Can I be happy with her, and will I be happy with him?

You can't attribute a person's past to him forever, whether it's good or bad, it's all in the past after all. Doesn't it mean that people, who can be without fault, and knowing mistakes can improve a lot. I think it's not easy for your girlfriend to tell you.

If you truly love each other, then give her a chance, and give yourself a chance. Your inclusion may make you grateful for a lifetime. It may also make your relationship stronger.

If you really love her, don't care too much, the past doesn't mean anything, can you give up your life's happiness for such a thing, and then regret it? Obviously unwise. People say that the most hurtful and painful thing is regret, forgiving others, and also giving yourself a chance, let alone a person you love.

If you love him, you don't mind, if you mind, it means that you don't love her, which also measures whether you really love her, ask yourself and make a decision! Don't procrastinate.

Looks like you mind. If you mind, break up as soon as possible.

What age is it, how can there still be this kind of concept. If you love her, you won't care.

It's all been taken by others, and you eat what is left of them, alas.

Looking to the future, happiness is boundless.

True love is priceless. It's up to you.

If you don't look at yourself if you're not together, you can be together if you are persistent. Now what kind of society, think about it. So no matter whose parents want their children to have a good marriage, but what?

In the eyes of a large number of parents, it is not a good marriage if you have a marriage history, so opposition is certain, what do you do when your parents have no sense of identity with you at all? What's the right thing to do? How to do it together, it's not something that someone else can help you solve.

It's up to you to pay for it yourself. Of course, what kind of setbacks will be suffered in the process of giving, this is inevitable, and a marriage without setbacks I think is also a kind of marriage with a latent crisis, which will not be happy there.

The other party's parents prevent such a marriage, what does it mean, one point - I hope that the children are good, and the life is not ordinarily good, then you just need to be good to him, so good that no one can say anything, you see if his parents will disagree. Of course, the pressure on you to do so is inevitable, so the key step is to exercise your heart, as long as your heart can hold things, can withstand all external pressures enough, I believe your marriage will be perfect in the future.

Moreover, for such a thing, my personal opinion is this, you don't have to care too much about this kind of thing, the only thing you need to do is to be honest with everyone around you, and leave the rest to the man! After all, it's his parents, and they are more open to reason in all aspects, in addition, if you can't even do something as a man, then your status in his heart is not very important, and being together is no better, so it's actually a small test of your love. And finally!

I would like to say - the most sensible life is to live a life with a relaxed mind, and don't let life control you.

It's up to you to make your own efforts, and as long as you love each other, then nothing is a problem

He is not brave like this, he doesn't even dare to tell his family, how can he be happy, maybe he also cares about your past in his heart, but he may also like you, so he will be so entangled, he is also in a dilemma, find an opportunity to tell him that you want to see his family, look at his attitude, if you want to be together forever, then you must see your family.

There is no right or wrong in love, he is responsible for himself and others, he doesn't dare to tell his family, that is, he doesn't dare to face your feelings, which means that he doesn't love you enough, give him time and give himself time.

Sweat. I don't think he even dares to tell his mother, so what are you going to do in the future? I think it should be said, don't hide it, aunt she will accept it slowly, if she finds out, she will think it is cheating, then when is the opportunity to find out?

Is it looking for a chance, is his mother will...

I'll tell you from the perspective of a father of a three-year-old daughter.

First of all, if I were that man and really loved you, I would never make any selfish decisions until I did better. Even if you don't consider the situation of the two of you in the future, what about the child, the child is innocent, does the child have to bear the consequences of your suffering? I can tell from your description that this kid is unreliable, don't ask me why, I just know.

Secondly, I am from the past, but I am not old. I can tell you. Life is by no means as simple as firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

Aside from material life, feelings need to be managed and maintained for a long time, not simply talking about being together. It can be seen from the fact that he can't handle the conflict between his mother and you very well, and he is not very emotionally intelligent. A stunned green, beckoning bees and butterflies, you are cowardly and affectionate, and you know the result with your toes.

Finally, as a father, I sincerely advise the girl that feelings are a lifelong thing, be cautious! If my daughter is as old as you and meets such a boy, I have to find him to practice well. I don't care about his family background, but my nature can't be changed, in my bones.

Everything depends on talking, isn't that just a lie, it's better to do what you say. From the perspective of being a father, I still say the same thing, I bet 5 cents, this kid, he is a scumbag, I don't believe it, let's see.

Sigh. So what. To get married, a marriage certificate is enough, does it cost so much money?

Why won't you be happy, as long as you understand each other, the eyes of others can be put aside, you said, my mother has cancer, and it is wise to take the money to **. If the other party's mother has to get married with money instead of treating her parents after changing cancer, then it can be said that this kind of person is rubbish. Even if you don't care about your own mother, isn't that a white-eyed wolf?

Therefore, I can be sure that the other party's character is not bad, I wish you happiness and cherish!

In my opinion, you are still thinking about it, the price required for such happiness is too great.

Hehe, in fact, you already know it when you question it, and there is no need to waste time.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

I wanted to be happy, but I didn't.

When I am alone, I often ask myself a very stupid question: Me, am I happy? Happiness is ethereal, ethereal, yet ubiquitous.

And because happiness has always been around us, we ignore it, thinking that we have never been happy, so when we ask ourselves, we will feel so at a loss, so unconfident.

I like to listen to songs quietly alone, sometimes humming a sentence or two, and my heart is soft and full of emotion.

I like to care about others, and sometimes I can't help but shush the people around me, and watch the people who are cared for happy, I once saw a report on TV: A Tangshan man smashed his legs into a disability when he was big. And his greatest wish is to travel all over China's famous mountains and rivers.

Now he has traveled most of China with only a three-wheeled motorcycle, climbing Huangshan Mountain and Yunnan on crutches. With his perseverance, he overcame one difficulty after another, did things unimaginable to ordinary people, and achieved his life goals.

He was proud and content.

So he thinks he's happy.

I live, I live in this world; I have a sound body and can feel the warmth of the sun.

The leisurely blue sky and white clouds, the hazy gentleness of the moonlight; I can feel the care and love of others. ......

When you calm down and savor it slowly with your heart, you can give yourself a very positive answer: "I am happy!" ”