Is friendship related to interests?????

There are many kinds of friendship, some friendships do not need to be maintained by interests, that is maintained by the heart, and some are linked by interests, when the interests of both parties are the same, friendship will be maintained, and when the interests are different, the friendship will naturally break down, which is "no eternal friends, no eternal enemies." ”

When you think sometimes there will be. When you think you don't have it, you don't.

There must be a relationship, and perhaps the friendship can be indestructible when it is not particularly harmful to his (her) interests

Friendship, how to put it, feels amazing.

Sometimes you can be happy, and sometimes you can be sad.

Friendship and interest have a certain relationship, however, it all varies from person to person.

As the saying goes: if people do not do it for themselves, the heavens and the earth will perish.

No matter how good a friend is, there is no guarantee that he will not do something to hurt you because of his interests.

Off topic: It's much better to rely on yourself than on others. At the very least, he will not hurt himself or betray himself.

Haha, give me the standard answer.

It depends on whether you are a gentleman or a villain, some people like to take advantage of small advantages, and when they see someone else's something, they are like a mosquito pestering others, or they don't even give a fart.

Before leaving school, most of the friends came together in friendship, and out of school, most of the friends came together in the relationship of interests, and there were many friendships in the school, which were also beneficial in the society, and it was too valuable to keep them.

It is generally said that the friendship of a friend is greater than the benefit. But in reality, such things are not as easy as they can be said casually. Specific problems need to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. It depends on the relationship between interests and friends.

If it is really a good friend who wants to be good to each other, this is of course important as a friend, if it is not a good friend in general, there are some entanglements between interests, if the interests are not big, friendship can also be important. At any time, small interests and friends should not care about this kind of gain or loss, or should care about the friendship between friends.

In the real world, there are only interests, and there is no pure friendship.

True friendship is only to use each other, and without the relationship of interests, there is no so-called friendship. The reason why the pure friendship between Guan Zhong and Bao Shuya has been passed down through the ages is because there are few in the world, and this is just a legend.

Are there some withered people around you, you care about him, but he never treats you as a good friend. Even if you do better than others, he still plays well with others.

I have also experienced such a thing in the past, when I had just come out of society, and I didn't know many people, basically they were some of the same age in the same township, and everyone had just come out of society, and they felt that they could huddle together to keep warm and take care of each other.

It was with this mentality that the reality taught me a hard lesson for not being able to balance. At that time, I felt that everyone came out of the same place, and what they did was always thinking about others, and they were all heartfelt and heartfelt to everyone.

Once, I had 1,200 yuan on me, which was also the salary I paid for ten days in the factory last month, because everyone usually works not far away, and they often get together to drink or something, and they also know that I pay my salary that day. A friend called me and told me that I needed money urgently, and asked me to borrow 1,000 yuan for emergency purposes first, but I didn't even think about it, and I just turned it over. Because I have always regarded them as good friends in my heart, I didn't even leave much for food for myself that month, and I only had 200 yuan on me, and I don't know what I came from that month.

This matter was nothing, but later I heard another friend say that he said bad things about me behind my back: saying that I beat ** to urge him every day for hundreds of yuan", "saying that I am too small", "I am afraid that he will not pay me back every day" and other words that hurt me.

Although it was only more than 3,000 a month at that time, and 1,000 yuan was also a ten-day shift for me, I never asked him again, and it also taught me a lesson.

No matter what happens, you always have to leave a way back for yourself, it's okay to be nice to others, but don't give everything for others, and you can give others some help within your ability without hurting your own interests

Friendship when I was a child was the purest, without any pressure from interpersonal interactions, and without any interests. It's a pity that many of my childhood playmates have a hard time getting back to the way they used to be. Those childhood friendships were simple and beautiful, and they are still stuck in my fond memories today.

Friendship between small children is the simplest, they just play together for the sake of playing. Most children are very greedy for companionship, and many times, two children just play together for the sake of playing, without any other purpose at all. This simple friendship is the purest of all kinds, without any demands and without caring about any interests.

Children who play well can give half of their belongings to another person. It can be said that the friendship when I was a child had more gifts from two children, they accompanied each other, gave each other gifts, and every gift came from my will. This kind of friendship cannot be found in the adult world, and every adult will not approach anyone simply for the sake of play, nor will he despise his own interests and give generously.

Childhood friendships are able to forgive each other for no reason. Each of us has some small conflicts with our playmates when we are young, but these conflicts are also very easy to resolve. At that time, it seemed that forgiving someone did not need any reason at all.

To this day, you can still hear many adults saying after a quarrel between two children, Jing Shiwan, "It's normal for children to fight with each other, and they will be reconciled in a few days." That's right, between children, if you say sorry, you can easily forgive each other, and you can reconcile as before. And it is difficult for quarrels in the adult world to have a good ending, and even if they are reconciled, they will not return as before.

Adults will remember the injuries they have suffered and the losses they have suffered, because no one wants to plant two heels in the same place.

Friend, what an irony it seems to me now. After experiencing all kinds of people, I found that the kind of friendship that can stick a knife in each other's ribs is a dream after all, and when I wake up from the dream, it will be broken.

I have always been poor at words, and I wore a mask of "indifference" at school all day long, although I never imagined that one day someone would be able to take it off for me, but when a thick wall was built in the heart room again, my heart was still cold, and it was no longer the same as before, but the warm blood was still flowing slowly.

My parents always told me when I was dismissive of those fake friendships that I should make more friends and do things easier in the future. I always retorted: "Since it's not sincere, why give it to him?"

They sneered and said, "How many of these friends are sincere?" It's all for the sake of profit, and on the surface it has to pass.

If you don't have friends, you won't be able to go on in the future! "They say in a flat tone the facts that countless people dare not admit, but I hate these words, why should anything sincere and pure be imagined so badly? Any benefit, in the final analysis, is not for money.

But if you really have money, will you be happy from the bottom of your heart? Of course not, humans are always greedy. When you don't have money, thinking about having money, and with money, you are afraid that one day you will wake up from a dream and return to the past when you were poor and white, and you will be terrified all day long, is this the so-called happiness?

What's the matter if you don't have money, even if you can't make yourself a superior person with what you get through your own labor, it's better than looking at other people's faces! If it is said that it is difficult to move an inch without friends, then those who are already living at the bottom of society, but who are ambitious, diligent, and capable, their friends are nothing more than them, and without the guidance of superiors, can they only be suppressed under this cold social law? I'm sure not.

The eyes of the masses of the people are bright, and you can be arrogant for a while, but you can't be arrogant for a lifetime. People who only rely on relationships, but do not work hard, can only make social development slower, and people who do not have real outstanding talents will only become more corrupt. For a strong country, its historical development trend will not lead to an increasingly depressed society, and the final result is nothing more than the current talent.

No knowledge, no ability, what hard are you! No matter how many relationships you have, but you can't protect yourself, do you think he will take care of you?

If I could, I would love to go back in time. Poor and simple, there is the most precious thing in it, and that is friendship. Remember, it didn't smell of copper, it was shiny and sprouting.