as well let your children think seriously about their own personal behavior, and parents help them to make their mistakes fundamentally realize, which is a good way to solve the problem.

Parental discipline of children has always been a sensitive topic, especially when it comes to foreign children. The answer is that it is the responsibility of parents to discipline their children, regardless of the country from which they are from. It is the responsibility of parents to help their children develop the right patterns and values, and to take responsibility for disciplining their children when they make mistakes.

There may be some cultural differences that lead to their manners and behaviors being perceived as inappropriate or impolite in Chinese society. However, this does not mean that a foreign child should not have a duty or obligation to correct mistakes. If parents notice that their children have made mistakes, they should educate their children internally, tell them what behaviors are unwelcome, and educate them about the cultural and social norms of the country or region in which they are located.

In addition, parents are held accountable for serious behaviors that may involve physical or moral damage, harm to others, or violations of social norms. This may include harsh discipline of the child and may even lead to the initiation of legal proceedings. Therefore, parents should be prepared enough to take responsibility for their children's possible actions and consequences.

Finally, it is important to emphasize that disciplining children is not about punishing them, but about helping them develop the right values and patterns of behavior as they grow up. It is only through the right education and guidance from parents that our children can become truly valuable members of society. <>

If a child has a bad mood, it must be that he is uncomfortable in his heart, and it is a true expression of his heart. Parents can change their perspective, starting from the identity of the child, to find the child's bad mood, and accept the child's bad temper, so that the child can also get effective stress relief. Many people are troubled by emotional problems that are difficult to control when facing children.

Because it's easy to use out-of-control, negative emotions to solve problems, your mind has too many ideas based on life experiences that motivate you to make value judgments about your child's behavior, whether good or bad. These judgments prompt you to have an emotional response, whether like it or not. Cases like this are very common in real life, and when we look back at this issue now, we will clearly realize that all of this is related to a person's thinking and cognition.

Treating the symptoms but not the root cause", and if it is not good, it is called "endless troubles".

To change one's emotions, fundamentally speaking, the only way to change one's emotions is to examine whether one's preconceived notions are in line with and conform to the laws of children's growth. Children and adults, like adults, will have a variety of emotions, what parents need to do is to let children correctly recognize various emotions, and learn to express the feelings brought by different emotions, and express the most real needs to parents.

When the child's emotions accumulate to a certain extent, it will form a heavy burden, multiply the child's pressure, and also form a sense of fear, and eventually the child's emotions will still explode, and the child should be actively guided to release his emotions.

It is he who is angry and criticizes and accuses the child, and then the child cries and resists, and later becomes more rebellious and disobedient to discipline; Or the child silently admits his mistake and apologizes, and later emotionally alienates his parents, closes himself, and becomes a child with a low sense of existence and is unwilling to communicate with his parents. Human beings are emotional animals, and it is normal to have emotions to produce and vent. When parents realize that their bad emotions are, but they can't control them, it also shows that parents lack the ability to control their emotions.

When children have emotions, parents are even more unable to understand and support their children's emotions.

Parents in foreign countries will punish their children in the same way when they make mistakes, and they will also let their children know how wrong it is to do so. Or in some public places are particularly noisy, foreign parents will let their children make trouble by themselves, but if it affects others, foreign parents will take their children to other places and let the children make trouble by themselves.

If the child makes a mistake, the parents generally say that the child should be given the punishment that should be decided. In this way, there will be a lot less time for the child to make mistakes in the future.

It is usually just to hit the child and let the child know that he is wrong. After all, some children will not be obedient, only if you are ruthless.

Foreign parents generally punish their children when they make mistakes, regardless of the children, and foreign parents let their children play as they want. The second is that after he really made a mistake, he did not punish him according to the rules, but only asked him why he made a mistake, and the gap between him and the parents of Chinese children is too big.

At least not by beating, but by reasoning or through facts, for example, if you don't eat at noon, if it's a Chinese parent who thinks about not eating it, you won't eat it, I feed a few mouthfuls and don't eat it, I will prepare other delicious food for him in the afternoon, but if it's a foreign parent, you don't eat it, right? Then all your snacks will be canceled this afternoon, even if you cry and ask me for snacks, I will not give them until you take the initiative to eat before dinner.

Instead of scolding or scolding the child, they will ask the child to stand there or sit on a small stool and think about the reason for himself.

Warn him first, establish his majesty, let him understand the consequences of doing so, let him make up for his mistakes, and stop scolding him repeatedly.

Americans can't hit their children when they educate them, they will make them self-reflect, and then let them correct their mistakes themselves. And the child will change his ways. They will leave the child alone and will also give the child a certain amount of time to do what he needs to do.

If some children make mistakes in doing things, then parents will let them feel the consequences and costs of doing things wrong.

And when giving your child a specific rule, ask him to change his ways. At the same time, you can also see that if you want not to make mistakes, then you should give your child more opportunities. American children use their time to the fullest, they love to play, and they learn well while playing.

Some children will also be confrontational with adults, but they will also be observant. While setting rules for themselves, they won't treat their parents the same way the next time they encounter something.

And for children, many of their rules start from childhood, and many mothers in the United States basically have several children in a family while supporting family education. It seems that American mothers are more relaxed than Chinese mothers when taking care of their children, and they can do housework with peace of mind by putting their children in the toy room, but in fact, they will also be meticulous to the daily life of their children. What's more, American mothers will let their children have a good execution ability from an early age, and they will let their children have their own ideas while being tough.

And American parents are very scientific when it comes to raising children, in short, American mothers are more ruthless than Chinese mothers, and they can see the difference between themselves and their children. They also don't see themselves as their children's only support, because they feel that they have to rely on themselves for their lives. Everyone grows up independently at a very young age, so their minds will slowly become sound.