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Examples of praise that make people successful:
When it comes to Stallone.
Everyone knows that he is a world-class movie superstar, but his life experience is more poignant and inspiring. Stallone grew up in a drunk, gambling, and violent family, his father would make angry with him and his mother when he lost the gamble, and his mother would use him to vent when he was drunk, and he often had a blue nose and swollen face.
After graduating from high school, Stallone dropped out of school and became a street gangster until he was 20 years old, when an accidental incident pierced his heart. I can't go on like this anymore, or I'll be like my parents, and I will become the garbage of society, and I must succeed!
Stallone began to think about planning his life: in politics, the possibility is almost zero; When I entered a large company, I didn't have a diploma.
and experience; In business, without any funds, there is no job suitable for him, so he thought of being an actor, no capital, no fame, although being an actor also requires conditions and talent, but he just recognized the path of being an actor!
So, Stallone came to Hollywood, looking for stars, directors, and producers, looking for everything that could make him an actor, and begging everywhere: Give me a chance. I was sure I would have succeeded, but all he got was rejection.
There's nothing you can't do! I must succeed! Stallone is still obsessed, two years have passed, he has suffered more than 1,000 rejections, and his money has been spent, so he works in a good vegetable dock, doing some heavy odd jobs to support himself.
Am I really not the material to be an actor? Could it be that the children of a drunkard and gambling family can only be drunkards and gamblers? No, I must succeed! Stallone secretly wept and wept bitterly.
Since I can't be an actor directly, can I change my approach? Stallone began to replan his life path and began to write scripts, more than two years of exposure to it, more than two years of job search failure, and the current Stallone is no longer the same person he used to be.
A year later, the script was written, and Stallone took the script and visited the director everywhere, let me be the leading actor, I will definitely do it.
The script is good, being the leading actor is a big joke, and he has been rejected again and again. Maybe next time, I'll be able to make it. disappointed again and again, one by one hope supported him, I don't know if you can perform well, but your spirit touches me again and again.
I can give you a chance, but I'm going to change your script into a TV series, and at the same time, shoot only one episode first, and let you be the lead actor, and see how it works. If it doesn't work out, you cut it off, and one day after he has been rejected more than 1,300 times, a director who has rejected him more than 20 times finally gives him a glimmer of hope.
After more than 3 years of preparation, Stallone can finally show his skills, so he does not dare to slack off at all and devote himself wholeheartedly. The first episode of the TV series set the highest ratings record in the United States at the time, and in the end, Stallone succeeded!
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Examples of Praise for Success: Chapter 1:
Legend has it that Li Bai studied in the mountains of Xiang'er, and before he finished his studies, he gave up, "Crossing the stream, grinding the iron pestle every time the old lady grinds the iron pestle, and asks, Bai: 'I want to be a needle.'" 'Taibai felt his meaning and quit his job.'
Li Bai, a great poet of the Tang Dynasty, did not like to read when he was a child. One day, when the teacher was not in the house, he quietly slipped out of the house to play.
When he came to the river at the bottom of the mountain, he saw an old woman sharpening an iron pestle on a stone. Li Bai was very puzzled, and stepped forward to ask, "Old woman, what are you doing sharpening the iron pestle?" ”
The old woman said, "I'm sharpening my needle." Li Bai asked in surprise: "Oops! How can an iron pestle be sharpened into a needle when it is so thick? "The old woman smiled and said, "As long as you sharpen the iron pestle every day, you can always grind it finer and finer, are you afraid that you can't grind the needle?" ”
After hearing this, the smart Li Bai thought of himself, felt ashamed, turned around and ran back to the bookstore. Since then, he has kept in mind the truth that "as long as the kung fu is deep, the iron pestle is sharpened into a needle", and he studied hard.
Examples of Praise for Success: Part 2:
When Carnegie was 9 years old, his father married his stepmother into the family. At that time, they were still living in a poor family in the countryside, and the stepmother came from a wealthy family.
The father introduced Carnegie to his stepmother: "Honey, I hope you will pay attention to this worst boy in the county, he has left me helpless. Maybe by tomorrow morning, he'll throw a stone at you, or do something bad you wouldn't even think about. ”
The stepmother smiled and walked up to Carnegie, held his head and looked at him seriously, and said, "You're wrong, he's not the worst boy in the county, he's the smartest and most creative boy in the county." "No one had ever praised Carnegie before.
It was with these words that Carnegie and his stepmother struck up a friendship;
It was this sentence that inspired Carnegie's life and enabled him to help millions of ordinary people on the road to success and prosperity in the future. Created the 28 best rules of success.
This power from his stepmother sparked Carnegie's imagination, stimulated his creativity, helped him connect with infinite wisdom, and made him an American billionaire and famous writer, one of the most influential figures of the 20th century.
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1.Praise gives confidence.
Many years ago, a London kid worked as a clerk in a cloth shop, and he had to get up at 5 o'clock in the morning, clean the whole store, and work for more than ten hours a day. Two years later, the boy couldn't bear it anymore, and when he got up one morning, he didn't even eat breakfast, and ran 13 miles to talk to his mother, who was a housekeeper in someone else's house. He wept and begged his mother to stop doing that job, and vowed that if he stayed in the shop any longer, he would kill himself.
Later, he wrote a tragic letter to the old headmaster, explaining that his heart was broken and he did not want to have another life. When his old headmaster read the letter, he gave him a little compliment, and told him sincerely that he was really clever and should be fit for a better job, and offered him a place as a teacher. Since then, that praise has changed that child's future, and in the history of English literature, 76 books have been written, leaving a permanent image.
The name he praises is Wells. While praising the slightest progress, praise every progress, and "praise is more generous than praise".
2.Praise makes girls successful.
There was a girl who started singing on stage at the age of 5. She has a beautiful singing voice, and her genius is evident from the beginning. When she grew up, her family hired a well-known vocal teacher to train her, and whenever the girl thought of giving up or the rhythm was slightly wrong, the teacher would be very careful to correct her.
After some time, she married him. After marriage, he was still her teacher, but her friends noticed that her beautiful and natural singing voice had changed, and her vocal cords were taut and stiff, and they were no longer as beautiful as before. Gradually, there were fewer and fewer opportunities to invite her to sing.
In the end, almost no one invited her anymore. And at this time, her husband – who was also her teacher – died.
In the years that followed, she rarely sang, and her talent seemed to dry up until a salesman pursued her. Whenever she hummed a minor key, or the melody of a piece, he would marvel at the beauty of the song. "Sing one more, my dear, you have the most beautiful voice in the world.
He always said that. In fact, he didn't know if she sang well or not, but he did like her singing so much that he kept praising her. Her self-confidence began to return, and she began to travel all over the world to sing again.
Later, she married the "Good Discoverer" and resumed her successful singing career.
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A girl who likes to play the violin, although not recognized by her family, is praised daily by an old woman who lied about being a deaf instrumental music professor, and makes amazing progress as a result. It's like a beautiful fairy tale, yes, praise has the power to magically turn ordinary life into a fairy tale.
Praise makes us rediscover ourselves and keeps us motivated. It is inevitable that we will be questioned and troubled on the road of growth, and at this time, a word of praise is like a star in the night sky, driving away the darkness in front of us, making us believe that we are the best, and believe that we will shine if we chase it desperately. Remember the experience of the famous physicist Albert Einstein?
When he was young, he was reticent and made people around him think that he was mentally disabled, but his parents often praised and encouraged him, giving him great self-confidence, and gradually transformed into one of the greatest physicists in the world. If there is no praise and support from parents, a generation of famous families will eventually "stand out from the crowd". The ** creator with the screen name Taiyi didn't get much attention in the early days, and when he planned to end his ideal with a **, some netizens sent him a private message, "You are an excellent singer, and your lyrics are well written!"
Since then, Taiyi has been determined to work hard and become a famous ** person. It was precisely because of that praise that he did not give up his original dream; It was precisely because of that praise that he understood that not giving up was the best choice. When chasing dreams, we sometimes can't see the direction clearly because of the haze in front of us, and praise is like a breeze blowing away the fog for us, sending a warm sun and a clear sky for us to compose.
Understand the meaning of effort.
However, not all people are blessed with praise. Taiwanese writer Sanmao was in junior high school because of his poor math scores, and his teacher used a brush to draw dark circles on his face for everyone to watch. The merciless ridicule and punishment made Sanmao suffer from autism, and developed her lifelong pessimistic, sensitive, and lonely character.
Although she traveled to 48 countries and wrote 26 works in her life, she could not get out of the shadow of her soul until she committed suicide. Imagine, if this teacher seized the opportunity, saw Sanmao's efforts and gave her enthusiastic praise and encouragement, things would not be what we regret now!
Bi Shumin, a contemporary Chinese female writer, once said, "When praising people, you should not be as quiet as autumn water, but you should have seven emotions on your face." Don't think that joy is an unsophisticated move, but that the progress of others deserves our joy and let the other person perceive our praise and joy without any doubt. "Giving a little help when others are lonely, a word of praise can sometimes make people feel the warmth and happiness of spring, this should be the ideal state we are pursuing.
There is a kind of power, it is soft, it is also strong, it can make people confident, indomitable; It can also make people overcome confusion and set off again. Let's learn from the old woman in the woods, and praise everyone who loves life and pursues to achieve others and themselves. When we can all encourage and praise each other, and can be a source of each other's efforts and happiness, the world will surely become a better place.
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Sentences that praise progress.
1. Life is in him, and this life is the light of man. The light shines in the darkness, but the darkness does not receive the light.
2. A life with hardships and joys is fulfilling, a life with success and failure is reasonable, a life with gains and losses is fair, and a life with life and death is natural.
3. Man should respect himself and consider himself worthy of the noblest.
4. How many beats can a student have? When will you wait if you don't fight now? Cherish the opportunity and let the golden Hu Sleepy orange years collide with more brilliant sparks!
5. How far can a person go? This is not a question of two feet, but of ambition. How high can a person climb? Don't ask about your hands, but about your aspirations.
6. Tribulation is actually an incentive and an opportunity. If you want your life to be a cheerful and comfortable music, you should cherish all kinds of tribulations on the road of life, make full use of them to temper your body and mind, and take tribulations as a compulsory course for success in life. By bravely enduring the trials of tribulation, you can make your life more fulfilling and stronger!
7. Winning the reputation of a good archer is not because of his bow and arrows, but because of his goals.
8. The biological meaning of life lies in health, the meaning of life lies in happiness, and the social meaning of life lies in dedication.
9. Don't deal with anything casually, because you don't know when the opportunity will come. Before that, you have to be prepared.
10. Theory is to complicate simple things, and concept is to simplify complex things.
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1. Provide sincere and sincere praise.
The recipient can tell if you are saying something that you didn't mean by saying it. Make sure that all of your compliments are rooted in real, authentic feelings, rather than a sense of obligation. Unreal compliments can feel embarrassing and forced, and can be uncomfortable for the other person.
Instead, take a look at these compliments for some inspiration:
I really appreciate that you always go the extra mile at work. ”
Excellent job on that presentation! I'm impressed with the amount of detail you put into each slide. ”
2. Name the person.
Adding someone's name to a compliment adds a truly personal touch. When you praise someone directly, you're actually reminding them that they're special, valuable people. Although it may seem simple, one word can really take your compliments to the next level.
You can say: Nina, you did an excellent job organizing and presenting your findings at the meeting today. ”
Simon, I'm really impressed with the way you handled that difficult client. ”
Jesse, the press release you put out today is very well done. ”
3. Maintain a positive tone.
A sarcastic tone can turn an uplifting comment into a slap in the wrist. Don't just think about what you'll say, think about how you'll say that. Instead of sarcasm, emphasize your positive feelings.
4. Use "I" language.
Compliments that begin with "I" help to make them more genuine. Imagine you're at work and have just finished a tough presentation. A colleague said:
Well done presentation! And another said, "I really appreciate all the hard work and effort you put into your presentation."
I was really impressed! The second compliment seems more personal and sincere, right? Try to add some "I" language to your own compliments and see what happens.
Here are a few examples:
I really appreciate you staying after work to help me with that project. ”
I love that you give people time to ask questions during meetings. ”
Vague compliments don't make much sense. It's nice to say things like "well done today," but it doesn't really go far. Instead, explain why you are so happy with the work of your colleagues or employees.
Extra details make a big difference in the long run! You can say:
That email newsletter is well done! The layout is so colorful and engaging. ”
I really appreciate you managing study groups for these students. I'm willing to bet they've really improved their grades since they started meeting with you to get rid of the scum. ”
It was so cool that you reported for Avery the other day. You are always so kind and selfless. ”
6. Make a list of positive personality traits that describe the person.
Complimenting someone's character is a real compliment. Before sharing your compliments, brainstorm what you like most about your colleagues or employees. Are they always humble in staff meetings, or do they always pull out.
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