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You're very sensible! You can be a peacemaker! I don't think there's a fundamental conflict of interest between your grandma and your mom!
You should advise your mother to respect, understand, care, and tolerate your grandmother, and talk more about your grandmother's advantages in front of your mother. Go to grandma and talk more about your mother's advantages. Your grandmother didn't give birth to your mother, plus the age gap, living habits, etc., there must be different opinions.
The key is how to deal with the problems that arise and advise your mother to treat your mother-in-law like her own mother. This problem is solved. Take a step back and open the sky!
Wishing you a happy family!
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Tell my mother that grandma is old, don't worry about him, the family is prosperous, I said, your family is not in harmony, and Chinese and foreign people are watching the excitement.
Tell grandma what my mother is not doing well, since it is a family, it is easy to talk about and discuss, there is no need to accuse my mother of being wrong, so my mother is not good at being a person.
Tell them that you're stuck in the middle and they'll understand you!
Take a step back and open the sky, everyone is together, they are considerate of each other, and everyone's life will be happier.
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Go to your mother first and talk to your mother about it, grandma is old, and her mother should be more considerate of her; Then go to grandma and tell grandma about their difficulties, the old people will feel sorry for their grandchildren (granddaughters), but the way they speak must be tactful...
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Summary. Dear, I'm glad to answer your questions When children and grandma have conflicts, you need: 1. Understand what happened.
2. Analyze what the child and grandmother are not doing well. 3. Apologize to grandma for what the child has done wrong, and correctly guide the child to do the right thing, and tell the child what the grandma has done wrong. Also, put yourself in your child's shoes and talk to him so that he fully realizes his mistake and apologizes to grandma.
Both sides went to do ideological work, and grandma persuaded her not to move her liver, children are naughty, and more tolerant of children. After calming the child's emotions, reason with him that grandma is an elder, and children should listen to the lessons of their elders and respect the old and love the young.
Dear, I'm glad to answer your questions When children and grandma have conflicts, you need: 1. Understand what happened. 2. Analyze the children and grandmothers who are not doing well.
3. Apologize to grandma for what the child has done wrong, and correctly guide the child to do the right thing, and tell the child what the grandma has done wrong. In addition, you should put yourself in your child's shoes and talk to him so that he fully understands his mistakes and apologizes to his grandmother. Both sides went to do ideological work, grandma persuaded her not to move her liver, and the child was cautious and naughty, and tolerated the child more.
After calming the child's emotions, reason with him that grandma is an elder, and children should listen to the lessons of their elders and respect the old and love the young.
Pro, for you to disturb the expansion as follows: let the children and the elderly at home get closer to the way as follows: let the elderly at home play with the children more, buy them toys and delicious food, and the elderly should also be kind, not too much to the children, so that the children will not like to play with the elderly.
The reason why children in the first year of hail are not close to the elderly is a little more complicated. But it is normal for smaller babies to be inclose. Because the mode of communication is not the right way, his grandmother restricts him a lot, and he is the person who does not say much to him at home, and after a long time, he is reluctant to get close to her Yuan Li Xiang.
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It's okay, it's okay, there are a lot of things on TV that don't match, but as long as you have a sincere heart, they will get better, they just need time to test. ~~
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Disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a common phenomenon, but there is one thing you don't need to doubt, they all love you, but you can't feel it, you try to avoid taking a position, being a middleman, acting as a persuasion group at home.
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In fact, I have also faced this situation, I remember when I was a child, my mother often told me how harsh my grandmother was to her when I was pregnant and confined, so I subconsciously thought that my grandmother was a particularly bad person, but I later found out that in fact, the two of them are very good, but the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a problem since ancient times, even if these two people are good, there are incompatible personalities, as a child, in fact, you can't do anything, but you can advise these two people from the side, For example, I bought some fruit for my mother and said that my grandmother asked her to bring it to my mother.
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