What kind of person can you tell from what kind of person you are?

In life, do you often feel that some of your subtle movements are often noticed by others, and judge what kind of person you are, how to read other people's minds, so that you can be comfortable in any place without being involved? How to prevent your mind from being read by others, so that you are not transparent in front of the other party? The American Micro Expression Research Center ACCS interprets human micro-expressions within the scope of data, and finds that human desires may be revealed through the body, that is, the real thoughts of human beings can be read through micro-expressions and micro-movements.

Here are 5 anomalous behaviors that expose our inner thoughts, have you been tricked?

1. Physical touch (nasty or not).

Want to know if the other person likes you or not? In fact, preliminary conclusions can be drawn from physical details. For example, you are friends who have just met, meet together in a certain place, in the process of talking, when you intentionally or unintentionally touch each other with your body, in the case of physical contact is more obvious, the other party does not resist, you will easily continue to communicate with the other party, if the other party is very resistant, you can choose to change the topic and take the first step, the other party's resistance fully shows that your actions are very annoying, so you can use physical touch to understand the other party's attitude towards you, and the other party can also understand your intentions through your behavior.

2. Abdomen orientation (like or dislike).

Psychologists believe that the abdomen is the most honest part of the human body, and when a person lies, the orientation of his abdomen can tell you the truth. Each of us is an emotional animal, when we meet a person we like or an object that we have loved for a long time, a lot of information will appear in our abdomen, and we will try to face the person or thing we like as much as possible. If someone you don't like approaches, you will immediately turn your body away and will not make eye contact.

3. Criss-cross (restlessness).

Psychologists point out that everyone has a sense of self-protection in their subconscious, if in front of acquaintances or in front of people we like, we will be very reckless to show ourselves, but if we encounter a dangerous environment, men and women often behave differently, which depends on the nature of both. Women are a particularly sensitive group, and if they encounter a threat, women tend to cross their fingers to protect their lower abdomen, while men will hold things in their hands to hide their inner uneasiness. At this time, you must take it easy and give the other party enough security, otherwise it will be difficult to make an appointment next time.

4. Nod and bend (respect).

If the other person respects you enough, then he will not be verbally aggressive towards you, but will nod and bend over you to show his recognition and appreciation for you.

5. Loud noise (resistance).

Suppose in a very formal setting, you are communicating with someone, and the other person suddenly makes a loud noise, but in fact the other person is expressing a kind of resistance, he does not approve of what you say or what you do, and a haughty gesture points at you to express his provocation against you. Such people will not easily agree with your ideas, but will only blindly attack. Therefore, when the other person is arrogant, you can choose to avoid it, because a proud person will not easily deny his previous conclusions.

Man is a social animal. Therefore, people always present their best side to others, which is the so-called "pretending". The more important the matter, the more unfamiliar the person, the more rational the person, the more people will choose to hide their true selves.

So if you want to see what kind of person a person is, look at the small things. Everyone understands the truth, so when facing some big things, they will always make the most consistent behavior in line with their personal life, daily cultivation, and human ethics. However, such behavior is not really yourself.

But most people eat this set. But in fact, in some small things that most people don't care about, can a person's true thoughts be reflected. So when looking at people, you should look at the small.

For example, depending on whether you are filial or not, you can't judge him by how he behaves in front of his parents' illness or others. Instead, it should be judged by the sudden response of his parents** when he is entangled in trivial matters.

If you can see yourself clearly, find your shortcomings first, and correct your shortcomings in time, your pain and grievances may be alleviated. Because the pain is unbearable, hurt yourself first. Thinking about it is better for physical and mental health than complaining about others.

As the saying goes, no one is perfect, sometimes others suddenly indifferent to us, it is indeed worth pondering, I want to know if I am wrong? Someone quarrels with us and says something bad about us, and most of them are also the links where we are deficient. From these words, you can also see and know yourself.

Again, empathize when there is a problem, and consider it from the other party's point of view, if I were him, would I be able to do it? You can also see your own shortcomings from it. There will be many people and things in life, and with the passage of time, they will slowly pass, and we can meet people who point out our shortcomings and severely criticize us, who are actually noble people in the process of our life experience.

I think the biggest criterion for recognizing yourself is to calm down and ask yourself: Do you like who you are? Do you like your current life?

Do you like the world? In modern society, materialism is rampant, people rarely focus on seeking their own hearts, but look too much at external reasons, for example, complaining about their bad background, complaining about their poor growth environment, complaining about the unfairness of this society, complaining about bad work, the boss is cold, complaining that their spouse does not know themselves enough, the best way to recognize themselves, in several books I have read, all talk about "meditation", this is the only way to recognize yourself, only to calm down, learn to get along with yourself, and listen to your inner voice, including your own breathing, the signals sent by your body, observing your own thoughts, and so on.

In a sense, almost everyone will have an industry or field that they don't know, and this part is also part of knowing ourselves, which is the part of our subconscious focus on developing, for example, sometimes you do something, you will find that even you don't realize that you can do it very well. I have a colleague who used to be an office clerk, and once found that she was also doing well in sales, and she was very happy to find this potential self, and then she switched jobs to sales. On the other hand, the self can also be changed and constantly enriched in practice, so knowing oneself is actually a lifelong topic.

Be responsible for your words and deeds! Man is not a casual Lord in the world! Do whatever you want!

Say whatever you want! If you want to say what you want to say and what you want to do, you must go through your own brain, and after careful consideration, you can say it again, and it's never too late to do it! Woe comes from the mouth.

When a person speaks, he doesn't act before he weighs and weighs things in advance! The consequences are often severe. I don't understand what I'm doing, I don't understand what I'm talking about, is such a person very confused?

Can you see yourself clearly?

Keep listening to your friends and family! Those who live and understand know the truth of loyalty! Can people who like to listen to good words and hate what others say to you can live and understand?

The answer is no! Come out and mix, you have to pay it back sooner or later! Those who do things well and dare to face them will have a wonderful road in life!

People who are confused also live day by day, but such days are not clear! Not only can't I understand it, but it's even more so for others!

First of all, you have to live and understand! A person's life is inherently short, don't live in a daze, have some ideas, a little ambition! With their own small goals, people have a head!

Keep working hard to realize your dreams, although a little tired, a little difficult, as long as the dream in your heart is not frightened by yourself, it is only a matter of time before you reach the other side!

Write a diary every day, record your feelings, and let others supervise yourself, in fact, sometimes the authorities are obsessed with bystanders, what you can't see, others can see clearly, so letting others supervise you is also a way to self-knowledge, set goals for yourself, learn more about the mental aspects, read more mental books, can help yourself know yourself.

1. Be decent and harmless.

2. Integrity, kindness and compassion.

3. Be diligent and conscientious, and have a sense of responsibility.

4. Work steadfastly, and you can rest assured that you can do things.

5. Optimistic and cheerful, with a good attitude.

6. Clear thinking and strong organization.

7. Work hard and conscientiously.

8. Strong memory and good understanding.

9. Like to read and have a wide range of knowledge.

10. Life is simple, and there is no city in the heart.

As can be seen from the above, this person is a serious and responsible Fan Zhao person with high learning ability. He takes everything very seriously and tries his best to do everything well. In addition, he is also able to rationally analyze the problem and take effective actions to achieve the goal.

Appearance can not only slowly see the appearance, but also from where to accompany his speech, manners, and the people he comes into contact with, as the saying goes, "things gather like people in groups" can also be roughly seen;

But character, human nature, and three views can't be seen in Luda.

Do a big thing yourself, and you will constantly discover your weaknesses and strengths because of all kinds of tedious things. For example, write a **, you will be surprised to find that your procrastination has deteriorated into cancer, you will find that your writing is surprisingly good, and your feelings are also a kilometer high, but you lack the ability to tell stories, you can't use stories to express your feelings, your literary heart is just the hypocritical sigh of most young people, lack of life experience, and even naïve and naïve. Test whether you can tolerate loneliness in your writing.

You must try to do something big, otherwise you don't know how small and great you are, and whether your actions can support your ideas.

To know what kind of person a person is, you first need to do specific things, and when you encounter your own things, you know what you are really like. For example, by eating, you know how much you eat; By eating different things, you know your eating habits; By studying in a different place, you know how ...... you are able to be independentEverything in life is your way to know yourself.

In order to get a fuller, more accurate image of ourselves in the eyes of others, we need to understand how people from all sides of our lives perceive us: partners, friends, loved ones, colleagues, ......To do this, you can do an anonymous survey online. You can design specific questions, such as:

Do you think I'm a lazy person? The answer is to pick a degree from 1-10. People are more willing to answer multiple-choice questions than open-ended questions that require their own output; It's also easier to choose within a range than to choose yes or no.

And the study also pointed out that in the case of anonymity, people are less affected by the "mom effect".

Most of the people I am happy to associate with have one characteristic: stable personality. When there is a big change in life circumstances, you will see that they still maintain their lives with the same attitude and interact with people with the same standard.

Of course, consistency is a luxury in many cases, but I can at least see a comforting self-consistency and consistency in them. The green mountains do not change, and the green water flows forever. The truth of human nature under the guise of money and upbringing can be revealed in the passage of time and the drastic changes of circumstances, so to truly know yourself, you might as well compare yourself at your peak and at your trough.

Ask yourself if my standards for dealing with others have fundamentally changed in these two very different circumstances, and if there has been a radical reversal in my view of the world. Comparing the two, the side that you don't know and don't know for yourself will be revealed.

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1. First of all, I agree that you can roughly see the type of person by talking and communicating.

Reason: The situation you mentioned, often two people meet and talk for the first time, where two strangers meet and talk for the first time, they will show that the other party appreciates their own side, which is the so-called "first impression", may meet and talk for the first time, and can not see what kind of person he is, but at least you can judge his character, experience, quality, cultivation and other aspects in the language, these things can not be disguised.

2. Because of this, we can't say that everyone is the same on the outside, but people want to show their good side and hide the bad side, which is a very normal thing and cannot be regarded as hypocrisy. It also depends on the relationship between you and the other party, if you are the leader of the unit, and he is an employee who comes to apply, he will naturally show all his good side, and he never wants you to see his bad side, driven by interests, it is not malicious, just human nature.

3. Through the conversation, you can find the similarities and differences with this person's concept in the discourse, the so-called things gather by like, people by groups, his ideas coincide with you, which naturally makes you accept him in your heart, if they are all opposite, you will naturally reject him, but this does not prove that he is not good, these things are relative rather than absolute.

4. If you want to judge a person's good or bad, you must first stand in a different angle to see objectively, otherwise it will be too one-sided, just a few words to give people a conclusion, not enough to believe, see people's hearts over time, the key is to communicate, only through things, can you see the person's character.

In the end, "people can't look good, and words can't fight" You can see the type of person by speaking, but if you want to make a definitive conclusion about this person, you have to observe it for a long time in the relationship. Person! It's not as good as the outside. It depends on who he's targeting.