Can two people who are not in love be happy together?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-24
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Dizzy, how can you be happy without love If you have been together for a long time. It's saying that there is no love and that kind of thing. It is not necessary.

    You've been together for a long time. Love will turn into family affection, oh I have a deep understanding, but the two of you are just in love. There is no future involved, there is no love will not be happy After all, the other half will be looking for the person they want to love...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Happiness is a feeling, it does not depend on people's living conditions, but on people's state of mind, the characteristic of happiness is the peace of mind, the so-called contented people are always happy.

    Happiness is the feeling that people's desires feel when they are satisfied or partially satisfied, and it is a spiritual pleasure. The happiness that people get is temporary, just like misfortune, and with the passage of time, the sense of happiness and unhappiness will gradually fade, so if we want to continue to have happiness and live a happy life, we must continue to satisfy more desires. After people get a happiness, then people's desire for the same or the same type of happiness will decrease, when people get this or this kind of happiness again, the happiness will gradually decrease, and when they reach enough n times, the desire will become zero, and the happiness will become zero.

    When you fulfill a wish, achieve a goal, love someone, be loved, be in a momentary mood, be happy, and so on, all belong to happiness. Happiness has no distance, no standard, happiness is a feeling. When you're satisfied, you're happy.

    Contentment keeps happiness fresh (attachment).

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is no affection between two people, even if they are reluctantly together, even if they enter the palace of marriage, I think that such a marriage is two people who are strangers will definitely not last long, maybe we do not rule out that there will be such a situation as long-term love, but this situation is still quite rare.

    If two people have no feelings at all, they may be as strange and alienated as friends when they go to and from work every day, and there is no emotional connection between two people, then I think this home is cold and has no happiness at all.

    A marriage definitely needs two people to run together, two people don't have the heart to manage their feelings and manage this family such a marriage, in fact, it is an indifferent walking corpse, many people may think that when they reach a certain age, they can find someone suitable to make do with it, but after a long time, maybe you will see this person more and more annoyed, and the little things he does may make you particularly angry, so why continue to torture each other?

    If there is no love between two people, they don't know how to tolerate each other, trust each other, and love each other, even if it is to complete the mission, or to cope with the elders and have a child, then the parents have no love to give the child, in fact, it is really just one-sided love.

    Because there is no love, maybe a small flaw of the other party will become a contradiction between you, such a marriage is actually soulless, often in this case I think one party will hate the other person very much.

    So love needs to be responsible, marriage also needs to be responsible, if it's just because there is no love for the right marriage, then I think this kind of marriage is really meaningless, even if two people get married, they may be the most familiar strangers, two people respect each other like guests, isn't this what everyone calls existence in name only?

    When we choose the other half, we must consider whether this person is worthy of entrusting for life, and whether we love this person in our hearts, we must follow our inner feelings, and do not be bound by some traditional moral concepts.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Such a marriage will definitely not last long, because the most important thing in marriage is affection, if two people have no feelings for each other, then such a marriage is a kind of torment for each other.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It won't last long, because two people don't like each other at all, and if two people get married, there will be a lot of contradictions, and this kind of marriage is particularly boring.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Such a marriage will not last long at all, there is no affection between two people, but they come together because of the conditions, and there is no way to get a run-in in their personalities, and they will definitely divorce in the end.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If two people who have no feelings can barely make do with living together, then one of them is bound to find life boring, and once there are other emotional outlets, the marriage is likely to not last.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    For people who have no feelings, it is best for two people to be separated, which is better for everyone! After all, life is lived by two people together!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In the face of this question, first of all, we have to think clearly about what kind of life we need.

    1. Marriage based on money.

    A marriage built on money, you can do whatever you want when it comes to money and material things. But on top of feelings, you must do it in your heart to be indifferent, in the face of men's indifference, hurtful words, night trips, long-term business trips, ......Wait, for you, it doesn't matter, because you only have money in your heart, and as long as you have money, you can not care about everything.

    Second, there is affection and drinking water.

    This is a genus saying in Guangdong, which is a metaphor for two people who have true feelings, even if there is no bread, even if they drink water, they can fill their stomachs, and they do not ask for other material needs, and they live very happily!

    Affectionate and married, this kind of couple, their hearts are always sweet, no matter what happens, even if the sky falls, there is another half to support, will always take care of you, and even treat you as his heart and soul baby. No matter what kind of life they live, whether it is coarse tea and light food, or poor clothing and accommodation, in their hearts, as long as two people love each other, love each other, and accompany each other for a lifetime, this is perfect love, both simple and ordinary love, and it is this kind of love that can be called priceless love.

    Everyone has their own choices and different perspectives, and it is important to know what kind of life you need before you can pursue your own destiny.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you are with people who have no feelings, you will definitely not be happy, first of all, if you don't have a common language, if you can't talk about it, you will definitely not be happy, but some people live together. Feelings may be cultivated, but some people live together, and feelings may be cultivated slowly, because some are suitable for life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's hard to say, if the two don't have love, maybe they have feelings, and getting married is to see if the two feel natural and comfortable living together, tolerating each other, and taking care of each other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It depends on whether you have someone you love or not!

    If not, I guess I'll be happy.

    But if anything, it won't be happy!

    But. Whether you are in love with someone or not, and someone you don't love but love you, you will not be happy, at most happy! ~

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In fact, if there is no love between each other, they will definitely not be happy, because if there is not even a minimum of 1 point of love or love between two people, they will not feel the warmth, and this leakage will definitely not be happy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No love in a rapid rise, it must be unhappy, two people together, in addition to the high loss of love, but also the personality of the run-in, many things are very complicated, of course, we don't have to think about it is very complicated. There is only one situation, if two people don't love enough, you can cultivate a relationship, but if you don't have love at all, it is not recommended to be together.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If there is no love between each other, there will be no happiness at all, love is the basis of the relationship between two people, if two people are living together without a little feeling, they will not feel any happiness.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If there is no love between two people, then it is difficult to be together for a long time, because at the beginning there may only be some material things that put two people together, but in the end, the thing that connects is always a situation of needing love, or rising to the level of love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't think I'll be happy. If two people are together, they will be very tired, they will be tired of each other, and I believe they will not be able to walk for long. But if two people slowly get acquainted with each other, it will be different if they fall in love with Ling Jujube, and you can persist for a period of time to slowly cultivate love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think it may be more difficult to be together without love, but if there are other factors between them, such as celery, they may be able to live well, such as having that kind of child or reason to live together, then living together will not feel uneasy and happy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If two people don't have love, then they will really not be happy together, and there will be a lot of contradictions between the two of them, and this kind of life is very difficult for everyone.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If there is no love between them, they will be lucky to be together, then hell, they will not be happy together, and if there is no love between each other, they will not be lucky together.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There is no love between each other, and it will be very happy to hail together, as long as the two people get along with each other, it will be more peaceful, and this feeling makes people feel comfortable.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think this kind of relationship will be happy, and if there is really no love between each other, even if you barely live together, it will be very distressing.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There will be no happiness if you are together without love, but love can also be produced after a long period of being together.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If there is no love between two people, this cannot be repented and said that they will not be happy, then if it is said that the two Chun's pants are for a kind of responsibility, for a kind of responsibility, and choose to live together, there is no big problem, but relatively speaking, life looks more bland.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If there is no love between each other, will they be happy? I think love can be cultivated, even if you don't love each other for a while at first, you can fall in love with each other later. I don't think it's uncommon to shout big so it's possible.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Would we be happy if we weren't in love with each other? If you are definitely unhappy, you feel that it is a kind of torment, or even barely get by.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If the group lacks fruit and the two Chang argue or the old man has no love for each other, he will not be happy together, because there is no emotion, and the two people do not understand each other after seeing each other, so it is very embarrassing to live together.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If there is no love between each other, we will definitely not be happy together, and the reason why love makes us feel happy is because love is full of love. If there is no love between two spine people, then there is no happiness in being together, and if they don't love, let go. If you don't love and stay together, there will be no happiness.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    No. 1. There is no emotion, and it is difficult to tolerate each other.

    No matter what the relationship, as long as there are people, there will be all kinds of contradictions.

    Especially when a man and a woman live together, they will face all kinds of trivial things with each other.

    Too often, because of a little thing, because of a sentence, two people often quarrel, or even quarrel.

    Whenever there is a conflict, when there is affection between each other, the other party will be more willing to tolerate us, and we will be more willing to tolerate each other, and will not always let the conflict intensify, but will only quickly solve it and restore the relationship between each other.

    On the contrary, if there is no emotional foundation for each other at all, then we will really feel that we are willing to choose each other and live with each other, which is already very good, why let each other go.

    We will not be willing to accommodate, and the other party may not be willing to be considerate, we will only feel that we can pass it, and if we can't pass it, forget it, even if we leave it, it is not a big deal, and we can still be fine.

    This kind of relationship will really lack stable factors, and each other's years will only seem to be particularly full of gunsmoke, and if you are not careful, you will not be able to go on directly, it will be difficult to be happy, and it will be difficult to continue for a long time.

    No matter how much you like it, in the end, the liking will only fade, but it is precisely because of the beginning of liking, even if it fades, that many people will be willing to continue and always be willing to treat each other well.

    2. In a loveless marriage, there will always be something missing.

    I happened to see a post in which a girl said that she had been married for seven years and had never felt love.

    Although after getting married, each other's lives are getting better and better, but whenever I think of the so-called family, I feel a little lost, and deep in my heart, it seems that there is always something missing.

    is still very young, but she always has a feeling that she has lived in vain in this life, and this life is like this, what a pity.

    When we want to get married, we are indeed easy to become a little anxious, and even seem to be a little impulsive, just to complete the marriage, completely ignoring whether we like it or not, and whether we can have a good time in the future.

    At that time, we always overestimated our endurance for marriage, thinking that there was no love and nothing to do, but in fact, we always longed for a sincere love and hoped that we could really be pampered.

    If we don't have the opportunity to taste the taste of love, we will really be more unwilling to live with the person we like, this kind of unwillingness, at best, will only stir in our hearts, so that our emotions are not high, and it will affect more.

    If we can't be content with the status quo and put our minds on the current family, we will always feel disgusted with each other, disgusted with all this slippery, always want to escape, and every day is like sitting on pins and needles.

    This kind of mood, no matter how much material, often can't make up for it at all.

    Hope it helps, good luck guessing tease.

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